🚗💨 Co-worker Denied a Ride Home: Justified or Jerk Move? 🤔

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Diply | Diply

Picture this: you're leaving work, and a co-worker asks if you can give another co-worker a ride home because of car trouble. Sounds simple enough, right? Well, not in this case. When our protagonist was asked to give Lisa a ride home, they discovered she lived in the complete opposite direction. 🚗💨 On top of that, Lisa wasn't exactly on friendly terms with them. So, they said no and went home. But was this decision justified, or just plain mean? Let's dive into the story and find out. 😏

The Ride Request 🚗

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Why Not Ask Lisa? 🤔

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Decision Made: No Ride 🙅‍♂️

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The Aftermath: Accusations Fly 🗣️

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"Dude, that's mean." 😒

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The Friend Argument 🤷‍♂️

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A History of Dislike 😤

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Lisa's Condescending Comments 🙄

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Unwanted Food Commentary 🍫

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Age is Just a Number, Lisa! 😒

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Butting into Conversations 🗣️

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Newsflash: I'm an Adult 🏠

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Justified Decision or Jerk Move? 🤷‍♂️

So, was our protagonist justified in refusing to give Lisa a ride home? They didn't want to go out of their way for someone who constantly talks down to them and barely speaks to them otherwise. 🚗💨 On the other hand, their coworker Rob argued that they should have helped Lisa out, regardless of their personal feelings. 😒 Was this just a case of standing up for oneself, or was it a jerk move? Let's see what the internet has to say about this situation... 📲

Don't be a personal Uber for entitled coworkers 🙅‍♀️

GreenVenus7 | GreenVenus7

NTA for refusing to give a coworker a ride home 🚫

dolfan4life2 | dolfan4life2

Polite and assertive response to co-worker's entitled request 👍

the-Lady-Lazarus | the-Lady-Lazarus

NTA. She was being rude and trying to take advantage.

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NTA comment receives rebuttal about Uber availability in 2022.

mquindlen81 | mquindlen81

Candy store excuse: clever or childish? 🤔🍭

TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369

Don't judge others' purchases and find your own ride home. 🚗

RegularSizedRoody | RegularSizedRoody

Be an adult, solve your own problems. NTA 👍

TheKakaStorm | TheKakaStorm

Lisa criticizes food, but won't ask for a ride? NTA wins.

greenrosechafer | greenrosechafer

Don't dish out unwanted advice if you can't take rejection 🤷‍♀️

awyllt | awyllt

NTA for refusing to be Lisa's chauffeur. 🚫🚗

No-Jellyfish-1208 | No-Jellyfish-1208

Don't let gossip get in the way of your boundaries 🙅‍♀️

Away_Refuse8493 | Away_Refuse8493

NTA- Lisa could have called an Uber instead of expecting a free ride. 🙅‍♀️

Orphan_Izzy | Orphan_Izzy

NTA comment: Assertive and unapologetic response with a touch of humor 😎👍

Piper6728 | Piper6728

NTA comment sparks debate on doing favors for coworkers 🤔

caterpillarsnever | caterpillarsnever

NTA. She needs to grow up and communicate directly. 🙌

SlideItIn100 | SlideItIn100

Don't belittle your co-workers and expect a ride home 🙅‍♂️

VegetableBee1 | VegetableBee1

No obligation to give a ride to a rude co-worker 🚫🚗

Snoo_7492 | Snoo_7492

NTA. Lisa's move to have Jim ask for a ride was TA move 😒

Logical-Cranberry714 | Logical-Cranberry714

NTA comment and reply agree: co-worker was rude and cheap 😒

BattieJane | BattieJane

You have the right to say no 👍

Individual_Ad_9213 | Individual_Ad_9213

Boundaries at work: NTA for denying a coworker a ride 🙌

Chelular07 | Chelular07

Not the a**hole for denying a ride to unfriendly co-worker 👍

RideTheWindForever | RideTheWindForever

NTA for refusing to organize co-worker's commute due to car troubles 🚗

SugarP48 | SugarP48

Friendship over favors. 🤝

Sufficient_Cat | Sufficient_Cat

Friendship vs. Stranger: The Ethics of Giving Rides 👍

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🚗🚫 NTA for not giving a ride to a coworker.

