Husband Spends Wife's Tummy Tuck Savings on Himself 😱: Is She Wrong for Being Furious?

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Imagine saving up for a much-needed surgery for years, only to find out that your spouse has spent the money on themselves! 😱 That's exactly what happened to our story's heroine, a 35-year-old mother of three who had been saving for a tummy tuck to repair her abdominal muscles and alleviate her chronic back pain. But when she was finally ready to undergo the surgery, she discovered that her husband had spent the money on a computer for his office. Now, she's left wondering if she's in the wrong for being furious and contemplating divorce. 🤔 Let's dive into this dramatic tale!

The Mommy Makeover Promise 💉

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Saving for Surgery 💰

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The Painful Reality 😖

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Time for the Surgery ⏰

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Husband's Insane Question ❓

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Ignoring the Pain 😒

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The Shocking Discovery 😨

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Hysterical Tears 😭

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The Truth Revealed 🕵️‍♀️

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Divorce Texts 📱

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Family Reactions 🗣️

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Husband's Excuse 🚩

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Money Transferred 💸

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Realization Hits 🤦‍♀️

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Husband's Apology Text 📲

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Can This Marriage Be Saved? 💔

Our heroine is left heartbroken and betrayed after her husband spent her surgery savings on a computer for his office. Despite his apology and promise to return the money, she's struggling to believe him and is considering her options. With her family divided on the issue, she's left to ponder: is she wrong for being furious and contemplating divorce? 😔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

💔 NTA. Rebuilding trust after financial infidelity is tough but possible.

Ixliam | Ixliam

OP's husband is muddling up separate issues and gaslighting her 😡

ThaneOfCawdorrr | ThaneOfCawdorrr

Commenter doubts husband's expensive computer purchase, NTA confirmed

pgp555 | pgp555

Husband accused of stealing wife's savings, commenters side with wife 👏

ivy176 | ivy176

Husband spends 14k on computer, leaving wife's savings empty 🤯

mmjj2007 | mmjj2007

Betrayed wife receives support and advice after husband's deception 😢

mammamermaid | mammamermaid

Curious commenter questions 14K computer, sparks no replies 😐


Demand to see the computer and get your money back 👍

Slurav | Slurav

NTA. Short and sweet, but straight to the point 👍

WriteYouLater | WriteYouLater

INFO: Communication is key. Don't jump to divorce yet. 👍

buckscaldrip | buckscaldrip

Spouse spends wife's savings on himself, she's NTA, sympathy offered 😢

pussymasterclock | pussymasterclock

Wife deserves to feel good about herself. Husband lacks respect. 💔

AGirlHasNoName2018 | AGirlHasNoName2018

Husband spent wife's savings on computer before C-section 😡

insquestaca | insquestaca

Supportive comment urges woman to leave lying, gaslighting husband 👏

GladArugula | GladArugula

Protect your finances and trust your gut feeling 👀

TheNerdyGirlNextDoor | TheNerdyGirlNextDoor

Supportive comment suggests PPD may be the cause. 👏

Spkpkcap | Spkpkcap

Commenter suspects family knows husband spent tummy tuck money 🤔

brianthebloomfield | brianthebloomfield

Red flags to look out for in joint savings accounts 🚨

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Spouse spends wife's surgery savings on $14k 'office computer' 🤯

MultiFazed | MultiFazed

Husband spends wife's tummy tuck savings on himself 😱. She's furious.

2tinymonkeys | 2tinymonkeys

NTA, husband spent tummy tuck savings on himself 😱. Divorce him.

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👀 Scandalous! Comment suggests husband cheating on wife with mistress.

stillbettingonyou | stillbettingonyou

Supportive commenter urges update on suspicious husband situation. NTA.

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Supportive comment suggests divorce after husband's selfish actions 👏

resa2020 | resa2020

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out husband's behavior. 😱

0nyon | 0nyon

Marriage is a partnership, money should be shared. 👭‍🎓

cpetagara | cpetagara

Husband gaslighted wife into feeling undervalued for being a homemaker 🤯

whenisleep | whenisleep

Everyone sucks here in this tummy tuck savings debacle 🤷🏼‍♀️

alop1ndat | alop1ndat

Wife rightfully angry after husband spends their shared savings on himself 😠

I_use_the_internet- | I_use_the_internet-

Protect your assets and leave the selfish husband 👋

Ceswest | Ceswest

Get your revenge body and then divorce the sh*t outta him 💪🏻

photoshoppedunicorn | photoshoppedunicorn

Separate accounts in marriage are nothing but trouble. #NTA 👍

CatSlave96 | CatSlave96

Gamer defends wife's anger over husband's selfish spending 🤩

SlowMope | SlowMope

Suggests lie detector test or PI to uncover truth 🤔

Thisisnotalibrary97 | Thisisnotalibrary97

Spouse suggests equal access to banking accounts after trust shattered.

