Bartender Shares Woman's ID With Strangers: Just a Joke or Crossing the Line? 😲

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Imagine going out with friends and having your ID handed around to strangers by the bartender. That's what happened to one woman, who we'll call Babyface, when she went out for a night on the town. The bartender, Trent, carded her as usual, but then things took an unexpected turn. When a random guy asked her age, Trent not only shared the information but also handed her ID to the stranger. 😲 Babyface was not amused and called the manager the next day, but her friends think she's overreacting. Let's dive into this story and see if Babyface was justified in her actions or if she should have just let it go.

Carded and Confused 🍻

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Random Guy's Curiosity 🤨

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

ID Gone Rogue 😳

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Pass the Parcel, Pass the ID 🔄

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Friend Defends Bartender 🤷‍♀️

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Babyface vs. Lilly 💬

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

The ID's Sensitive Info 🏠

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Boyfriend's Take on the Situation 😅

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Past Stalker Experience 😨

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Bothered and Disturbed 🤔

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Calling the Manager ☎️

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

Lilly's Accusation 😠

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

The Big Question: AITA? 🤷‍♀️

whothatisnow | whothatisnow

A Joke or a Privacy Invasion? 🤔

Babyface's experience at the bar has left her questioning whether she overreacted or if her concerns were valid. After all, her ID contains sensitive information like her name and address, and she's had a stalker in the past. Her friends and boyfriend think she's making a big deal out of a harmless joke, but Babyface can't help but feel uneasy. Was it just a joke, or did Trent cross the line? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭

Bartender shares woman's ID as a joke, friends dismiss her trauma. 😱

BonifideStoner12 | BonifideStoner12

Bartender shares woman's ID with strangers, putting her safety at risk. NTA for reporting.

Anewstageinlife | Anewstageinlife

Bartender shares woman's ID with strangers. Commenters agree: NTA 😲

ChocolateKoko | ChocolateKoko

Bartender's joke crosses the line, NTA calls out sexualization and danger. 🚨

KentuckyRootHero | KentuckyRootHero

Sharing personal information is not a joke 😱. Commenters support OP's reaction.

Stanski11 | Stanski11

GDPR laws protect privacy in Europe, NTA for complaining. 👏

TheZZ9 | TheZZ9

Sharing personal information is never a joke. NTA. 🚨

pnb10 | pnb10

Bartender shares woman's ID with strangers, commenter calls out crossing line

QuackLikeMe | QuackLikeMe

Doxxed against her will, commenter receives support from community. 👏

carbinePRO | carbinePRO

Reporting the incident prevented potential harm. Jokes have consequences. 🚨

Logical-Cranberry714 | Logical-Cranberry714

Bartender crosses the line by sharing personal info. NTA reaction justified 💪

Cute_Berry_7295 | Cute_Berry_7295

Bartender shares woman's ID without consent, friend defends him. NTA 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sharing personal info? Not cool! NTA, OP takes stand 💪

angelaelle | angelaelle

Bartender's joke could have put customer in danger. NTA comment.

NoiseDefiant2542 | NoiseDefiant2542

Bartender crosses the line sharing personal info. NTA.

toofat2serve | toofat2serve

Sharing someone's ID is a big no no 🙅

Dearic75 | Dearic75

Boyfriend's reaction to safety concern criticized 😠

PlaneEnough3246 | PlaneEnough3246

Putting safety first, NTA suggests calling the bar owners 👍

AdvisorSame5543 | AdvisorSame5543

Disclosing private information is no joke 🙅. NTA stands firm.

s1m0n_s3z | s1m0n_s3z

Sharing personal info is never a joke. NTA took action.