LanceTroll | LanceTroll

Walking away from a rude co-worker 🚶‍♂️

gscott6289 | gscott6289

Helpful commenter stands up to rude co-worker's comments. 👏

paul_rudds_drag_race | paul_rudds_drag_race

NTA for declining ride. Coworkers shouldn't judge without knowing context. 🚗

Esther-Rosie | Esther-Rosie

OP refuses to give co-worker a ride home. NTA.

speedstars | speedstars

NTA, Uber is the way to go 🚗

Wulfgang97 | Wulfgang97

Not liking her is a good enough reason? 🤔 NTA

Personal_Shoulder983 | Personal_Shoulder983

Co-worker's unpleasant behaviour leads to denied ride home 🚫🚗

haveitgood | haveitgood

Refusing a ride home: justified or a jerk move? 🤔

preciousbaggins | preciousbaggins

👍 Not obligated to give co-workers rides after work.

Cat_Astrophe_X | Cat_Astrophe_X

Coworker denied ride, commenter says NTA. Boundaries are important. 💪

Squeebnymph3 | Squeebnymph3

Be the bigger person 🙌 and teach a lesson 👨‍💻

Jimbobo28 | Jimbobo28

🚗 NTA didn't owe a ride, others didn't offer either.

Not-a-Cranky-Panda | Not-a-Cranky-Panda

Office drama reminiscent of high school 🙄

Rural_Bedbug | Rural_Bedbug

NTA - No explanation needed 😎

Prestigious_Isopod72 | Prestigious_Isopod72

Setting boundaries with co-workers is important. NTA.

sosweet68 | sosweet68

Cab or Uber? NTA's decision sparks debate.

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839

NTA gets instant karma 😎👌

ButterscotchOk7516 | ButterscotchOk7516

Coworkers show kindness by offering rides in rainy Oregon weather 🌧

Willing_Razzmatazz87 | Willing_Razzmatazz87

NTA comment shuts down entitled co-worker's ride request 💯

Ill_Quantity_5634 | Ill_Quantity_5634

Sassy response to a judgmental co-worker. 🤣

SolitudeOCD | SolitudeOCD

NTA shuts down entitled co-worker's request for ride 🙅‍♀️🚫

Kiwaaaz | Kiwaaaz

Polite excuse for not giving co-worker a ride home. 🙌

ShowerThoughts8 | ShowerThoughts8

Not obligated to be anyone's ride home. 🚕

AsherTheFrost | AsherTheFrost

Refusing a co-worker a ride home: justified or jerk move? NTA suggests the latter.

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Commenter says NTA and insults the co-worker. 😳

Official_Nie_Ehuang | Official_Nie_Ehuang

NTA comment burns Lisa with 🔥 bandaid comeback.

Realistic-Animator-3 | Realistic-Animator-3

NTA coworker not friend, don't feel sorry for not helping 🤷

Mountain_Somewhere78 | Mountain_Somewhere78

👍 Not obligated to give co-worker a ride home.

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Setting boundaries: One comment stands up for themselves. 💪

terpischore761 | terpischore761

NTA. 🚗 Uber exists Lisa, no need to be a jerk.

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NTA - No a**hole here! 👍

Creative_Trick_3818 | Creative_Trick_3818

Co-worker denied ride home, commenter says NTA with smirk.

Miserable_Panda6979 | Miserable_Panda6979

Drive your own way 🚗, you owe no one rides.

meekonesfade | meekonesfade

NTA. Setting boundaries is important, no explanation needed. 👍

siiighhhs | siiighhhs

👍 Agreed, sometimes you just can't be a chauffeur. #NTA

Roninbean | Roninbean

No ride, no problem. NTA tells co-workers to GTFO 👊

sparky1up | sparky1up

Treat others with respect, you might need them later 👍

Ladyt1978 | Ladyt1978

Walking home is healthier! NTA comment section agrees.

Roadrage000 | Roadrage000

Car monitoring excuse for denying ride home - NTA 👍

PrivateNoLlamaDrama | PrivateNoLlamaDrama

NTA. Confront Jim and ask why he didn't give her ride 😑

silverpalm_ | silverpalm_

Standing up for yourself is always a NTA move 👏

FatalE45_ | FatalE45_

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Reasonable-Wealth647 | Reasonable-Wealth647

Coworker asks for ride through someone else, berates you - NTA

thedeebag | thedeebag

Stand up for yourself! NTA, report the bullying to HR 💪

Inner-Screen-6454 | Inner-Screen-6454

Polite way to decline favors from co-workers. 👍

Ladygytha | Ladygytha

When gas prices are high, is it wrong to deny a ride home? 🚗

Routine-Pea-9538 | Routine-Pea-9538

Taking the bus is for grown-ups 🚌👩‍🦳 #NTA

-partypossum- | -partypossum-

Don't mess with someone's food choices 👍 NTA wins!

PhilCan56 | PhilCan56

Short and sweet: commenter is not the a**hole 👍

Keirathyl | Keirathyl

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