Woman Hides Tip Money from Jobless Boyfriend: Selfish or Survival? 😲

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Imagine being a new mom, working full time and pulling doubles to support your family while your boyfriend refuses to keep a job. To make matters worse, he's a chain smoker who demands money for cigarettes. This woman found herself in this exact situation and decided to take matters into her own hands by hiding her tip money from her boyfriend. But when he discovered her secret stash, he accused her of being selfish and dishonest. Let's dive into this heart-wrenching story. 😓

A Rocky Start to Parenthood 🤰

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Jobless Boyfriend 😤

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Chain Smoker Cravings 🚬

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Baby in the NICU 😢

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Boyfriend's New Job 🙄

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Working Doubles, Hiding Tips 💸

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Secret Stash Discovered! 😱

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Accusations Fly 🗣️

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Family Pressure and Fear 😔

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Baby's Oxygen Dependency 🌬️

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Childcare Challenges 🚼

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Feeling Drowned 😞

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Grandma to the Rescue! 🦸‍♀️

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A New Beginning 🌅

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Hope and Freedom 💖

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Hiding Money: A Desperate Mom's Last Resort 🤷‍♀️

In a desperate attempt to protect her baby and keep her family afloat, this woman hid her tip money from her jobless, chain-smoking boyfriend. When he discovered her secret stash, he accused her of being selfish and dishonest. But with a baby on oxygen and no affordable childcare options, she felt like she was drowning. Thankfully, her grandmother came to the rescue, offering a safe haven and a chance for a new beginning. Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation... 💔

Commenter defends hiding tip money from jobless boyfriend. 👏

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Commenter advises OP to leave boyfriend for neglecting premature baby 😱

stormageddonzero | stormageddonzero

NTA. Protect your money and seek help from social services. 👏

saintofhate | saintofhate

Don't let anyone guilt-trip you into sharing your hard-earned money. 💪

sourumeboshi | sourumeboshi

Commenter calls out jobless addict boyfriend in brutal NTA verdict 💯

S31-Syntax | S31-Syntax

Partner's bad behavior: NTa. Cut your losses and move on. 🙅

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NTA. Prioritizing safety for yourself and your baby. 🚨

BaconFaceHappyPants | BaconFaceHappyPants

NTA. Prioritizing self and child is important. Boyfriend's behavior toxic. 🚩

zacharybeer | zacharybeer

Commenter advises woman to prioritize safety and leave deadbeat boyfriend. 🚨

Turing45 | Turing45

Concerned commenter warns of possible drug use in boyfriend's behavior 🚨

gingerlashes | gingerlashes

Break up or hide better: NTA parents two, not three. 🚫

RhiRhi202 | RhiRhi202

Dump him! 🚮 You and your baby deserve better. 💪

MurielFinster | MurielFinster

NTA. You don't owe him anything just because he's the father 👨‍👦🏻. Family who don't support you aren't family 😑.

VixHarlow | VixHarlow

NTA commenter gives practical advice for woman in toxic relationship 👏

isa_pflg | isa_pflg

NTA. Leave him. Your child deserves better. 🙏

plsbemyfriend99 | plsbemyfriend99

NTA, keep your money. He's a nightmare 😱

xosomeblonde | xosomeblonde

Commenter sympathizes with OP's situation and advises to reevaluate relationship ❤️

likewhatevertho | likewhatevertho

Boyfriend took $7.50, money hidden in tampon box 🤪

hivemind_MVGC | hivemind_MVGC

When hiding your money from your boyfriend isn't enough 🤷‍♀️

ThinCommon7 | ThinCommon7

Supporting those in tough situations 👏🏽, NTA for keeping finances separate 👍🏽

ezegrrr | ezegrrr

Supportive comment for struggling single mom. 🙌

Algieon | Algieon

Empathetic reply encourages woman to seek better living situation 💞

Esme-Weatherwaxes | Esme-Weatherwaxes

Commenter shares personal experience and advises seeking help. 🙏

potpie5678 | potpie5678

🚪 NTA's advice: Leave him. End of story.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dump him! Nicotine withdrawal is not your fault. #NTA 💯

HG_TheMuffinMan | HG_TheMuffinMan

Raising two kids? 😂 Not the a**hole, then.

Millerbomb | Millerbomb

NTA for hiding tip money from jobless boyfriend. Relationship advice given. 🙌

Merithras | Merithras

Movie reference advises leaving jobless 'baby man', NTA 😊

Cosmic_Jinx | Cosmic_Jinx

Empathetic user encourages woman to leave abusive partner. 👏

Fapple_ | Fapple_

Commenter suggests dumping jobless boyfriend, no replies yet 😞

savtastik | savtastik

User calls out OP for financial abuse, suggests ultimatum or seeking family support. 👏


