Weddings are supposed to be a time for love, celebration, and family togetherness. But for one young woman, her brother’s upcoming nuptials have turned into a battleground of demands and hurt feelings. The 20-year-old sister, who used to be extremely close with her brother, now finds herself at odds with his fiancée, Emily. The tension between the two women has been brewing for a while, but things took a dramatic turn during a recent family dinner. ️
The Child-Free Wedding Dilemma

A Compromise and a New Request

The Babysitting Offer

A Shocking Twist

Brother Gets Involved ♂️

Tensions Rise ⚠️

The Ultimatum

Family’s Reaction

The Sister’s Stance ♀️

Standing Her Ground or Ruining the Wedding? ♀️
Caught in a whirlwind of family drama, our protagonist is now facing backlash from her family for refusing to take on the babysitting gig for a measly $50. Despite being accused of ruining her brother’s wedding and potentially damaging their relationship, she’s standing her ground against Emily’s unreasonable demands. But with the wedding just around the corner, the question remains: will this sister’s defiance bring about a happy ending, or will it only serve to deepen the rift between her and her brother? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA refuses to be a free babysitter for bridezilla’s wedding.

OP refuses to babysit 40 kids and is accused of ruining wedding NTA

NTA declines brother’s wedding invite after being excluded originally.

Excluding a 20-year-old sibling from a child-free wedding is ridiculous . Stick to your guns and don’t let the groom’s family push you around! NTA ♀️

Skip the wedding, go out for dinner. NTA wins!
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NTA defends not babysitting 40 kids at brother’s wedding

Sibling drama at a wedding, with accusations of villainy

Excluded from the wedding, now being forced to babysit? NTA ♀️

Commenter calls sister NTA, brother an idiot.

NTA defends against sister’s unreasonable wedding demands

NTA for refusing to babysit 40 kids for peanuts

NTA. Being responsible for 40 children at a wedding? Disaster!

Is the bride-to-be jealous of the sister’s looks?

NTA called Emily a devious AH, sparking sympathy for OP.

Commenter and reply find humor in brother’s ruined wedding.

NTA commenter defends OP against unfair expectations

NTA stands up to brother and future sister-in-law

Sibling drama resolved with a NTA verdict

Wedding guest asked to babysit for free, bridezilla much?

20-year-old sister not allowed at child-free wedding, expected to babysit? NTA

Commenter’s exclusion from brother’s wedding sparks family drama

Family should back you up against ridiculous and insulting request

Brother’s wedding drama: NTA, sorry you’re treated this way

NTA argues that child-free weddings are for little children, not 20-year-olds. Replies mock bride’s ridiculousness.

NTA. Two people looking after 40 kids?! Hire a babysitter.

Commenter questions wedding planning timeline and calls out lack of consideration.

Commenters question sister’s daycare request for child-free wedding

Commenter supports OP and slams bridezilla and brother.

Don’t risk your career or the kids’ safety. NTA

NTA but YWBTA if you agreed to watch 40 kids with just one other person for six whole hours, even if they paid you what your time is worth ($5/kid for six hours = ~$1200 and that should be MINIMUM). It is NOT safe and it could cause you a heap of trouble.

Commenter questions child-free wedding with fiery response from reply.

Sister offers to pay less than minimum wage for illegal childcare

User questions why anyone would do it for free

NTA stands up to family’s unreasonable demands at brother’s wedding

NTA for refusing unreasonable last-minute babysitting request

Commenter calls brother a ‘pussy’ for letting sister ruin wedding

Young commenter defends sibling’s right to attend wedding

NTA, sister shouldn’t have expected free babysitting.

Excluded sibling at wedding: How can parents allow this? ♂️

Commenter supports OP, predicts sister’s manipulative behavior with evidence.

Bride using sister for childcare? NTA, make other plans

Sibling drama at weddings? NTA suggests babysitting fee.

Guest questions authenticity of story, calls out missing details. OP responds.

Defending oneself against unreasonable expectations of childcare.

Sister’s behavior towards brother is unacceptable and concerning
