Brother Cheats on Wife, Blames Struggle with Sexuality 😲

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Imagine growing up in a religious household where your father cheated on your mother and expected everyone to accept it. That's the background of our story today. The protagonist, a 38-year-old man, shares his experience with his 30-year-old brother, who had always tried to please their father. The protagonist noticed that his brother visited gay support sites when they were younger but never confronted him. Fast forward to the present day, and the brother is now married to a wonderful woman named Julie. However, things take a shocking turn when Julie reveals that her husband has been cheating on her with a male coworker for three years. 😲💔

Religious Household and a Cheating Father

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Brother's Struggle with Sexuality

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Enter Julie, the Loving Wife

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Julie's Heartbreaking Discovery

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Confronting the Cheating Brother

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Brother's Shocking Accusation

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Standing Up for Julie

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An Attempt to Clarify

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Addressing the Real Issue

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Seeking Closure and Responsibility

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The Right Thing to Do

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Family Drama Unfolds: Cheating, Lies, and Accusations 😲

In this rollercoaster of a story, the protagonist confronts his brother for cheating on his loving wife, Julie. The brother tries to justify his actions by blaming his struggle with accepting his sexuality. The protagonist, however, doesn't buy it and insists that cheating is cheating, regardless of the circumstances. He sends a heartfelt email to his brother, urging him to take responsibility for his actions and help Julie find closure. Will the brother own up to his mistakes and make amends? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💬

Cheating is not excused by sexuality. NTA for OP.

Facepalmawall | Facepalmawall

Cheating is a breach of trust and a potential health hazard 😱

My-Username-Is-Dis | My-Username-Is-Dis

Cheating is cheating, no matter the justification. Brother is TA. 👎

myredditorname | myredditorname

Cheating is never justified 🙅

gavinator4002 | gavinator4002

Brother's sexuality doesn't excuse cheating on wife. #NTA 👍

MotherofNugget | MotherofNugget

Cheating is cheating, regardless of sexuality. NTA. 👍

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Cheating is cheating, regardless of his sexuality. NTA.

Luna-Strange | Luna-Strange

Cheating is cheating, sexuality is not an excuse 🙄

rajwebber | rajwebber

Cheating is cheating, sexuality is not an excuse. NTA 👍

MindlessRobot_7 | MindlessRobot_7

A humorous reply referencing Brooklyn Nine-Nine.

McReaperking | McReaperking

NTA. Cheating is cheating, he's justifying it with sexuality struggles 😒

vPaladin81 | vPaladin81

Cheating is never okay. NTA stands for Not The A-hole.

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NTA, brother playing victim, book recommendation for family choices 📚

Ragingredblue | Ragingredblue

NTA stands up for fidelity and calls cheaters out 👏

xosomeblonde | xosomeblonde

NTA. Cheating is cheating. Julie needs to get checked for STIs.

Bollywood_Fan | Bollywood_Fan

Commenter defends calling out cheating brother's sexuality excuse 👍

bucketjoke | bucketjoke

Divorce first! NTA comment sparks agreement 👍

MaddyKet | MaddyKet

Discovering sexuality doesn't justify hurting others. #NTA 👍

Panaccolade | Panaccolade

Calling out cheating brother's excuse for sexuality struggles. NTA 👏

EmmiCeedee | EmmiCeedee

Brother's struggle with sexuality hurts innocent party. NTA.

B4pangea | B4pangea

Cheating is cheating, no matter how you try to justify it 😑

UpsetDaddy19 | UpsetDaddy19

Cheating for 3 years and using his wife as a 'beard'. NTA.

Spell_Blade | Spell_Blade

Brother cheats on wife, gets no sympathy for sexuality struggle 😒

scrunchie88 | scrunchie88

Closed marriage doesn't justify cheating 😒

Izzyl92 | Izzyl92

Caught him red-handed with old browser history. NTA confirmed 👍

Threeballer97 | Threeballer97

Supporting brother's struggle with sexuality after cheating on wife. 👨‍👨‍👩‍👩‍👦‍👦 Let's promote empathy and understanding.

katspawprint | katspawprint

Straightforward judgement on cheating with a touch of sarcasm 😏

cyberpig992 | cyberpig992

Supportive yet firm response to brother's sexuality and infidelity 👍

pretty_coffee_cup | pretty_coffee_cup

Honesty is the best policy. Cheating is cowardly 😱

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Betrayed by twin brother's infidelity and lies, relationship ruined 😢

