Sister Disowned After Positive HIV Test: Can Their Relationship Be Saved? 😱

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Imagine being the responsible older sibling, always taking care of your younger sister and shouldering the weight of your parents' expectations. Now, imagine your sister going off the rails, getting pregnant, and testing positive for HIV. That's the story of our protagonist, who's struggling with the decision to help her estranged sister after their parents disowned her. Can she put the past behind her and be there for her sister in her time of need? Or will the deep-rooted resentment and favoritism continue to drive a wedge between them? Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster. 🎢

The Responsible Older Sister 📚

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A Tale of Two Sisters 👩‍👩‍👧

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Rebellious Younger Sister 🚬

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Pregnancy and Broken Promises 🤰

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A Deal with the Devil 😈

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Taking Advantage of Forgiveness 😔

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Estranged Siblings 🌉

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The HIV Test 💔

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Disowned and Desperate 😢

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A Plea for Help 🙏

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Mom's Intervention 📞

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The Responsible Daughter Dilemma 💔

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Roommate's Advice 🗣️

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Love and Resentment 💔

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A Struggle Between Love and Resentment 😕

Our protagonist is torn between her love for her sister and the resentment she feels due to their parents' favoritism. As the responsible older sister, she's expected to be a role model and help her sibling in her time of need. But can she put aside her feelings of being devalued and step up? Or will the painful memories of favoritism and her sister's past actions keep her from opening her heart? Let's see what the internet has to say about this complex family situation... 💬

Therapy recommended for OP to improve relationship with sister and parents 🙏

kucky94 | kucky94

NTA commenter argues that the sister is not OP's responsibility, and that the mom is trying to dump her on them. Replies disagree and point out that the sister is pregnant and homeless. 😕

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Comment section derailed by fuzzy spider confusion 😩

RepSingh | RepSingh

NTA for refusing to be forced into role model position 👏

DaiZzedandConFuZed | DaiZzedandConFuZed

Sibling conflict over HIV+ sister's request for help. ESH.

getstrongandlean | getstrongandlean

ESH for disowning sister after HIV diagnosis, OP needs therapy 😱

rcmjnbnoe | rcmjnbnoe

ESH siblings must move past overbearing parents and support each other. 👍

Chikinuqqet | Chikinuqqet

Blood doesn't always mean family. NTA for cutting ties. 👍

Zoe-the-snekkkk | Zoe-the-snekkkk

Comment section derailed by fuzzy spider tangent 🐔

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NTA commenter advises against taking in irresponsible sister with HIV 😱

tumbleweedLC | tumbleweedLC

NTA for not wanting to take her in, but TA for phrasing it poorly. HIV is not an immediate death sentence and she needs support.

AyenDrkwing | AyenDrkwing

Navigating cultural expectations and family politics in a tough situation. 🙏

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Standing up to parents: NTA refuses to help HIV+ sister 🙌

tcsweetgurl | tcsweetgurl

NTA refuses to take in pregnant person or someone with no job.

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Commenter advises seeking medical care and therapy, NTA.

Whimsical_Mara | Whimsical_Mara

Commenter calls out OP's stigmatizing tone towards HIV and suggests therapy.

jogam | jogam

NTA comment advocates for self-care and boundaries. 💪

docfarnsworth | docfarnsworth

Family shuns sister after HIV diagnosis. ESH. 😔

dragonsnap | dragonsnap

Sibling support or tough love? NTA comment sparks debate.

wooter99 | wooter99

Choosing self-care over toxic family relationships. 👏

kayfeif | kayfeif

Defending sister with HIV, calling out resentment towards vulnerable sibling.

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Mom blames older child for sibling's disownment. NTA calls out.

FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes

Setting boundaries and holding everyone accountable for sister's actions. 👍

ultradip | ultradip

Commenter suggests parents are the real problem, offers perspective.

unsafeideas | unsafeideas

Reject her for her actions, not for her medical health. 👨‍🎓

MyFaceSaysItsSugar | MyFaceSaysItsSugar

Boundaries set: NTA not responsible for sister's actions. 👍

KaijuAlert | KaijuAlert

Sibling disowned after HIV test, commenters support decision. 👍

MandeeLess | MandeeLess

Comment section went off-topic with spider discussion 🥴

xANoellex | xANoellex

Commenter declines offer because of roommate's fuzzy spiders 🕷

goeataseed | goeataseed

Therapy can help with anger and resentment towards sister. Give chance 👍

LordofFullmetal | LordofFullmetal

A confusing comment with no replies 🤔

Cthulhlou | Cthulhlou

NTA. Commenter defends OP's decision to not take in disowned sister.

poopsiedaisie | poopsiedaisie

Sibling bond strained by HIV diagnosis, but no a-holes here 🙏

SomeMagnificentFella | SomeMagnificentFella

ESH, but OP should help sister to avoid losing her forever 😔

AncientCupcakeFever | AncientCupcakeFever

Is it cold-hearted to not support your sister with HIV? 🤔

DrunkenKlam | DrunkenKlam

Prioritize your mental health first 🙏, seek therapy for support

ItsaJello | ItsaJello

Commenter empathizes with OP, advises family intervention for sister. 😔

eboseki | eboseki

NTA all the way! You built your life on your own 👏

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Sibling struggles with cultural expectations and personal boundaries. 🤔

Age_of_the_Penguin | Age_of_the_Penguin

Judging OP's actions based on their relationship with sister 🤔

Schlem22 | Schlem22

Commenter is not the a**hole in this situation. 👍

terribleterrabyte | terribleterrabyte

Sibling recommends therapy, advises not to take in HIV-positive sister 🙏

mintyycosplay | mintyycosplay

Commenter prioritizes fuzzy spiders over parasitic sister. NTA.

LibraryLuLu | LibraryLuLu

Sibling disowned over HIV test: ESH, but sister innocent 😓

Leo_BigSad | Leo_BigSad

Clear judgement! But why NTA? Let's find out.

NomadofExile | NomadofExile

Prioritizing self-care over family drama. NTA wins this round! 👏

Premodonna | Premodonna

Comment section derailed by fuzzy spiders 😅

msmozzarella | msmozzarella

Boundaries with family, seek counseling, live your own life. 👍

Hanxa13 | Hanxa13

HIV diagnosis leads to family disownment. Blame game ensues. 🤷‍♀️

LoveBulge | LoveBulge

NTA, but don't reject sister for parents' mistakes. Consider therapy for healing and setting clear boundaries. 💛

strnbll | strnbll

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