BodyBag93309 | BodyBag93309

Supportive comment applauds OP's strength and offers encouragement 👏

hogwartshunter | hogwartshunter

Husband spent wife's savings on himself, gave halfassed apology 😱

misoup9 | misoup9

Wife deserves a tummy tuck without being called vain 🤷‍♀️

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Tummy tuck savings spent by husband, leaving wife in pain 😱

mexicoisforlovers | mexicoisforlovers

Husband betrays wife's trust and savings. NTA for being furious 👏

SoftDowney | SoftDowney

Husband spends wife's savings, gaslights her, and avoids apology. NTA.

awkwardly_competent | awkwardly_competent

Commenter questions husband's $14k PC purchase, demands honesty.

londonsun89 | londonsun89

Take control of your finances and demand transparency 👏

UmbranHarley | UmbranHarley

NTA. Tummy tuck is necessary for pain relief and confidence 👍

boo29may | boo29may

Compassionate stay-at-home dad supports wife, advises divorce. 👏

flintlockfay | flintlockfay

Get that tummy tuck and lawyer up! 🤑💰

soph_lurk_2018 | soph_lurk_2018

Commenter calls out husband's lies and selfishness with fury 😠

Dredgen-Wrath | Dredgen-Wrath

Supportive comment encourages communication and patience in troubled marriage 👏

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Demanding transparency in finances after suspicious behavior 😏

ladyvikingtea | ladyvikingtea

Spouse spends tummy tuck savings on himself 😱, earns wife's fury.

writesgud | writesgud

Supportive comment section encourages update on situation. 👍

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Commenter expresses concern and support, suspects husband's deceit 🤔

mg-marga | mg-marga

Caught in a lie 🤨: Husband's $14k computer doesn't exist

CackleberryOmelettes | CackleberryOmelettes

Is He a Narcissist? Commenters Weigh In 🤔

luqi_charmz | luqi_charmz

Short and sweet: NTA, he is 👍

yeahwellNOPE | yeahwellNOPE

Divorce tip: Don't leave the house, it can be used against you. 👍

flipityflopityfukoff | flipityflopityfukoff

Wife rightfully calls out husband's selfishness and lies 👏

Pretend-Preparation | Pretend-Preparation

Stand up for yourself! 💪🏼 Divorce may be necessary. 💔

TheVoonderMutt | TheVoonderMutt

"NTA" commenter suggests divorce after husband spends tummy tuck savings 🤷‍♀️

delphidoll | delphidoll

Commenter sets a reminder, anticipation builds for updates ⏳

Prior-General | Prior-General

Suggests a plan to get back at the husband with humor 😂

ReaWroud | ReaWroud

Commenter calls out husband's selfishness with humor and sarcasm 😂

Sajam2 | Sajam2

👋 Divorce material? This commenter thinks so. #NTA

Resalthh | Resalthh

👏🏼 NTA, kick him to the curb and get that tummy tuck!

bestphilly | bestphilly

Empathetic reply to woman's relatable struggle with husband's selfishness 🙏

1931-babyface | 1931-babyface

Husband spends joint savings on himself: commenter says NTA 😱

antizana | antizana

Husband spends wife's savings on $14k computer, NTA for being furious 😱

Kjtl | Kjtl

NTA. Commenter suggests selling husband's car with sassy encouragement. 💯

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Commenter supports OP and questions their access to healthcare 💪

sparkylocal3 | sparkylocal3

Demanding transparency and therapy after husband's betrayal. 👏

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Husband's lies exposed, wife justified in being angry 💥

Pollypocketful | Pollypocketful

Supportive comment urges update and divorce after husband's betrayal 😱

kittcatkelly | kittcatkelly

Transfer promised money to sole account and get surgery ASAP 👍

Dreamergirrrl | Dreamergirrrl

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