Mom Supports Kids After They Snap at Cousin: Did She Do the Right Thing?

Picture this: you’re a mom of two teenagers, and you’re on a family camping trip. Your kids have been complaining about their cousin’s behavior, and things finally reach a boiling point. When your daughter snaps at her cousin, you back her up. But now, you’re left wondering if you did the right thing. This is the story of a mom who found herself in that very situation. Let’s dive into the details and see if we can figure out who’s in the right here. ️

The Family Dynamics

Cousin Gabe: The Problem Child

Gabe’s Unpleasant Behavior

No Escape from Gabe

Family Camping Trip Drama ️

Gabe’s Persistence

Gabe’s Jealousy

FIL’s Sneaky Move ️

Gabe’s Bullying Continues

Seeking Refuge in Mom’s Trailer

Gabe’s Persistence, Again

Ally’s Breaking Point

Mom’s Support

Gabe’s Sulking

The Aftermath: Was Mom Right?

So, there you have it: a family camping trip turned sour by cousin Gabe’s behavior. Ally, the daughter, finally snaps and tells Gabe off, and mom supports her decision. But now, with nasty texts from her sister-in-law and a sulking Gabe, the mom is left wondering if she did the right thing. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA. Kids stand up to bully cousin, parents support them.

Support for setting boundaries with cousins in school

Commenter suggests finding solutions that don’t bully a 16yo

Commenter raises red flag about Gabe’s behavior and suggests a healthier approach. Replies discuss Gabe’s potential issues and responsibility of adults.

Commenter calls out OP for failing Gabe and her own kids.

NTA mom gets support for setting boundaries with cousin

ESH. Lack of communication caused unnecessary conflict and disrespect.

SIL’s son needs counseling and a change in behavior. NTA

Commenter suggests Gabe may need help due to neglect/abuse suspicions

Doubtful comment and replies call out inconsistencies in the story

Mom supports daughter standing up to cousin’s bad behavior.

Commenter suggests Gabe may be on the spectrum.

Aunt reinforces cruelty and bullying, ESH.

Honesty is the best policy when it comes to kids

Supportive mom sets boundaries for her kids and cousin

Teacher supports mom and advises her to contact the school

Supportive mom handles cousin conflict with grace and empathy.

Commenter calls out parent for not intervening earlier, YTA.

NTA. Commenter suggests talking to family and school about behavior.

Lack of empathy from all parties involved, sad situation

Culture clash on ‘bullying the bullies’ approach, concern for Gabe’s home.

Addressing school situation: kick up a fuss for all kids

Commenter calls out parent for bullying behavior towards cousin. YTA

Commenter and reply agree: YTA for not being a responsible adult.

Debate on whether 16-year-old is a child sparks ESH verdict ‍♂️

Age difference in classes sparks debate

Commenter suggests considering cousin’s home life and social difficulties

Commenter suggests empathy for troubled teenager, questions approach of others.

Concerned commenter suggests talking to Gabe about behavior

Commenter defends mom’s decision to support her kids against bully.

Standing up to condescending cousin, enabling parents. NTA

Parent called out for bad behavior and parenting skills.

Mom defends kids for not entertaining cousin in class. NTA

Commenter calls out parent for not handling conflict maturely

Commenter suggests OP may be the real bully, YTA verdict.

NTA for setting ground rules against bullying cousin

Commenter jokingly suggests watchlist for misbehaving cousin

Commenter calls out Gabe, sparks debate on parenting style

Supportive comment calls out bullying and bad parenting

Concerned commenter suggests possible underlying issue with cousin. NTA.

A thoughtful comment on handling an offensive cousin

Parenting advice: Take action instead of burdening your daughter. ‍

Commenter suggests getting help for troubled cousin to prevent future issues

Encouraging mean behavior? YTA according to this comment.

Teaching manners: NTA calls out entitled behavior

NTA commenter questions Gabe’s parents’ responsibility for hygiene and behavior.

Mom defends kids against school bully, NTA

Empower your kids to stand up to entitled bullies. NTA

Curious commenter questions academic setup in the story

Teaching conflict resolution to kids is crucial for avoiding blowups

Concerns raised about cousin’s mental health and suggested LD program.

Commenter suggests help for obnoxious cousin’s hygiene and manners.

Teaching kids to stand up for themselves: YTA comment.

Mom supports kids after cousin bullies them. NTA.

Stand up to bullies, don’t make excuses

Setting boundaries with family: NTA mom supports bullied daughter

Daughter stood up for herself and others against annoying cousin

Mom defends kids against bully cousin, internet approves

Commenter empathizes with Gabe’s potential neurodiversity, blames adults not addressing his behavior.

Commenter suggests better solutions, calls everyone sucky (ESH)

Gabe needs help and mom’s kids were rude. ESH

Commenter questions parenting and assumptions about cousin’s behavior.

Commenter criticizes parent for not addressing bullying earlier.

Commenter suggests apologizing to SIL and Gabe for harshness.

Commenter supports mom for standing up to rude kids.

Trust and support are key