BBQ Bash Turns Bitter: Who's in the Wrong Here? 🚗🎉

Diply Social Team
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We've all been there: A casual get-together with coworkers turns into an unexpected drama. This is the story of a 25-year-old woman who attended her boss's birthday party, only to find herself in a carpool conflict. She agreed to give a ride home to a coworker, but things didn't go as smoothly as planned. Let's dive into the details of this intriguing tale. 🎉🚗

The Birthday Bash Begins 🎉

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The Carpool Request 🚗

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The Agreement and the Adventure 🤝

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The Party Peaks 🎉

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The Tension Rises 😬

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The Unplanned Exit 🚗

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The Aftermath at Work 🏢

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The Carpool Conundrum 🚗

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The Drink Dilemma 🍹

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The Legal Limit 🍺

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The Final Thoughts 💭

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Carpool Conundrum: Who's Really at Fault Here? 🚗🤔

So, here's the deal: A young woman attends a party, agrees to give a coworker a ride home, but doesn't plan to leave early. As the night progresses, the coworker grows tired and hints at wanting to go home. Our party-goer isn't ready to call it a night and stalls, leading to her coworker finding an alternative ride home. Now, she's left wondering if she's in the wrong for not leaving when her coworker wanted. What do you think? Let's see what the internet has to say about this carpool conundrum. 🚗🎉

NTA. You set clear conditions and didn't let her guilt you.

My_Dramatic_Persona | My_Dramatic_Persona

NTA: Lack of communication led to a bitter BBQ bash 🚗

ashtigerrr | ashtigerrr

🚗 YTA for drinking and driving, but others have different opinions

chessie_h | chessie_h

Did she have a valid concern or overreacted? 🤔

Ivybee81 | Ivybee81

NTA for not leaving early, but don't drink and drive 🚩

JudgyMcJudge-face | JudgyMcJudge-face

NTA but drinking and driving concerns raised by coworker 🚗

SpartanS034 | SpartanS034

Drinking and driving: different opinions on a dangerous practice 🚩

whateverrrrgrl | whateverrrrgrl

Miscommunication over leaving time, but drinking and driving is dangerous 🚨

jordanstolemyhat | jordanstolemyhat

"Drinking and Driving: Who's the A-hole?" 🚗🎉

Peanuts_Anonymous | Peanuts_Anonymous

Miscommunication about time leads to potential workplace tension. 🚗

Desert_Fairy | Desert_Fairy

Driver's decision: Not your fault, she didn't take you seriously. NTA

Seraphim2710 | Seraphim2710

NTA, but drinking may have made her uncomfortable. Cheers! 🥂

pimentoplanes | pimentoplanes

Drunk driving? YTA. 🤬

NoApollonia | NoApollonia

Designated driver drinks too much? YTA. Don't drink and drive.

a905 | a905

🍺🚫 YTA for drinking and driving. Irresponsible and dangerous.

totallystacey | totallystacey

Miscommunication over drinking leads to alternative plans. NAH situation.

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Drinking and driving? YTA. She called for alternative transport.

mafiaemmy | mafiaemmy

Drinking and driving? YTA! 🚩

Hereswitha | Hereswitha

Take charge and set the rules, it's your party! 🎉

Cogtain | Cogtain

Drinking and driving? YTA! 🚩

bertolous | bertolous

NTA: Stick to your word and don't let her bother you 🚗

mockingbird82 | mockingbird82

No a**hole here. Let's find out what happened! 🚗🎉

CrSkin | CrSkin

Stand your ground! You're not the a**hole in this situation. 💪

Deathsongg | Deathsongg

NTA. Accepting a ride means accepting their conditions. No rush.

TemporaryTortellini | TemporaryTortellini

NTA for having a few drinks as a responsible DD 🚗

Octopus69 | Octopus69

NTA. No a-hole here. Let's find out what happened! 🚗🎉

mextrawork | mextrawork

NTA. You communicated and compromised for her. Well done! 👏

FriendlyParsnips | FriendlyParsnips

NTA arrived late, miscommunication led to party misunderstanding. 🚗

firepit25 | firepit25

Entitled, passive aggressive, ungrateful 🚗🎉

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When your friend wants to leave your party early 😅

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NTA. Clear communication is key to avoiding misunderstandings. 👍

2catsaretheminimum | 2catsaretheminimum

Misunderstanding at BBQ leads to no a**holes here. 🚗

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit

Debate on drink driving: Is it acceptable or not? 🤔

Zounds90 | Zounds90

Drink responsibly! YTA for risking lives with drunk driving. 🚗

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NTA, but could have handled it with more finesse 🚗

AlexsSister | AlexsSister

YTA for drinking as the designated driver 🚗🎉

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NAH: Communication breakdown leads to BBQ drama. 🚗🎉

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Clear communication and responsible choices make you NTA 👏

sezrawr | sezrawr

Drinking and carpooling: a recipe for disaster? 🎉


ESH for entitlement and drink driving, but legal limit varies.

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Drinking rules vary by location, surprised to learn from comments! 😅

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Driver's decision absolves them of any responsibility. NTA! 👍

hannahsflora | hannahsflora

NTA. Setting boundaries and respecting them is crucial. 👍

BowtiepastaMasta | BowtiepastaMasta

NTA: Lifts and singing like an idiot 😂

Scarboroughwarning | Scarboroughwarning

Ride home, ride rules: NTA stands up to entitled partygoer 🤨

AdvancedInk | AdvancedInk

NTA. Don't be her chauffeur if she can't wait half an hour. 🚗

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NTA. Entitled beggars get called out. 🚗🎉

FelchingJesus | FelchingJesus

NTA. Etiquette is drivers rules. 👍

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

NTA: Not a taxi, not your responsibility. 🚗🙅‍♂️

HannahisBest133 | HannahisBest133

NTA - Setting boundaries and being honest. You did your part. 👍

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NTA. Stand your ground and don't let entitled people manipulate you. 🚗🎉

hypnotoad_discip1e | hypnotoad_discip1e

Partygoer not at fault, but may have had too much 🍻

SMW1984 | SMW1984

NTA. Don't control your driver's schedule. Find a better fit! 👍

Cr4ckshooter | Cr4ckshooter

YTA for drinking and driving, but NTA for not driving her! 🚩

aslak123 | aslak123

Drinking and driving? YTA! Stay safe on the roads! 🚩

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Misunderstanding over plans leads to a funny and classic situation 😂

himit | himit

Driver's decision: NTA, unless there's an emergency. 🚗

ChoiceConfidence | ChoiceConfidence

NTA: Miscommunication leads to bitter BBQ bash. 🚗🎉


Not the a**hole. But what happened? Tell us more! 🙇

plouf_plouf | plouf_plouf

Clear communication saved the day! 👍

risfun | risfun

A dangerous ride with consequences - everyone's at fault here. 🚗

sheltiesong | sheltiesong

NTA. Choosy beggars are annoying AF. You didn't not follow through. She got impatient and tried to treat you like her Uber. I hope you stayed and continued to have fun. 🚗🎉

grsb1 | grsb1

Age mystery: How does she have older kids? 🤔

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