Imagine growing up in a religious household where your father cheated on your mother and expected everyone to accept it. That's the background of our story today. The protagonist, a 38-year-old man, shares his experience with his 30-year-old brother, who had always tried to please their father. The protagonist noticed that his brother visited gay support sites when they were younger but never confronted him. Fast forward to the present day, and the brother is now married to a wonderful woman named Julie. However, things take a shocking turn when Julie reveals that her husband has been cheating on her with a male coworker for three years. 😲💔

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Religious Household and a Cheating Father

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Brother's Struggle with Sexuality

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Enter Julie, the Loving Wife

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Julie's Heartbreaking Discovery

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Confronting the Cheating Brother

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Brother's Shocking Accusation

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Standing Up for Julie

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An Attempt to Clarify

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Addressing the Real Issue

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Seeking Closure and Responsibility

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The Right Thing to Do

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Family Drama Unfolds: Cheating, Lies, and Accusations 😲
In this rollercoaster of a story, the protagonist confronts his brother for cheating on his loving wife, Julie. The brother tries to justify his actions by blaming his struggle with accepting his sexuality. The protagonist, however, doesn't buy it and insists that cheating is cheating, regardless of the circumstances. He sends a heartfelt email to his brother, urging him to take responsibility for his actions and help Julie find closure. Will the brother own up to his mistakes and make amends? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💬
Cheating is not excused by sexuality. NTA for OP.

Facepalmawall | Facepalmawall
Cheating is a breach of trust and a potential health hazard 😱

My-Username-Is-Dis | My-Username-Is-Dis
Cheating is cheating, no matter the justification. Brother is TA. 👎

myredditorname | myredditorname
Cheating is never justified 🙅

gavinator4002 | gavinator4002
Brother's sexuality doesn't excuse cheating on wife. #NTA 👍

MotherofNugget | MotherofNugget
Cheating is cheating, regardless of sexuality. NTA. 👍

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Cheating is cheating, regardless of his sexuality. NTA.

Luna-Strange | Luna-Strange
Cheating is cheating, sexuality is not an excuse 🙄

rajwebber | rajwebber
Cheating is cheating, sexuality is not an excuse. NTA 👍

MindlessRobot_7 | MindlessRobot_7
A humorous reply referencing Brooklyn Nine-Nine.

McReaperking | McReaperking
NTA. Cheating is cheating, he's justifying it with sexuality struggles 😒

vPaladin81 | vPaladin81
Cheating is never okay. NTA stands for Not The A-hole.

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NTA, brother playing victim, book recommendation for family choices 📚

Ragingredblue | Ragingredblue
NTA stands up for fidelity and calls cheaters out 👏

xosomeblonde | xosomeblonde
NTA. Cheating is cheating. Julie needs to get checked for STIs.

Bollywood_Fan | Bollywood_Fan
Commenter defends calling out cheating brother's sexuality excuse 👍

bucketjoke | bucketjoke
Divorce first! NTA comment sparks agreement 👍

MaddyKet | MaddyKet
Discovering sexuality doesn't justify hurting others. #NTA 👍

Panaccolade | Panaccolade
Calling out cheating brother's excuse for sexuality struggles. NTA 👏

EmmiCeedee | EmmiCeedee
Brother's struggle with sexuality hurts innocent party. NTA.

B4pangea | B4pangea
Cheating is cheating, no matter how you try to justify it 😑

UpsetDaddy19 | UpsetDaddy19
Cheating for 3 years and using his wife as a 'beard'. NTA.

Spell_Blade | Spell_Blade
Brother cheats on wife, gets no sympathy for sexuality struggle 😒

scrunchie88 | scrunchie88
Closed marriage doesn't justify cheating 😒

Izzyl92 | Izzyl92
Caught him red-handed with old browser history. NTA confirmed 👍

Threeballer97 | Threeballer97
Supporting brother's struggle with sexuality after cheating on wife. 👨👨👩👩👦👦 Let's promote empathy and understanding.

katspawprint | katspawprint
Straightforward judgement on cheating with a touch of sarcasm 😏

cyberpig992 | cyberpig992
Supportive yet firm response to brother's sexuality and infidelity 👍

pretty_coffee_cup | pretty_coffee_cup
Honesty is the best policy. Cheating is cowardly 😱

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Betrayed by twin brother's infidelity and lies, relationship ruined 😢