ohsogreen | ohsogreen

Bartender shares woman's ID with strangers, NTA calls him out 🔥

PolyPolyam | PolyPolyam

Bartender crosses the line by sharing ID with strangers 😱

rollergoddessITM | rollergoddessITM

Calling the employer was the best course of action 👍

Superman530 | Superman530

Bartender compromised guest's privacy, NTA says they should be fired 😱

SacredC0w | SacredC0w

Bartender shares woman's ID, commenter says NTA with sassy response

I-Dont_Like_You | I-Dont_Like_You

Bartender shares ID, commenter complains to manager for crossing line. 😱

OneWithoutaName2 | OneWithoutaName2

Bartender's joke endangers customer, NTA for being upset. 😱

BadwolfRoseTyler | BadwolfRoseTyler

Bartender violated privacy, NTA for reporting. Friend gaslighting is wrong 🙅

No_Stand4235 | No_Stand4235

Bartender crosses the line by sharing ID with strangers 😱

OkPhilosopher1313 | OkPhilosopher1313

Bartender's joke goes too far, commenters side with customer. 😕

BranChan_ | BranChan_

Bartender shares ID as a joke, NTA for feeling uncomfortable 😕

EndlessResets | EndlessResets

Bartender crosses the line by sharing ID, commenter supports OP. 🙅

JustOneMore_Cat | JustOneMore_Cat

Bartender's joke goes too far, NTA's identity at risk 😱

MsSeraphim | MsSeraphim

Commenter calls out bartender's dangerous behavior, urges legal action. 🚨

SetiG | SetiG

Sharing IDs is a no-go 🚫, commenter not alone in outrage

el_gilliath | el_gilliath

Privacy breach by bartender, commenter says NTA. 😍

Ok-Cheetah-9125 | Ok-Cheetah-9125

Bartender crosses the line by sharing personal info 😑

ShalnarkRyuseih | ShalnarkRyuseih

Protecting personal info is no joke 😞

Anizziepluto | Anizziepluto

Bartender stands up for customer and shuts down entitled stalker 💪

PandoraClove | PandoraClove

Commenter defends OP and calls out disrespect from others 👏

moonspiderxx | moonspiderxx

Violation without permission? Definitely NTA 😎

Peetrrabbit | Peetrrabbit

Protecting privacy is no joke 😞 NTA did the right thing.

Relevant-Candidate-6 | Relevant-Candidate-6

Bartender's entitlement and power play puts woman's safety at risk 😱

KombuchaBot | KombuchaBot

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries 💪

Independent_Sea_836 | Independent_Sea_836

Bartender's joke goes too far, friend defends terrible behavior. 😒

badadvicefromaspider | badadvicefromaspider

Sharing personal information is no joke. NTA for sure. 😱

blooger-00- | blooger-00-

Bartender gets hit on, commenter makes playful NTA remark 😏

sarajane95 | sarajane95

Supportive reply to NTA comment about abusive boyfriend 👏

lunasouseiseki | lunasouseiseki

Privacy breach by bartender. NTA. Trent deserved firing. 🙅

SnooCats6410 | SnooCats6410

Commenter deemed 'not the a**hole' in ID sharing incident 👍

Basic_genXer | Basic_genXer

Bartender shares woman's ID with strangers, commenters agree it's unprofessional 😒

HypercriticalThinker | HypercriticalThinker

Sharing ID is illegal. NTA dodged a bullet 😎

blablamcbla | blablamcbla

Commenter defends bartender's actions as not funny or fun 😕

Genki_Oni | Genki_Oni

NTA defends bartender, questions woman's knowledge of stalking incident. 🤔

whitegrapegame | whitegrapegame

👍Agree! Bartender's behavior was unacceptable. NTA for calling it out.

Jaded-Permission-324 | Jaded-Permission-324

Agreement on NTA judgement with no further discussion. 👍

WyomingVet | WyomingVet

Bartender shares woman's ID with strangers, commenter supports her reaction. 👍

lulububudu | lulububudu

Bartender crosses the line by sharing ID 😱

PurpleAquilegia | PurpleAquilegia

Sharing someone's ID is a serious violation of privacy 😱

dragonkeeperemme | dragonkeeperemme

Commenter raises concern over men's intentions towards women. 🤔

Crunchy_Biscuit | Crunchy_Biscuit

Respect for privacy is key. NTA stands up for it 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

When a joke crosses the line: NTA stands their ground 😎

He_Who_Is_Right_ | He_Who_Is_Right_

Standing up for privacy with a touch of sass 😎

Eridia91 | Eridia91

Bartender shares woman's ID with strangers, NTA calls him out. 🚨

KookyNefariousness2 | KookyNefariousness2

Commenter declares NTA in controversial ID sharing incident 😊

Ok-Working-621 | Ok-Working-621

Bartender violates customer's privacy, refuses to apologize. NTA.

Ditovontease | Ditovontease

Supportive comment calls out toxic relationships and offers hope 👏

sisterchromatid | sisterchromatid

Report creepy bartender to boss and police. NTA 🚨

Initial_Number_4747 | Initial_Number_4747

Defending boundaries: NTA commenters unite! 💪

IntroductionDecent23 | IntroductionDecent23

Safety first! Commenter advises getting new friend and bf 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bartender's ID joke crosses the line according to commenters 😕

a1exia_frogs | a1exia_frogs

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