Sisterly Love or Overprotective? Woman Quizzes Dates About Disabled Sister 😲

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Meet our 28-year-old heroine, who's taken on the responsibility of looking after her 19-year-old sister, Noel, who suffers from a genetic hormonal disorder. This disorder has left Noel with an unusual appearance and some physical impairments. After a disastrous encounter with a former boyfriend who made offensive jokes about Noel's condition, our protagonist decided to take matters into her own hands. Now, she quizzes potential love interests about their thoughts on her sister's condition before things get serious. But is she doing the right thing or just pushing people away? 🤷‍♀️

Living Together in the City 🏙️

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

The Ex-Boyfriend's Disrespect 😠

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

A Sisterly Stand 🙅‍♀️

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

The Package Deal 📦

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

Noel's Gratitude 🥰

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

The Dating Quiz 📝

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

Important Questions ❓

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

Valentine's Day Drama 💔

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

Accusations Fly 😤

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

Doubting Herself 😔

athrowaway914 | athrowaway914

Is She Right or Wrong? 🤷‍♀️

Our protagonist is determined to protect her sister from any potential heartache, but is she going too far? She quizzes her dates about their thoughts on her sister's condition, but one recent date accused her of being a 'miserable a**hole' for doing so. Now, she's questioning herself and wondering if she's doing the right thing. Is she being overprotective, or is it a necessary precaution? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭

NTA for wanting to vet dates, but may be too aggressive 😲

FloodAndFire | FloodAndFire

👍 Bringing up the package deal early can save time and tears.

ks_789 | ks_789

NTA but OP could approach it better. Quizzing belittles dates 😑

stateofgrace17 | stateofgrace17

OP is gently called out for being too aggressive with quizzes 😬

Opening-Lecture | Opening-Lecture

OP's overprotective behavior on Valentine's Day is a turn off. YTA.

ResurgentRS | ResurgentRS

Commenter thinks OP is too overprotective of her disabled sister 😬

marheena | marheena

Balancing protecting sister and not over-correcting, tricky situation 🤔

Tak_Jaehon | Tak_Jaehon

Commenter calls out OP for being too overprotective of sister 😲

CatalinaChang | CatalinaChang

Friendly advice on tone for sister-protective commenter 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

User seeks clarification on 'quizzing' dates about disabled sister 🤔

philmcruch | philmcruch

Asking about dealbreakers early on is fair game 👍

ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134

Navigating sensitive topics in dating can be tricky 🤔

DinosaursOvrEvrythng | DinosaursOvrEvrythng

Curious about the interview? Is she being too aggressive?

fakeaccount113 | fakeaccount113

Commenter advises woman to be less overbearing, gives YTA verdict.

mdisomwnaje | mdisomwnaje

Stand up for your family 👊, or leave the date 👋. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Navigating disability talk in dating: How much is too much?

slidesguy | slidesguy

Being responsible for a disabled sibling while dating 😍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Communication is key. Be clear, not aggressive 💊

bpines | bpines

Explaining the situation is better than interrogating your date 🤔

BobLoblaw24601 | BobLoblaw24601

Are you being a good sibling or an a**hole? 🤔

darkprincess98 | darkprincess98

Prior bad experience justifies asking about sister. NTA 👏

atseasheiscalm | atseasheiscalm

Being upfront about disabled sister as deal breaker in relationships.

Fearonika | Fearonika

Being protective of disabled sister while dating, but may come off strong.

missplaced24 | missplaced24

Being a caretaker for your sister doesn't make you miserable ❤️

mikeyj198 | mikeyj198

Approach the subject with kindness and respect. Don't interrogate them. 🙏

Cloudinterpreter | Cloudinterpreter

Commenter calls out OP for being too harsh and controlling 🤯

JoeJoegamR | JoeJoegamR

User thinks woman might be YTA for being too aggressive.

jackie0h_ | jackie0h_

Commenter criticizes woman's dating strategy as poor taste 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Overprotective sister scares off potential dates with disability interrogation 😬

TatianaAlena | TatianaAlena

Commenter questions the aggressive nature of sisterly quizzing.

Nerfixion | Nerfixion

Focus on finding a good person, not just a checklist ❤️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Navigating disability in dating: finding the balance between advocacy and aggression 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

User calls out OP's unfair dating test, says YTA 😠

Possibly_naked | Possibly_naked

Commenter calls out overprotective behavior in dating with YTA verdict 😕

Ocean_Spice | Ocean_Spice

Commenter accuses OP of being an overprotective YTA 🤔

ThatOneHumanThing | ThatOneHumanThing

Curious commenter seeks clarification on conversation starters. 🤔

DrLilyPaddy | DrLilyPaddy

Casually informing dates about disabled sister is better than quizzing 👍

mommak2011 | mommak2011

NTA, but multiple fails may indicate test problem or bad taste 🤔

Iridium_Pumpkin | Iridium_Pumpkin

Commenter questions woman's approach to vetting dates for disabled sister 🤔

ElBatDood | ElBatDood

How much of a 'package deal' is the disabled sister?

[deleted] | [deleted]

How does she 'quiz' them? Fair question raised by others 🤔

smellygymbag | smellygymbag

Dating should be casual, not a test. YTA, be mindful 😒

efiality | efiality

Curious about the "quiz" and the guy's perspective 🤔

Emi_Ibarazakiii | Emi_Ibarazakiii

Dodged a bullet? NTA gets defensive AH date. 🙅‍♀️

clbrownn | clbrownn

Setting boundaries on dates: YTA needs to chill 😒

RexPluribus | RexPluribus

Curious commenter wants more context on sister questioning dates.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dating is like having kids, don't waste time on intolerance 🙌

PuzzleheadedUnit1 | PuzzleheadedUnit1

Protective sister gets criticized for quizzing dates about disabled sister

RawrRRitchie | RawrRRitchie

Navigating the fine line between NTA and TA 🤔

cross-eye-bear | cross-eye-bear

Balancing sister's protection and fostering a nice feeling for dates 😔

bubblegrubs | bubblegrubs

Don't grill your date about your disabled sister, YTA 🤪

gemininature | gemininature

Being cautious is okay, but don't assume the worst 😊


Protective sister gets dating advice after being called YTA 😔

[deleted] | [deleted]

A guy asks for date questions to show compassion and respect 🤩

_Volly | _Volly

Commenter is definitely not the a**hole 👍

robin_yoursoul | robin_yoursoul

Navigating disabilities on early dates: when is it appropriate? 🤔

gdubh | gdubh

Balancing protection and dating can be tricky 🤔

mermicide | mermicide

Suggests a more casual approach to disclosing disabled sister 👍

awkwardly_competent | awkwardly_competent

No a-hole here, but why the short response? 🤔

Niith | Niith

Dodged a bullet? 🤔 NTA quizzes dates about disabled sister

CJsopinion | CJsopinion

Commenter thinks OP is TA for excessive partner interrogation. 🤔

GloeSticc | GloeSticc

Preparing dates for disabled sister is considerate. 👍

LotBuilder | LotBuilder

Is she overprotective or just intense? 🤔

Clickclacktheblueguy | Clickclacktheblueguy

Asking about a disabled sister while dating: subtle or serious? 🤔


Being protective of your sister is NTA, but be upfront with dates 😊

jilly_is_funderful | jilly_is_funderful

Dating someone with a disabled sibling? Don't make it awkward 🤪

mrmaskfawkes | mrmaskfawkes

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