Sister's Baby Daddy Drama: Is She Being Selfish? 😲

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Picture this: your sister is pregnant with the child of the man you once dated and might still be in love with. Now, your family expects you to be over the moon and plan the baby shower. Sounds like a recipe for disaster, right? 😬 Well, that's precisely what our protagonist is dealing with. She's trying to be polite, but the constant baby talk has her at her wit's end. To make matters worse, her family doesn't seem to understand her feelings about the whole situation. 🤷

Baby Talk Overload 🍼

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The Ex-Boyfriend Connection 😳

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A Brief History 💔

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From Lovers to Friends 🤝

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Luke and Sophia: A Love Story 💏

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Family Obliviousness 🙄

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Trying to Move On 😔

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Baby Shower Showdown 🎉

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Emotions Running High 😠

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Standing Her Ground 💪

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Family Feud 🥺

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Caught in the Crossfire: Love, Family, and Baby Showers 🤯

Our protagonist is stuck in a whirlwind of emotions as her family obsesses over her sister's pregnancy with her ex-boyfriend. She's trying to be mature and move on, but her family's constant baby talk and expectations are pushing her to the edge. When asked to plan the baby shower, she finally puts her foot down, causing a rift with her mother. 😢 Is she being selfish, or is her family being insensitive to her feelings? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭

NTA, mom is being entitled and emotionally blackmailing. 😲

Quick_Appointment_82 | Quick_Appointment_82

Setting boundaries with sister's baby daddy drama. #NTA 👏

Damn_Dutchman | Damn_Dutchman

NTA for distancing yourself from sister and ex 👍

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Setting boundaries with family during baby shower planning. 🙌

anchovie_macncheese | anchovie_macncheese

NTA for not planning sister's baby shower, maturely handled 👍

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Bottling up emotions can lead to awkward situations 🤨

CaroSCP | CaroSCP

Mature response to sister's baby daddy drama 👍

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Communicate your hurt to your family or be the bad guy 😡

hestia53 | hestia53

OP advised to seek therapy for unresolved feelings about sister's partner 🤔

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Unrequited love and baby daddy drama - ESH verdict explained. 🤷‍♀️

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Effective communication can help prevent resentment and build relationships 👍

HotAudience6110 | HotAudience6110

Move on from your fling with Luke, for your own sake 🙏

I_Call_It_A_Carhole | I_Call_It_A_Carhole

No obligation to throw sister's baby shower. NTA 👍

Several-Pay-8964 | Several-Pay-8964

Being excited for a baby shower isn't mandatory 🙌

cara180455 | cara180455

Setting boundaries is important, even with family. NTA 👍

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Commenter receives heartfelt support and encouragement during tough time ❤️

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Get some distance and find a job far away 👋

lovebeinganasshole | lovebeinganasshole

Commenter supports OP's decision to keep distance from sister's partner.

codeverity | codeverity

Planning baby shower? NTA for not wanting to. 😊

farawaythinker | farawaythinker

Sibling jealousy or valid concern? NTA for feeling overlooked 😏

abitcurious- | abitcurious-

Take a break and set boundaries. Finally some good advice! 👍

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Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and dishonest. 🤔

E_Barriick | E_Barriick

Commenter is not the a**hole in this situation. 👍

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NTA for not wanting to plan sister's lackluster baby shower 😍

slydog4100 | slydog4100

First love and sister's boyfriend: a recipe for heartbreak 💔

Truthtalker4 | Truthtalker4

NAH verdict given with empathetic advice and gift suggestion 👍

Cacophony26 | Cacophony26

Commenter receives support and advice for family conflict. 👍

little_ballof_fur | little_ballof_fur

Sibling code: NTA for not wanting sister's baby daddy drama 😍

quippers | quippers

No baby shower entitlement! NTA comment shuts it down 👏

that_was_way_harsh | that_was_way_harsh

Commenter calls out sister's behavior, sparks discussion 🤔

Good_Boat8761 | Good_Boat8761

Commenter defends sister's baby daddy, calls OP childish 😞

akitasioux13 | akitasioux13

Skip the shower drama, send a card and have fun! 👍

stuckinnowhereville | stuckinnowhereville

Engage with your loved ones, even if it's about babies 👶

G2KY | G2KY

Sister's pregnancy reminds OP of her loss, family drama ensues 😕

Significant-Bat-1168 | Significant-Bat-1168

Pandemic party drama: NTA for not wanting to plan it 🎉

Ladymouse54 | Ladymouse54

Avoid family drama by giving yourself space. 🙌

Treehorn8 | Treehorn8

Empathize with your mom, but prioritize your own life. 👍

CryptographerSalty50 | CryptographerSalty50

Politeness is key in dealing with sister's drama 🙌

justmeMcghee23 | justmeMcghee23

Traditional baby showers should be hosted by friends or distant relatives.

BiofilmWarrior | BiofilmWarrior

Etiquette experts frown upon family hosting baby showers 🤷‍♀️

ElectricalFocus560 | ElectricalFocus560

Baby shower etiquette debated in comment section 🤔

onefab_68 | onefab_68

Planning a baby shower for sister and ex? NTA. 😐

sszxs | sszxs

Commenter reminds sister's baby isn't a royal, NTA.

ScarletteMayWest | ScarletteMayWest

Don't want to plan a baby shower? NTA, let mom handle 😊

barbaramillicent | barbaramillicent

Avoiding the baby mania: NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

Candy4Evr | Candy4Evr

Setting boundaries is key. 👍

Larcztar | Larcztar

Sibling's bitter jealousy towards partner, time to move on. 😒

Dumb_Little_Idiot | Dumb_Little_Idiot

Commenter receives heartwarming support for NTA stance ❤️

Peachtree2020 | Peachtree2020

Don't feel guilty for setting boundaries, NTA 👏

pixelunicorns | pixelunicorns

Communication is key. A little explanation can avoid misunderstandings 👍

Love_My_Friend | Love_My_Friend

NTA for having residual feelings about sister dating ex-boyfriend.

Dangerous_Beans74 | Dangerous_Beans74

Exes and baby daddies, oh my! Navigating family drama 🤷‍♀️

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Declining to attend baby shower, valid feelings, mom may not understand 😐

Ksjonesy2418 | Ksjonesy2418

Stand your ground and don't let others dictate your emotions. 🙌🏻 #NTA

ThisIsAWaffle | ThisIsAWaffle

Declining to organize a baby shower for sister, NTA. 👍

RepresentativeOwl518 | RepresentativeOwl518

Commenter advises OP to rise above anger and stop being selfish 🙏

coolguyshy | coolguyshy

Commenter questions OP's relationship and offers tough love advice.

akitasioux13 | akitasioux13

Setting boundaries is important for your mental health. 🙏

SlinkyMalinky20 | SlinkyMalinky20

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