Agodda13 | Agodda13

NTA, Cheating is wrong. Acceptance doesn't justify infidelity. 🙅

Clap4Lights | Clap4Lights

Cheating is never justified, even with sexuality struggles. #NTA 🚫

ChalkButter | ChalkButter

Brother cheats, blames sexuality. Commenter says not the a**hole.

jobrummy | jobrummy

The 'Spacey Defense' is born, and rightfully called out 😊

ConcernedSecure | ConcernedSecure

Choosing to cheat doesn't make you any less of an a**hole 💔

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Commenter calls out cheating brother's excuse with humor 🤣

RedditDK2 | RedditDK2

Cheating is cheating, struggling with sexuality is not an excuse 🙅

JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100

A story of a friend's husband's journey through cross-dressing, being gay, and cheating.

Drachenfuer | Drachenfuer

Exploring sexuality is no excuse to cheat 👍

literarylezbean | literarylezbean

Cheating is never okay, using sexuality to excuse it is worse 😒

New-Exchange6027 | New-Exchange6027

Supportive ex-husband encourages exploring sexuality, but not at others' expense 👍

PaytonImagine93 | PaytonImagine93

Cheating is cheating, no matter the excuse. NTA comment agrees.

Aggressive_Complex | Aggressive_Complex

Cheating brother uses sexuality as an excuse, but OP calls BS. 😒

Ellinmara | Ellinmara

Supporting sexuality doesn't excuse infidelity. NTA stands firm 👏

Well_Lit_Kiwi | Well_Lit_Kiwi

Being LGBT isn't a free pass to be an a**hole 🙏

Ginger_Tea | Ginger_Tea

Commenter empathizes with the betrayed wife and condemns cheating.

anonymouswriter2021 | anonymouswriter2021

Supportive comment defends brother's sexuality and questions anger towards cheating.

PsychologyAutomatic3 | PsychologyAutomatic3

Calling out brother's cheating and hypocrisy, supporting girlfriend. 💪

Twilimark | Twilimark

Encouraging acceptance and communication can prevent cheating and hurt.

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Infidelity excuses won't work, honesty is the best policy 👍

MikkiTh | MikkiTh

NTA suggests therapy for brother who cheated on wife.

OftheSea95 | OftheSea95

Supporting family without condoning actions 👥

RegularDude2345 | RegularDude2345

Cheating is never justified. Communication is key. NTA.

TheFoxAndTheRaven | TheFoxAndTheRaven

Cheating is never justified, even if struggling with sexuality. 🚫

raniaericka | raniaericka

No sympathy for cheaters. NTA comment section agrees 🙅

elementgermanium | elementgermanium

Cheating is never okay, regardless of sexuality. NTA comment.

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Exploring sexuality is not an excuse to cheat. #NTA 👍

Silicone-Julie | Silicone-Julie

Brother's struggle with sexuality doesn't excuse cheating on wife 😒

ExcitementGlad2995 | ExcitementGlad2995

NTA for not falling for your brother's guilt trip 👏

ihatearguingwithppl | ihatearguingwithppl

NTA calls out those who cheat and blame sexuality struggles 🔥

singer96 | singer96

Commenter calls out brother's cheating and excuses, supports OP's stance. 💪

whitewing2611 | whitewing2611

NTA for being angry at brother's cheating due to personal experiences. 🙅

Speakklife | Speakklife

Cheating is cheating, sexuality is not an excuse 👍

AnyConstellation | AnyConstellation

Support for not being homophobic in reacting to cheating scandal 👍

billnyetherussiansoy | billnyetherussiansoy

Cheating is cheating. The commenter won't tolerate disrespect. 👍

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Cheating is never excusable. Heartbreaking story of infidelity 💔

AylaZelanaGrebiel | AylaZelanaGrebiel

Excusing bad behavior with sexuality? 🤔

RedLimes | RedLimes

Cheating is cheating, regardless of gender. Don't minimize it. 😒

will_dog2019 | will_dog2019

Commenter supports self-acceptance but calls out infidelity 👏

EarthBelcher | EarthBelcher

Acceptance of sexuality doesn't excuse hurting others. NTA.

Ocniro | Ocniro

Calling out excuses for cheating 👏

Prime984 | Prime984

Cheating is never okay, regardless of the reason 🙅

iastl | iastl

Respect and communication are key in any relationship 💌

MissCheyenne14 | MissCheyenne14

NTA wonders about wife's sex life and speculates on emotional abuse 🤔

HoosierDadda | HoosierDadda

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