Imagine being a new mom, working full time and pulling doubles to support your family while your boyfriend refuses to keep a job. To make matters worse, he's a chain smoker who demands money for cigarettes. This woman found herself in this exact situation and decided to take matters into her own hands by hiding her tip money from her boyfriend. But when he discovered her secret stash, he accused her of being selfish and dishonest. Let's dive into this heart-wrenching story. 😓
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Hiding Money: A Desperate Mom's Last Resort 🤷♀️
In a desperate attempt to protect her baby and keep her family afloat, this woman hid her tip money from her jobless, chain-smoking boyfriend. When he discovered her secret stash, he accused her of being selfish and dishonest. But with a baby on oxygen and no affordable childcare options, she felt like she was drowning. Thankfully, her grandmother came to the rescue, offering a safe haven and a chance for a new beginning. Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation... 💔
Commenter defends hiding tip money from jobless boyfriend. 👏
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Commenter advises OP to leave boyfriend for neglecting premature baby 😱
stormageddonzero | stormageddonzero
NTA. Protect your money and seek help from social services. 👏
saintofhate | saintofhate
Don't let anyone guilt-trip you into sharing your hard-earned money. 💪
sourumeboshi | sourumeboshi
Commenter calls out jobless addict boyfriend in brutal NTA verdict 💯
S31-Syntax | S31-Syntax
Partner's bad behavior: NTa. Cut your losses and move on. 🙅
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NTA. Prioritizing safety for yourself and your baby. 🚨
BaconFaceHappyPants | BaconFaceHappyPants
NTA. Prioritizing self and child is important. Boyfriend's behavior toxic. 🚩
zacharybeer | zacharybeer
Commenter advises woman to prioritize safety and leave deadbeat boyfriend. 🚨
Turing45 | Turing45
Concerned commenter warns of possible drug use in boyfriend's behavior 🚨
gingerlashes | gingerlashes
Break up or hide better: NTA parents two, not three. 🚫
RhiRhi202 | RhiRhi202
Dump him! 🚮 You and your baby deserve better. 💪
MurielFinster | MurielFinster
NTA. You don't owe him anything just because he's the father 👨👦🏻. Family who don't support you aren't family 😑.
VixHarlow | VixHarlow
NTA commenter gives practical advice for woman in toxic relationship 👏
isa_pflg | isa_pflg
NTA. Leave him. Your child deserves better. 🙏
plsbemyfriend99 | plsbemyfriend99
NTA, keep your money. He's a nightmare 😱
xosomeblonde | xosomeblonde
Commenter sympathizes with OP's situation and advises to reevaluate relationship ❤️
likewhatevertho | likewhatevertho
Boyfriend took $7.50, money hidden in tampon box 🤪
hivemind_MVGC | hivemind_MVGC
When hiding your money from your boyfriend isn't enough 🤷♀️
ThinCommon7 | ThinCommon7
Supporting those in tough situations 👏🏽, NTA for keeping finances separate 👍🏽
ezegrrr | ezegrrr
Supportive comment for struggling single mom. 🙌
Algieon | Algieon
Empathetic reply encourages woman to seek better living situation 💞
Esme-Weatherwaxes | Esme-Weatherwaxes
Commenter shares personal experience and advises seeking help. 🙏
potpie5678 | potpie5678
🚪 NTA's advice: Leave him. End of story.
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Dump him! Nicotine withdrawal is not your fault. #NTA 💯
HG_TheMuffinMan | HG_TheMuffinMan
Raising two kids? 😂 Not the a**hole, then.
