💔 Mother Accused of Heartlessness for Not Informing Ex About Son's Death

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Imagine going through the heartache of losing a child and then being accused of heartlessness by the very person who abandoned you and your sick child. This is the heart-wrenching story of a mother who lost her son to a congenital heart defect. After her husband left her to care for their son alone, she was left to grieve her child's passing without the support of her ex. But when he found out about their son's death from someone else, he accused her of being heartless and nasty. 😢💔

A Mother's Struggle with Her Son's Illness

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A Deteriorating Condition

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Husband Pulls Away

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The Mother's Burden

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The Separation

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Husband's Reasons

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Court Sessions and Suffering

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Husband's New Life

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Losing the Battle

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Trying to Reach the Ex

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The Funeral

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Ex-Husband's Accusations

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Defending Herself

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The Blame Game

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Father's Side

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Grieving Mother Accused of Heartlessness

This heart-wrenching story of a mother who lost her son to a congenital heart defect takes a shocking turn when her ex-husband, who abandoned her and their sick child, accuses her of being heartless and nasty for not informing him of their son's death. He lashes out at her, claiming her fault is greater than his, while her own father sides with him. The mother is left to grieve her child's passing amidst the accusations and anger, wondering how she could be blamed for something so painful. 😢💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

Ex-husband abandons sick son, tries to turn family against mother. NTA.

SlowlyHillTopping | SlowlyHillTopping

Ex attacks mother for not informing him of son's death. NTA.

DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks

Ex's anger towards grieving mother is unjustified. Dad is wrong.

heretoomuch | heretoomuch

Ex-husband changed his number, NTA for not informing him 😞

e-elegia | e-elegia

Supportive comment and advice for OP dealing with ex's behavior 👏

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Heartless ex tries to blame mother for son's death. NTA 👏

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Heartbroken mother finds peace in her son's release from suffering. 💔

katiecakesinc | katiecakesinc

NTA. Father abandoned son, has no right to aftermath. Emotional vulture 🦅

HighPriestoftheBog | HighPriestoftheBog

Supportive comment defends OP against ex's misplaced blame. ❤️

mckinnos | mckinnos

Ex didn't care about son when alive, can't blame mother now 👏

p4percr4nes | p4percr4nes

Commenter questions OP's motives and honesty, prompting speculation and a karma emoji.

AtomicMix | AtomicMix

Ex's lack of relationship caused his ignorance. NTA.

i-Ake | i-Ake

🤔 Doubts raised about mother's inability to inform ex-partner of son's death

atrophyview | atrophyview

Ex chose to leave, changed number, NTA for not informing.

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Tracking down ex for son's death notification: reasonable or not? 🤔

rublous | rublous

Fighting for family is important, even when it's rough. 💪

Blink3412 | Blink3412

Ex abandons son, no right to be there for him now. NTA 👍

notAgirl77 | notAgirl77

Ex neglects child, blames mother for not informing him of death 💔

LucilleBall2014 | LucilleBall2014

Single mom defends herself against accusations of heartlessness.

Master-Manipulation | Master-Manipulation

Confused commenter defends OP against unwarranted criticism. 🤔

Philosopher_1 | Philosopher_1

Supportive comment calls out deadbeat dad and ex, offers condolences. 👏

judge1492 | judge1492

Ex abandons child, plays grieving dad. NTA. 🤷‍♀️

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Commenter defends OP, insults their father with humor 🤣

Bob4Cat | Bob4Cat

NTA. The dad didn't want his child in life, can't mourn now. 👏

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Ex changed his number and didn't tell mother, NTA.

Stardust68 | Stardust68

Supportive comment defends OP's actions and shuts down potential criticism ✋🏾

thoughtfulurk | thoughtfulurk

Abandoned by family, accused of heartlessness for not informing ex.

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Ex's anger was misplaced guilt. NTA for not informing.


