Imagine being a nurse with a hectic and unpredictable work schedule, only to have your fiancée drop off your one-year-old son at your workplace during her cousin’s wedding! That’s what happened to this 27-year-old dad, who was left fuming after his fiancée’s unexpected move. The couple had agreed on a division of responsibilities, but things took a dramatic turn when the fiancée wanted him to skip work for her cousin’s wedding. Read on to find out how this explosive situation unfolded!
The Couple’s Agreement

Work Schedule Woes

Cousin’s Wedding Dilemma

Dad’s Work Commitment

Fiancée’s Furious Fit

Surprise Baby Drop-off!

Fiancée’s Demands

Dad’s Outburst

Heated Argument

Aftermath: Accusations and Blame ️

Mother-in-Law’s Judgement

Refusing to Apologize

Fiancée’s Changing Attitude

Dad’s Stance on Priorities ⚖️

Mother-in-Law’s Influence

Dad’s Dilemma: Work or Baby?
This nurse dad found himself in a tough spot when his fiancée dropped their baby off at his workplace during her cousin’s wedding. Despite their agreement on sharing responsibilities, the fiancée accused him of being unsupportive and prioritizing work over family. The situation escalated, with the mother-in-law joining in to criticize the dad. He refused to apologize for his outburst, standing firm on his priorities. The debate continues, with the dad feeling tired and judged by his fiancée’s family. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this messy situation…
Fiancée drops baby at work during pandemic, NTA for prioritizing work

NTA. Fiancée prioritized salon over son, mother in law blamed OP.

Commenter advises reconsidering relationship with selfish fiancée and her future mother-in-law.

Fiancée jeopardizes nurse dad’s job for hair appointment, NTA.

NTA. Fiancée dropped baby at work for hair appointment. Risked Covid.

Commenter jokingly asks for information on why the nurse dad is with his fiancée, receives multiple humorous awards.
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Fiancée drops baby at nurse’s work for spa day. NTA.

Frustrated nurse dad contemplates relationship with financially irresponsible fiancée.

SAHM snaps under pressure, but OP’s lack of empathy is concerning.

NTA. Commenter questions logic of fiancee’s actions, with supportive replies.

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenters call her negligent.

Commenter advises against marrying fiancée due to her immaturity.

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenters advise against marriage.
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Concerned commenter suggests fiancée may be struggling mentally.

Quick and decisive NTA comment shuts down discussion.

Nurse dad’s fiancée drops baby at work during wedding. NTA.

Commenter calls out nurse dad’s fiancée for prioritizing hair over child.

Fiancée drops baby at work, commenter advises to reconsider relationship

Commenter sympathizes with fiancée’s stress but not her actions

Beware of future wife’s behavior. Run while you can!

Nurse’s fiancée drops baby at hospital during pandemic. NTA.

Fiancée’s mistake aside, discuss feelings and daycare options

Balancing work and personal life can prevent avoidable accidents.

Fiancée wants nurse dad to skip work and watch baby; leaves baby at hospital. NTA.

Supportive comment defending nurse dad’s work-life balance.

Commenter calls out lack of communication and compromise, but receives pushback.

Commenter questions poor planning and suggests MIL babysit

Fiancée’s irresponsible behavior puts job at risk. NTA.

Commenter calls out parent’s lack of responsibility.

Nurse dad drops baby at work during wedding, avoids firing.

Fiancé drops baby at nurse’s work during wedding. NTA.

Parent commenter advises reconsidering marriage after fiancée’s negligence.

NTA. Don’t marry her or have more kids.

Nurse dad’s fiancée puts child and job in danger. NTA.

Confused commenter thinks leaving baby with grandma was obvious.

Commenter questions the story’s inconsistencies.
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Commenter questions fiancé’s intelligence with humorous tone

Supportive comment suggests PPD may be the cause of incident

Fiancée drops baby at nurse dad’s work during wedding! NTA.
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Commenter sympathizes with nurse dad, calls out fiancée’s behavior.

Think twice before marrying someone who’s self-absorbed and irresponsible

Fiancée prioritizes salon over baby, commenter deems NTA.

Commenter advises seeking help to avoid potential child abandonment.

Commenter praises nurse dad for being a saint

NTA and a warning about the fiancée

NTA prioritizes work schedule over jobless fiancee’s wants.

Fiancée drops baby at work during wedding, NTA but irresponsible.

Call a lawyer, don’t marry her, protect your child
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Commenter suggests divorce after fiancée drops baby at work.

Beware of lazy, entitled fiancée. NTA, run while you can.

Commenter sympathizes with dad, calls fiancée ‘wack’ and criticizes her family.

Commenter questions partner choice after fiancée’s careless act.

NTA for not watching baby at work, but reevaluate division of labor

Commenter calls out irresponsible fiancée for endangering nurse dad’s job

NTA calls out negligent fiancée for prioritizing family over child

Fiancée drops baby at nurse dad’s virus-ridden work. NTA advice.

Encouraging comment for single dad, courts favoring equal custody. ✌️

NTA, but financially supporting her is not the solution

NTA, but MIL needs to butt out or it’ll get worse.