Millerbomb | Millerbomb
NTA for hiding tip money from jobless boyfriend. Relationship advice given. 🙌
Merithras | Merithras
Movie reference advises leaving jobless 'baby man', NTA 😊
Cosmic_Jinx | Cosmic_Jinx
Empathetic user encourages woman to leave abusive partner. 👏
Fapple_ | Fapple_
Commenter suggests dumping jobless boyfriend, no replies yet 😞
savtastik | savtastik
User calls out OP for financial abuse, suggests ultimatum or seeking family support. 👏
C2BK | C2BK
Protect your hard-earned money and prioritize your child 👏
ijiuji | ijiuji
Dating advice with a hint of tough love 💖
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Empathetic commenter offers advice and support for struggling OP 😢
always_forgetting | always_forgetting
NTA: A tough situation, but partner won't contribute. 🤷♀️
ilu_daddy_uwu | ilu_daddy_uwu
Survival over selfishness: woman urged to leave jobless boyfriend 😲
princesskuki | princesskuki
Heartwarming support for OP's financial goals ❤️
frendsarefoodnotfish | frendsarefoodnotfish
NTA calls out boyfriend's behavior, suggests leaving. 👏
BrandonGamerguy | BrandonGamerguy
Commenter suggests dumping jobless boyfriend, no objections from replies. 👍
RickyFL | RickyFL
NTA. Ultimatum for jobless boyfriend. 💪
PopularRepublic9 | PopularRepublic9
Protect your money from your jobless partner 👏
pmmeBostonfacts | pmmeBostonfacts
Protecting her child's well-being is top priority. 👏
Patient-Fee-3209 | Patient-Fee-3209
Pregnant woman hides tip money from jobless boyfriend. Comment suggests reaching out to family for help. 🙏
ohhlookshiny | ohhlookshiny
NTA advises woman to leave deadweight boyfriend and save secretly 👍
loomsie | loomsie
Secure your future. Deposit tips in bank, plan to leave. 👍
Mirianda666 | Mirianda666
Dump him: smoking and expense. Protect children from second-hand smoke. 🚫
Cactilove | Cactilove
Positive feedback for OP's edits 😊
ktko42 | ktko42
Single mom receives support for deadbeat dad, encourages legal action 💪
Badkitty533 | Badkitty533
Empathetic commenter shares own story of leaving toxic relationship. 💕
gnarlybetty | gnarlybetty
BF and family are the a**holes. NTA for hiding tips 👏
harleen-quinnzel | harleen-quinnzel
Empathetic comment supports single mom's decision to leave toxic partner 👏
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Heartwarming support for struggling single mother 😢❤️
funsizenightmare | funsizenightmare
Escaping an abusive addict boyfriend. NTA. 👏
Megalodona | Megalodona
Financial privacy in a relationship: NTA or a**hole move? 🤔
needfulsalsa | needfulsalsa
NTA. Tough love for a jobless boyfriend 💪
Thediciplematt | Thediciplematt
Unemployed boyfriend, hidden tip money, and a baby on the way 😲
NPotatoTot | NPotatoTot
NTA but reality check: what did you expect? 🤔
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User advises OP to get a personal account to avoid BF's control 👍
robertsba2011 | robertsba2011
Commenter empathizes but deems everyone sucks here, suggests seeking help 🚨
Known_Character | Known_Character
Short and not-so-sweet: a blunt breakup suggestion. 👋
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User advises to leave jobless boyfriend for the sake of child 👥
sexylikeapeanut7 | sexylikeapeanut7
Cut him loose 🗡️ It's not worth the misery. NTA.
Lilybit09 | Lilybit09
Leave him and his inconsideration. You deserve better. 👏
greenglossygalaxy | greenglossygalaxy
Empathetic reply urges woman to prioritize her own happiness 🙏
lilycamilly | lilycamilly
Cut ties with loser boyfriend, NTA for hiding tip money 👏
Lexi_Banner | Lexi_Banner
Questioning the parent's decision and the father's capability 🤔
paperbackedsea | paperbackedsea
NTA mom receives support for hiding tip money from jobless boyfriend 👏
M16Outlaw | M16Outlaw
Commenter advises leaving jobless, chain-smoking boyfriend for child's safety 🚨
shesavillain | shesavillain
Empowering response to toxic relationship. Leave him and prioritize yourself. 💪
rayreddit1002 | rayreddit1002
Leave your immature and unsupportive boyfriend for your own sake 👏
S4sh4d0g | S4sh4d0g
Surviving a deadbeat boyfriend: hiding money and risking baby's health 😱
Froot-Batz | Froot-Batz
NTA. Open a secret savings account and prepare for worst-case scenario. 👍
amctrovada | amctrovada
Empathetic advice for struggling single parent dealing with dead weight 👨🎲
kiwi_love777 | kiwi_love777
NTA: 🚪💰 Kick the deadbeat to the curb and protect your money.
Momma_Hew | Momma_Hew
Financial independence is key. NTA. 💸
griseldabean | griseldabean
Commenter suggests hiding money and leaving toxic relationship 🙌
facilewallhanging | facilewallhanging
NTA commenter advises prioritizing baby over jobless boyfriend 👶
bigdaddyhfx | bigdaddyhfx
Dump him, take him to court for child support. 👊
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NTA commenter offers helpful resources for struggling mother 👏
AllysWorld | AllysWorld
Protecting your child from an abusive partner: NTA but cautious 😔
starrcuff | starrcuff
Commenter raises valid concern about secondhand smoke and babies 🙌
CarriagePonies | CarriagePonies
Single mother advised to prioritize her and her child's happiness 🙌
GooglyEyesMcGee | GooglyEyesMcGee
Asserting financial independence in a relationship 💸
blacksyzygy | blacksyzygy
Leave him and focus on your son. Toxic environment 😔
Han-Lou | Han-Lou
Fatherly advice on avoiding deadbeat partners, sympathy for OP. 👍
ButMuhNarrative | ButMuhNarrative
