When life throws curveballs, it's our reactions that define us. In an emotionally charged saga, a 41-year-old man finds himself caught between the past and the present, love and duty, and two women who have shaped his life in profound ways. His ex-wife, battling a recurrence of cancer, has expressed her wish for him to become the guardian of her 14-month-old daughter. However, his current wife is vehemently against the idea. Let's dive into this whirlpool of emotions, conflict, and moral dilemmas. 🌪️💔
Man's Dying Ex-Wife Wants Him to Be Guardian to Her Child, But His Current Wife Says No! 😱
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In a heart-wrenching tale of love, loss, and loyalty, a man finds himself in the eye of a storm. His dying ex-wife's last wish is for him to become the guardian of her infant daughter - a request that sends shockwaves through his current marriage. His current wife, blinded by jealousy and resentment, refuses to entertain the idea. Amidst this emotional turmoil, the man stands firm, refusing to abandon the people he cares about, including an innocent child he's already bonded with. But what does the internet think of this complex situation? Let's dive into some of the top responses... 🌊💔
"YTA and oh my god you have no idea how sorry I feel for your current wife. The casual dismissal of her feelings, not even taking into account that she might have an opinion on bringing a child into a life you share, not willing to discuss the situation at all... Don't get me wrong, you're doing a great thing for your ex and her child, but the fact you speak of your WIFE like you're describing some annoying background noise...please check your priorities in life. Just...please." 😳
Yumehayla | Yumehayla
Yikes, losing two wives to one affair? That's a record! 😱
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YTA. Prioritizing ex's child over current relationship. Divorce advised. 😱
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"YTA. Your ex wife has other people to entrust." 😱
Bumblebuzz2 | Bumblebuzz2
YTA. Divorce #2? Brace yourself for more drama! 😱
Requiem_Of_Hyrule | Requiem_Of_Hyrule
YTA for not consulting your wife about being a guardian 🙄
the_paradox_lounge | the_paradox_lounge
Spouse threatens to leave if husband brings home a child! 🤪
Tizibumps | Tizibumps
YTA. Your poor current wife. 😔
gehanna1 | gehanna1
Ex accuses man of lingering feelings, sparking marital conflict. 😱
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Disagreement over taking in a child, YTA vs. wife's decision 🤷♂️
Rgirl4 | Rgirl4
"YTA. Your wife wants to stop sharing you with your ex. 😱"
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YTA for prioritizing your ex over your current wife. 🤯
Asleep_Pay_5133 | Asleep_Pay_5133
YTA for disregarding your wife's feelings about taking in a child 😱
amhran_oiche | amhran_oiche
YWTAH, wife's opinion matters. Don't ignore her, discuss and decide. 🙌
Vilesnice | Vilesnice
"YTA. Your current wife deserves better. 😱"
the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope
Divorce-worthy? Commenter slams OP for refusing dying ex-wife's request. 😱
agirlfromgeorgia | agirlfromgeorgia
Biological dad bailed and chose his actual wife over ex-wife.
mlfern90 | mlfern90
"YTA. Disregarding your wife's opinion? Not over your ex. 😱"
AMorera | AMorera
You're the a**hole! Drama unfolds in custody battle. 🤯
Hopeful_Pirate | Hopeful_Pirate
Divorce papers incoming! You're the a**hole! 😱
HygorBohmHubner | HygorBohmHubner
Prioritizing ex over current spouse? 🤔
Alternative-Spinach3 | Alternative-Spinach3
Heartbreaking dilemma: choosing between a child and your spouse. 💔
stormywhethers321 | stormywhethers321
YTA! Your current wife deserves better. 🤦♂️
alwaysabosstenesha | alwaysabosstenesha
YTA. Can't let go of the past? Your ex, your problem. 🙄
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Current wife feels neglected and threatened by ex-wife's child. 😢
Drago-Skullblade | Drago-Skullblade
YTA for not prioritizing your current wife's feelings and happiness 😡
Fitbarbie1 | Fitbarbie1
YTA. Your wife is questioning your actions. Will you listen?
thatbrunettegirl10 | thatbrunettegirl10
Ignoring your wife's feelings? You might be headed for divorce! 😱
atreides85 | atreides85
Man called YTA for bonding with affair child, wife disagrees. 😱
ProgmusicHans | ProgmusicHans
YTA! Ex-wife's dying wish vs. new wife's resentment. Drama unfolds! 😱
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"YTA. Prioritizing your ex over your current wife? Not cool. 😱"
dorrie6 | dorrie6
Current wife opposes ex-wife's request, tensions rise. YTA.
Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs
YTA - Ex's child isn't special, prioritize your current wife! 😱
spud_gun04 | spud_gun04
Commenter thinks man is the a**hole in this situation! 🤮
Hisoka1012 | Hisoka1012
YTA and soon to be single father, congrats! 🏅🏅
bitesthedustm8 | bitesthedustm8
YTA and divorce #2? Brace yourself for a wild ride! 😱
miithwork | miithwork
"YTA. Your wife's concerns aren't unfounded. Your special bond..."
Pretend-Preparation | Pretend-Preparation
Choose wisely! YTA, just pick one or the other. 😱
Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain
YTA for even considering it? Let's hear the backstory! 😱
CommodoreFluffypaws | CommodoreFluffypaws
🔥 Biggest YTA I've seen today! 🔥
SOFGames | SOFGames
Man's dying ex-wife wants him to be guardian, but current wife disagrees 😬
leakinglego | leakinglego
YTA for not discussing adoption with your wife first 🙅
worthless_01 | worthless_01
🔥 Commenter calls out OP for emotional affair and playing house with ex, while sympathizing with ex's situation.
Consistent_Language9 | Consistent_Language9
YTA - Bringing in a child without consent? Recipe for divorce! 😱
loudent2 | loudent2
You're the a**hole. Good luck with your second divorce. 😬
Kissed_By_Fire_X | Kissed_By_Fire_X
Commenter suggests divorcing current wife for ex-wife's child. 😱
hightec100 | hightec100
"YTA. Your wife's feelings matter too. Consider divorce." 😱
girlpower0823 | girlpower0823
YTA for prioritizing affair child over current wife. 😱
motheroftwocuties | motheroftwocuties
Current wife rightfully upset, ex manipulating, prioritize second marriage. 😱
simpson_hey | simpson_hey
YTA for neglecting your current wife's feelings and priorities. 😱
Poprock077 | Poprock077
ESH except the little girl. 😱
coconutandpotato | coconutandpotato
Choose wisely: ex-wife's child or current wife? 🤔
susan2552 | susan2552
Ex's visit causes tension between husband and wife. YTA.
patrioticmarsupial | patrioticmarsupial
INFO: Timeline confusion and potential betrayal, leading to possible TA.
Molenium | Molenium
YTA. Ex's child causing marital conflict. Tough decision ahead. 😱
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Current wife wants out due to ex's lingering presence. 😱
anngrn | anngrn
"YTA. You're a weak, selfish coward. Both women deserve better. 😱"
ReinaDulce | ReinaDulce
Divorce her? YTA. Respect and communicate with your wife! 🚩
AmIBeingPunkd- | AmIBeingPunkd-
Exes as friends? YTA crossed the line. 😱
ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr
Choosing ex-wife's wishes over current wife? YTA! 😱
Tkay906363 | Tkay906363
Marriage woes: Disrespecting vows, YTA, divorce looming. 😱
myxgreasyxflannel | myxgreasyxflannel
YTA: Wife runs like hell from this messy situation! 😱
damyoudon | damyoudon
User calls out OP for potential divorce and parenting issues! 😱
__chill | __chill
YTA! Your poor wife deserves better! 😢
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YTA - A contentious situation with conflicting opinions. 🤷♂️
ziliymodas | ziliymodas
OP missing in action! 🤷♂️
Pinkflip15 | Pinkflip15
> I'm currently having her daughter in my house, What?? 😱 How much child support is the father paying you?? YTA and a damn fool. Get another divorce and figure out who you are as an adult before you protrate yourself as a suffering servant for decades in front of all these people. Wait..... Is she rich? Is there a will with you in it? Like, what's the rest of this story that I'm missing?
freakwent | freakwent
YTA for prioritizing ex-wife's request over current wife's feelings. 😱
ahhahaha17 | ahhahaha17
Incoming ex wife 2 thinks YTA. Drama alert! 😱
Burney1 | Burney1
"Man adopts ex's child against wife's wishes. YTA." 😱
dabu7 | dabu7
