Meet our 28-year-old heroine, who's taken on the responsibility of looking after her 19-year-old sister, Noel, who suffers from a genetic hormonal disorder. This disorder has left Noel with an unusual appearance and some physical impairments. After a disastrous encounter with a former boyfriend who made offensive jokes about Noel's condition, our protagonist decided to take matters into her own hands. Now, she quizzes potential love interests about their thoughts on her sister's condition before things get serious. But is she doing the right thing or just pushing people away? 🤷♀️
Sisterly Love or Overprotective? Woman Quizzes Dates About Disabled Sister 😲
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Our protagonist is determined to protect her sister from any potential heartache, but is she going too far? She quizzes her dates about their thoughts on her sister's condition, but one recent date accused her of being a 'miserable a**hole' for doing so. Now, she's questioning herself and wondering if she's doing the right thing. Is she being overprotective, or is it a necessary precaution? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭
NTA for wanting to vet dates, but may be too aggressive 😲
FloodAndFire | FloodAndFire
👍 Bringing up the package deal early can save time and tears.
ks_789 | ks_789
NTA but OP could approach it better. Quizzing belittles dates 😑
stateofgrace17 | stateofgrace17
OP is gently called out for being too aggressive with quizzes 😬
Opening-Lecture | Opening-Lecture
OP's overprotective behavior on Valentine's Day is a turn off. YTA.
ResurgentRS | ResurgentRS
Commenter thinks OP is too overprotective of her disabled sister 😬
marheena | marheena
Balancing protecting sister and not over-correcting, tricky situation 🤔
Tak_Jaehon | Tak_Jaehon
Commenter calls out OP for being too overprotective of sister 😲
CatalinaChang | CatalinaChang
Friendly advice on tone for sister-protective commenter 👍
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User seeks clarification on 'quizzing' dates about disabled sister 🤔
philmcruch | philmcruch
Asking about dealbreakers early on is fair game 👍
ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134
Navigating sensitive topics in dating can be tricky 🤔
DinosaursOvrEvrythng | DinosaursOvrEvrythng
Curious about the interview? Is she being too aggressive?
fakeaccount113 | fakeaccount113
Commenter advises woman to be less overbearing, gives YTA verdict.
mdisomwnaje | mdisomwnaje
Stand up for your family 👊, or leave the date 👋. NTA.
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Navigating disability talk in dating: How much is too much?
slidesguy | slidesguy
Being responsible for a disabled sibling while dating 😍
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Communication is key. Be clear, not aggressive 💊
bpines | bpines
Explaining the situation is better than interrogating your date 🤔
BobLoblaw24601 | BobLoblaw24601
Are you being a good sibling or an a**hole? 🤔
darkprincess98 | darkprincess98
Prior bad experience justifies asking about sister. NTA 👏
atseasheiscalm | atseasheiscalm
Being upfront about disabled sister as deal breaker in relationships.
Fearonika | Fearonika
Being protective of disabled sister while dating, but may come off strong.
missplaced24 | missplaced24
Being a caretaker for your sister doesn't make you miserable ❤️
mikeyj198 | mikeyj198
Approach the subject with kindness and respect. Don't interrogate them. 🙏
Cloudinterpreter | Cloudinterpreter
Commenter calls out OP for being too harsh and controlling 🤯
JoeJoegamR | JoeJoegamR
User thinks woman might be YTA for being too aggressive.
jackie0h_ | jackie0h_
Commenter criticizes woman's dating strategy as poor taste 🤔
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Overprotective sister scares off potential dates with disability interrogation 😬
TatianaAlena | TatianaAlena
Commenter questions the aggressive nature of sisterly quizzing.
Nerfixion | Nerfixion
Focus on finding a good person, not just a checklist ❤️
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Navigating disability in dating: finding the balance between advocacy and aggression 🤔
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User calls out OP's unfair dating test, says YTA 😠
Possibly_naked | Possibly_naked
Commenter calls out overprotective behavior in dating with YTA verdict 😕
Ocean_Spice | Ocean_Spice
Commenter accuses OP of being an overprotective YTA 🤔
ThatOneHumanThing | ThatOneHumanThing
Curious commenter seeks clarification on conversation starters. 🤔
DrLilyPaddy | DrLilyPaddy
Casually informing dates about disabled sister is better than quizzing 👍
mommak2011 | mommak2011
NTA, but multiple fails may indicate test problem or bad taste 🤔
Iridium_Pumpkin | Iridium_Pumpkin
Commenter questions woman's approach to vetting dates for disabled sister 🤔
ElBatDood | ElBatDood
How much of a 'package deal' is the disabled sister?
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How does she 'quiz' them? Fair question raised by others 🤔
smellygymbag | smellygymbag
Dating should be casual, not a test. YTA, be mindful 😒
efiality | efiality
Curious about the "quiz" and the guy's perspective 🤔
Emi_Ibarazakiii | Emi_Ibarazakiii
Dodged a bullet? NTA gets defensive AH date. 🙅♀️
clbrownn | clbrownn
Setting boundaries on dates: YTA needs to chill 😒
RexPluribus | RexPluribus
Curious commenter wants more context on sister questioning dates.
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Dating is like having kids, don't waste time on intolerance 🙌
PuzzleheadedUnit1 | PuzzleheadedUnit1
Protective sister gets criticized for quizzing dates about disabled sister
RawrRRitchie | RawrRRitchie
Navigating the fine line between NTA and TA 🤔
cross-eye-bear | cross-eye-bear
Balancing sister's protection and fostering a nice feeling for dates 😔
bubblegrubs | bubblegrubs
Don't grill your date about your disabled sister, YTA 🤪
gemininature | gemininature
Being cautious is okay, but don't assume the worst 😊
HELLFIRECHRIS | HELLFIRECHRIS
Protective sister gets dating advice after being called YTA 😔
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A guy asks for date questions to show compassion and respect 🤩
_Volly | _Volly
Commenter is definitely not the a**hole 👍
robin_yoursoul | robin_yoursoul
Navigating disabilities on early dates: when is it appropriate? 🤔
gdubh | gdubh
Balancing protection and dating can be tricky 🤔
mermicide | mermicide
Suggests a more casual approach to disclosing disabled sister 👍
awkwardly_competent | awkwardly_competent
No a-hole here, but why the short response? 🤔
Niith | Niith
Dodged a bullet? 🤔 NTA quizzes dates about disabled sister
CJsopinion | CJsopinion
Commenter thinks OP is TA for excessive partner interrogation. 🤔
GloeSticc | GloeSticc
Preparing dates for disabled sister is considerate. 👍
LotBuilder | LotBuilder
Is she overprotective or just intense? 🤔
Clickclacktheblueguy | Clickclacktheblueguy
Asking about a disabled sister while dating: subtle or serious? 🤔
HELJ4 | HELJ4
Being protective of your sister is NTA, but be upfront with dates 😊
jilly_is_funderful | jilly_is_funderful
Dating someone with a disabled sibling? Don't make it awkward 🤪
mrmaskfawkes | mrmaskfawkes