Agodda13 | Agodda13
NTA, Cheating is wrong. Acceptance doesn't justify infidelity. 🙅

Clap4Lights | Clap4Lights
Cheating is never justified, even with sexuality struggles. #NTA 🚫

ChalkButter | ChalkButter
Brother cheats, blames sexuality. Commenter says not the a**hole.

jobrummy | jobrummy
The 'Spacey Defense' is born, and rightfully called out 😊

ConcernedSecure | ConcernedSecure
Choosing to cheat doesn't make you any less of an a**hole 💔

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Commenter calls out cheating brother's excuse with humor 🤣

RedditDK2 | RedditDK2
Cheating is cheating, struggling with sexuality is not an excuse 🙅

JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100
A story of a friend's husband's journey through cross-dressing, being gay, and cheating.

Drachenfuer | Drachenfuer
Exploring sexuality is no excuse to cheat 👍

literarylezbean | literarylezbean
Cheating is never okay, using sexuality to excuse it is worse 😒

New-Exchange6027 | New-Exchange6027
Supportive ex-husband encourages exploring sexuality, but not at others' expense 👍

PaytonImagine93 | PaytonImagine93
Cheating is cheating, no matter the excuse. NTA comment agrees.

Aggressive_Complex | Aggressive_Complex
Cheating brother uses sexuality as an excuse, but OP calls BS. 😒

Ellinmara | Ellinmara
Supporting sexuality doesn't excuse infidelity. NTA stands firm 👏

Well_Lit_Kiwi | Well_Lit_Kiwi
Being LGBT isn't a free pass to be an a**hole 🙏

Ginger_Tea | Ginger_Tea
Commenter empathizes with the betrayed wife and condemns cheating.

anonymouswriter2021 | anonymouswriter2021
Supportive comment defends brother's sexuality and questions anger towards cheating.

PsychologyAutomatic3 | PsychologyAutomatic3
Calling out brother's cheating and hypocrisy, supporting girlfriend. 💪

Twilimark | Twilimark
Encouraging acceptance and communication can prevent cheating and hurt.

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Infidelity excuses won't work, honesty is the best policy 👍

MikkiTh | MikkiTh
NTA suggests therapy for brother who cheated on wife.

OftheSea95 | OftheSea95
Supporting family without condoning actions 👥

RegularDude2345 | RegularDude2345
Cheating is never justified. Communication is key. NTA.

TheFoxAndTheRaven | TheFoxAndTheRaven
Cheating is never justified, even if struggling with sexuality. 🚫

raniaericka | raniaericka
No sympathy for cheaters. NTA comment section agrees 🙅

elementgermanium | elementgermanium
Cheating is never okay, regardless of sexuality. NTA comment.

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Exploring sexuality is not an excuse to cheat. #NTA 👍

Silicone-Julie | Silicone-Julie
Brother's struggle with sexuality doesn't excuse cheating on wife 😒

ExcitementGlad2995 | ExcitementGlad2995
NTA for not falling for your brother's guilt trip 👏

ihatearguingwithppl | ihatearguingwithppl
NTA calls out those who cheat and blame sexuality struggles 🔥

singer96 | singer96
Commenter calls out brother's cheating and excuses, supports OP's stance. 💪

whitewing2611 | whitewing2611
NTA for being angry at brother's cheating due to personal experiences. 🙅

Speakklife | Speakklife
Cheating is cheating, sexuality is not an excuse 👍

AnyConstellation | AnyConstellation
Support for not being homophobic in reacting to cheating scandal 👍

billnyetherussiansoy | billnyetherussiansoy
Cheating is cheating. The commenter won't tolerate disrespect. 👍

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Cheating is never excusable. Heartbreaking story of infidelity 💔

AylaZelanaGrebiel | AylaZelanaGrebiel
Excusing bad behavior with sexuality? 🤔

RedLimes | RedLimes
Cheating is cheating, regardless of gender. Don't minimize it. 😒

will_dog2019 | will_dog2019
Commenter supports self-acceptance but calls out infidelity 👏

EarthBelcher | EarthBelcher
Acceptance of sexuality doesn't excuse hurting others. NTA.

Ocniro | Ocniro
Calling out excuses for cheating 👏

Prime984 | Prime984
Cheating is never okay, regardless of the reason 🙅

iastl | iastl
Respect and communication are key in any relationship 💌

MissCheyenne14 | MissCheyenne14
NTA wonders about wife's sex life and speculates on emotional abuse 🤔

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