Protect your hard-earned money and prioritize your child 👏

ijiuji | ijiuji

Dating advice with a hint of tough love 💖

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Empathetic commenter offers advice and support for struggling OP 😢

always_forgetting | always_forgetting

NTA: A tough situation, but partner won't contribute. 🤷‍♀️

ilu_daddy_uwu | ilu_daddy_uwu

Survival over selfishness: woman urged to leave jobless boyfriend 😲

princesskuki | princesskuki

Heartwarming support for OP's financial goals ❤️

frendsarefoodnotfish | frendsarefoodnotfish

NTA calls out boyfriend's behavior, suggests leaving. 👏

BrandonGamerguy | BrandonGamerguy

Commenter suggests dumping jobless boyfriend, no objections from replies. 👍

RickyFL | RickyFL

NTA. Ultimatum for jobless boyfriend. 💪

PopularRepublic9 | PopularRepublic9

Protect your money from your jobless partner 👏

pmmeBostonfacts | pmmeBostonfacts

Protecting her child's well-being is top priority. 👏

Patient-Fee-3209 | Patient-Fee-3209

Pregnant woman hides tip money from jobless boyfriend. Comment suggests reaching out to family for help. 🙏

ohhlookshiny | ohhlookshiny

NTA advises woman to leave deadweight boyfriend and save secretly 👍

loomsie | loomsie

Secure your future. Deposit tips in bank, plan to leave. 👍

Mirianda666 | Mirianda666

Dump him: smoking and expense. Protect children from second-hand smoke. 🚫

Cactilove | Cactilove

Positive feedback for OP's edits 😊

ktko42 | ktko42

Single mom receives support for deadbeat dad, encourages legal action 💪

Badkitty533 | Badkitty533

Empathetic commenter shares own story of leaving toxic relationship. 💕

gnarlybetty | gnarlybetty

BF and family are the a**holes. NTA for hiding tips 👏

harleen-quinnzel | harleen-quinnzel

Empathetic comment supports single mom's decision to leave toxic partner 👏

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Heartwarming support for struggling single mother 😢❤️

funsizenightmare | funsizenightmare

Escaping an abusive addict boyfriend. NTA. 👏

Megalodona | Megalodona

Financial privacy in a relationship: NTA or a**hole move? 🤔

needfulsalsa | needfulsalsa

NTA. Tough love for a jobless boyfriend 💪

Thediciplematt | Thediciplematt

Unemployed boyfriend, hidden tip money, and a baby on the way 😲

NPotatoTot | NPotatoTot

NTA but reality check: what did you expect? 🤔

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User advises OP to get a personal account to avoid BF's control 👍

robertsba2011 | robertsba2011

Commenter empathizes but deems everyone sucks here, suggests seeking help 🚨

Known_Character | Known_Character

Short and not-so-sweet: a blunt breakup suggestion. 👋

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User advises to leave jobless boyfriend for the sake of child 👥

sexylikeapeanut7 | sexylikeapeanut7

Cut him loose 🗡️ It's not worth the misery. NTA.

Lilybit09 | Lilybit09

Leave him and his inconsideration. You deserve better. 👏

greenglossygalaxy | greenglossygalaxy

Empathetic reply urges woman to prioritize her own happiness 🙏

lilycamilly | lilycamilly

Cut ties with loser boyfriend, NTA for hiding tip money 👏

Lexi_Banner | Lexi_Banner

Questioning the parent's decision and the father's capability 🤔

paperbackedsea | paperbackedsea

NTA mom receives support for hiding tip money from jobless boyfriend 👏

M16Outlaw | M16Outlaw

Commenter advises leaving jobless, chain-smoking boyfriend for child's safety 🚨

shesavillain | shesavillain

Empowering response to toxic relationship. Leave him and prioritize yourself. 💪

rayreddit1002 | rayreddit1002

Leave your immature and unsupportive boyfriend for your own sake 👏

S4sh4d0g | S4sh4d0g

Surviving a deadbeat boyfriend: hiding money and risking baby's health 😱

Froot-Batz | Froot-Batz

NTA. Open a secret savings account and prepare for worst-case scenario. 👍

amctrovada | amctrovada

Empathetic advice for struggling single parent dealing with dead weight 👨‍🎲

kiwi_love777 | kiwi_love777

NTA: 🚪💰 Kick the deadbeat to the curb and protect your money.

Momma_Hew | Momma_Hew

Financial independence is key. NTA. 💸

griseldabean | griseldabean

Commenter suggests hiding money and leaving toxic relationship 🙌

facilewallhanging | facilewallhanging

NTA commenter advises prioritizing baby over jobless boyfriend 👶

bigdaddyhfx | bigdaddyhfx

Dump him, take him to court for child support. 👊

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NTA commenter offers helpful resources for struggling mother 👏

AllysWorld | AllysWorld

Protecting your child from an abusive partner: NTA but cautious 😔

starrcuff | starrcuff

Commenter raises valid concern about secondhand smoke and babies 🙌

CarriagePonies | CarriagePonies

Single mother advised to prioritize her and her child's happiness 🙌

GooglyEyesMcGee | GooglyEyesMcGee

Asserting financial independence in a relationship 💸

blacksyzygy | blacksyzygy

Leave him and focus on your son. Toxic environment 😔

Han-Lou | Han-Lou

Fatherly advice on avoiding deadbeat partners, sympathy for OP. 👍

ButMuhNarrative | ButMuhNarrative

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