Ex-husband abandoned sick son, NTA for not informing him about death 👏

Clopidee | Clopidee

Supportive comment, ex called out as 'a**hole' 👍

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NTA. Ex was absent, you did your best 👍

Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain

NTA. Ex-abandoned you, now blames you for not telling him? Narcissistic sociopath.

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Ex gets what he deserves. NTA 👏👏

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Curious about the dad's perspective 🤔

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NTA, tried to inform ex, grieving, dad's agreement damaged relationship. 💔

DKhoneybadger89 | DKhoneybadger89

👏 Admirable mother prioritizes son's health over ex's feelings, NTA.

AntComfortable | AntComfortable

🙌 NTA for not informing ex about son's death. Tried contacting.

WW76kh | WW76kh

NTA. Change your number and get a clean break. 🙏

Pascalle112 | Pascalle112

Commenter defends OP and criticizes father and ex-partner.

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Condolences. Despite attempts, ex didn't do much for his kid. NTA 🙏

taws34 | taws34

Commenter receives support for not being the a**hole.

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#NTA You were there for your baby. Be proud 👏

floss147 | floss147

NTA. 🔥 Dad and ex-husband are the real a**holes here.

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Supportive dad defends mother accused of heartlessness by ex.

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A heartfelt response from a new father supporting OP's decision.

gonzar09 | gonzar09

Perspective on a tough situation, not necessarily AITA-worthy 😕

Freecz | Freecz

Ex called her heartless? He gave up that right. 💔

inn0cent-bystander | inn0cent-bystander

Ex abandons family, blames mother for nothing. NAH comment agrees.

LetMeUseTheNameAude | LetMeUseTheNameAude

NTA: No a**holes here, simple situation.

Dj_Batman | Dj_Batman

NTA shuts down dad's criticism with a sassy comment 👏🏼

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Ex abandons sick child, blames depression on mother, NTA confirmed 👏

TheBrassDancer | TheBrassDancer

NTA! 🙅‍♀️ Get that restraining order, you did the right thing.

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Commenter defends mother's actions with fiery language 🔥

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Commenter defends mother accused of heartlessness towards ex-partner.

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Ex doesn't deserve to know about son's death. NTA 👍

jairatraci | jairatraci

Ex-husband's guilt made him lash out, not the mother's fault 👍

SassyBSN | SassyBSN

NTA defends mother's decision not to inform absentee dad about death 👍

puddlejumper | puddlejumper

Breaking up means no obligation to inform ex about tragedy ❤

Drummk | Drummk

NTA. Don't accept his repressed grief. Take time to grieve 💔

Ishizu1shtar | Ishizu1shtar

Heartfelt condolences, NTA, and a violent dad reaction 👊

GirlFromBim | GirlFromBim

NTA comment calls out dad and ex, earns agreement 👍

whomenow1313 | whomenow1313

Supportive comment defends mother accused of heartlessness 💕

Antique-Truth-9529 | Antique-Truth-9529

NTA stands up to absent ex and unsupportive dad 💪

Niccy26 | Niccy26

NTA, mother not responsible for informing ex about son's death 💔

Consistent_Language9 | Consistent_Language9

Heartfelt condolences offered in comment section 😢

fastfurlong | fastfurlong

Ex abandons son, NTA for not informing him of death

danmanne | danmanne

Ex abandons family, blames mother for not informing him of son's death 💔

Bluntly-20 | Bluntly-20

Ex deserves to be left out of son's death news. NTA 👍

WreckThisDiary | WreckThisDiary

👏 Supportive comment praises mother for being a victim of ex's neglect.

perapixi | perapixi

NTA: Commenter defends mother's decision to not inform ex about son's death.

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Commenter defends mother's decision not to inform ex about son's death 💪

TheOrphicOne | TheOrphicOne

NTA commenter slams absent father in fiery reply 🔥

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Commenter defends mother accused of heartlessness, suggests using magic ball.

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Commenter defends mother against ex's accusations with colorful language 💩

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Commenter believes mother is not the a**hole. 👍

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