Family gatherings can be a melting pot of joy, laughter, and sometimes, unexpected drama. This was precisely the case at one grandma’s 80th birthday celebration, where a seemingly innocent pizza party took a turn for the intense. When a young man noticed his cousin’s drastic weight loss, he couldn’t help but voice his concern. But was he in the right, or did he cross a line? Let’s dive into this saucy tale of familial conflict and pizza.
A Grand Celebration
Pizza for Everyone!
The Arrival of the Relatives
A Noticeable Change
The Pizza Party Begins
Concerns Begin to Surface
A Slice of Advice
The Debate Heats Up
Family Backs the Concern ♀️ ♂️
The Calorie Count Argument
Marika Fights Back
A Mother’s Assurance
The Aftermath
A Slice of Drama: Family, Pizza, and a Weighty Disagreement
In the midst of a joyous family celebration, a young man’s concern for his cousin’s drastic weight loss led to a heated debate over a slice of pizza. Marika, the cousin in question, insisted she wasn’t hungry and became increasingly frustrated with the pressure to eat. Despite the young man’s good intentions, the situation escalated, leaving Marika feeling annoyed and misunderstood. Her mother intervened, expressing gratitude for the concern but assuring everyone that Marika could handle herself. The party went on, but the pizza drama left a lingering taste. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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“YTA. She needs a therapist, not harassment at family gathering.”
“YTA. Badgering her about eating disorder at gathering = lose-lose “
“YTA. Talking about her weight is insensitive and judgmental. “
Insensitive comment sparks heated debate about weight and gatherings
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YTA mishandled the situation, harassed cousin, and didn’t confront mother.
“No social distancing?” – A valid concern during family pizza drama
“YTA it doesn’t matter if it came from a place of concern or not, what you did was unacceptable.”
Concerned family member’s insensitive comments about cousin’s weight. YTA
YTA gets called out for body-shaming.
YTA for confronting Marika about her weight in a public setting
Insensitive comments about cousin’s weight loss, triggered possible eating disorder
OP gets called out for insensitive approach to eating disorder
Family gathering during pandemic sparks heated debate. ♂️
Insensitive pestering about pizza won’t help someone with an eating disorder. YTA.
“YTA. You couldn’t have handled it worse.”
YTA for not being supportive of her health journey
Family feuds over weight loss and quarantine.
YTA – Approach with care, don’t make it about winning her over
“YTA. Don’t judge her weight loss. It’s not your business! “
“YTA. Lecturing someone on what they ‘should’ do doesn’t help. “
YTA. Don’t sexualize your cousin. Publicly embarrassed her. Not cool.
YTA for the food issue and inappropriate boob comment
“YTA. Pressure on someone with eating disorder makes habits worse.”
YTA accused of meddling in cousin’s weight loss journey
Offered pizza, declined. YTA made her uncomfortable. Time and place.
Judgment and health concerns fuel family drama during pandemic
Pressure and pizza drama: YTA comment sparks controversy
Bullying someone with a possible eating disorder? YTA.
YTA sparks heated debate. Drama unfolds over shocking weight loss
Insensitive comment about eating disorders and social distancing
Insensitive comment sparks heated debate about body shaming
“YTA. You need to educate yourself on eating disorders “
YTA implies anorexia diagnosis, apologize for jumping in.
YTA. Publicly shaming someone with an eating disorder is cruel
YTA for power tripping. What was your end game?
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YTA for partying during a pandemic and shaming your cousin
Supportive communication is key. Be patient and show unconditional love ❤️
“YTA. Approach with empathy, not judgment. Talk privately, listen, support. “
YTA. Don’t judge her based on her appearance. Mind your business
YTA – Insensitive comment about cousin’s weight loss sparks backlash
“YTA. You have no idea what’s going on with her. “
Pandemic pizza drama: Y’all are a**holes for gathering together!
YTA for gathering during a pandemic, endangering vulnerable grandma
Commenter accuses others of being a**holes
YTA- Your insensitive comment worsened her eating disorder struggle
Family’s hurtful comments on weight spark cousin’s eating disorder
Insensitive comments about cousin’s weight loss, lacking empathy and knowledge.
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Insensitive pizza intervention worsens eating disorder. YTA
Offering pizza repeatedly made you the a**hole
YTA for obvious reasons.. ♂️ Did you break social distancing guidelines too?
“Possibly anorexic” comment sparks armchair psychologist debate. YTA vs NAH.
YTA for risking lives with a pandemic family gathering.
Forcing food on someone with an eating disorder? YTA 100%
Intrusive comments about eating? YTA. Privacy is important.
Family gathering during pandemic sparks ESH drama
YTA for shaming her eating habits and reinforcing negative body image
Insensitive comments about cousin’s weight loss, lacking empathy
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YTA, there’s more to weight loss than just appetite. Mind ya business
YTA for being pushy and judgmental about someone’s weight loss
Insensitive comments about weight loss, let her be!
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YTA! Party during ‘rona season? Trying to off Grandma?
YTA for ruining the family gathering
“YTA. Don’t poke at someone struggling with an eating disorder. “
Misogyny and family drama at a shocking weight loss party
Pressuring someone to eat can have serious negative consequences
YTA comment sparks heated debate in pizza drama section
YTA- Don’t force someone to eat. Considered her feelings
