Sister's Uncontrollable Behavior Ruins Christmas Plans 😱🎄

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Diply | Diply

Christmas is a time for family, love, and togetherness, but for one woman, it's a time of heartbreak and difficult decisions. 🥺💔 She's married to her husband for 2 years and they usually spend the holidays with his parents. However, this year, they're faced with the prospect of spending Christmas with her family, including her sister who has a unique and challenging condition. 🎄😰

Sister's Tragic Accident 😢

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Struggling with Hypersexuality 😔

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Sister's Life in Shambles 💔

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Husband's Presence Makes It Worse 😣

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In-Laws' Europe Trip Changes Plans 🌍

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Breaking the News to Parents 💔

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The Uncomfortable Truth 😓

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Parents' Reaction: Ableist? 😠

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Christmas Dilemma: Family or Peace of Mind? 🤔

Caught between her love for her sister and the need for a peaceful holiday, this woman is struggling with the decision to spend Christmas with her family. Her sister's hypersexuality, triggered by her husband's presence, makes the situation uncomfortable and challenging. After revealing the truth to her parents, they accuse her of being ableist and slut-shaming her sister. 💔😢 Now, she's left wondering if she's making the right choice by avoiding the family gathering. Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation... 📣

NTA. Setting boundaries with sister's uncontrollable behavior is necessary. 😱

Fainora | Fainora

Compromise suggested for sister's behavior at Christmas 🎄

interesting-mug | interesting-mug

Commenter advises OP to include important detail for clarity.

Ok-Adhesiveness592 | Ok-Adhesiveness592

Hilarious euphemisms and support for NTA's analogy.

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Setting healthy boundaries for Christmas with difficult family members. NTA.

Some_Pipe59 | Some_Pipe59

Choosing husband's comfort over sister's uncontrollable behavior is understandable. 🙏

UsuallyWrite2 | UsuallyWrite2

Comment defends against ableist accusation with sarcasm 😜

bureaucratic_drift | bureaucratic_drift

Defending against ableist accusations for setting boundaries with sister's behavior.

tatersprout | tatersprout

Commenter and reply make a pun about moot/moo point 🐄

zadidoll | zadidoll

Heartbreaking experience of being violated by a disabled family member 😢

ThisIsMyCircus40 | ThisIsMyCircus40

NTA commenter sympathizes with OP, questions sister's intentions 🤔

noams_puppy | noams_puppy

Sibling's uncontrollable behavior causes family tension and discomfort 😱

peithecelt | peithecelt

Commenter defends OP's husband, calls out inappropriate behavior. NTA 🙌

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Being understanding doesn't mean you have to put up with it 🙏

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Protecting your husband = protecting your Christmas 🎄

gym-sloth | gym-sloth

Commenter empathizes with OP's husband and supports NTA decision.

scumfckflwrgirl | scumfckflwrgirl

Parents are the a**holes for telling sister the reason 🤦‍♀️

1962Michael | 1962Michael

In-laws and uncontrollable behavior ruined Christmas. NTA for setting boundaries. 😒

WholeAd2742 | WholeAd2742

Commenter sympathizes with OP's situation and condemns sexual harassment. 👏

bernini1680 | bernini1680

Sometimes it's necessary to avoid uncomfortable situations. 🙌

azrendelmare | azrendelmare

Debate over responsibility for sister's uncontrollable behavior after TBI 🤔

Cent1234 | Cent1234

Husband avoids uncomfortable situation, NTA. Sister's condition explained.

Aquarius052 | Aquarius052

Compassionate NTA comment offers advice for managing sister's TBI symptoms 👍

evil_nala | evil_nala

Support for OP's decision to prioritize husband's safety 🙌

Altruistic_Kale_3597 | Altruistic_Kale_3597

Parents' decision to tell sister caused emotional strife. NTA.

NearbyFox1665 | NearbyFox1665

Commenter praised for acknowledging sister's uncontrollable behavior 👏

Roux_Harbour | Roux_Harbour

Mom and dad are the real a**holes in this situation 😒

mamaroxy | mamaroxy

Sister's behavior results in husband being sexually harassed. NTA.

newbeginingshey | newbeginingshey

Protecting your spouse and setting boundaries with family. 👍

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Sibling's sexual harassment could lead to serious consequences 😱

I_luv_sloths | I_luv_sloths

Protect your husband from sister's harassment for parents' holiday plans 😡

Snowybird60 | Snowybird60

NTA. OP handles sister's uncontrollable behavior with grace and boundaries 👏

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Prioritizing safety over feelings 🙌

cassowary32 | cassowary32

A TBI survivor shares their experience and advice on accountability. 👍

FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter

Avoiding sister's harassment is valid. Unfortunate situation for all involved. 😔

Hutchoman87 | Hutchoman87

NTA. Sister's behavior is not intentional, but it's not safe for your husband. Consider future children. 😱

Quizzy1313 | Quizzy1313

Spouse's consent isn't required for involuntary sexual harassment. NTA 🙌

hee_hawesome | hee_hawesome

Setting boundaries for toxic family members 👍

massivevoltage | massivevoltage

Stand up for yourself and your comfort. NTA 👏

tinysydneh | tinysydneh

Avoiding a hypersexual aunt with mental illness during holidays 😱

Germanshepherdlady13 | Germanshepherdlady13

Compassionate NTA sets boundaries for husband's safety, suggests solutions 👏

Stunning_Bottle8138 | Stunning_Bottle8138

Compassionate response to sister's uncontrollable behavior and unfair situation. 👏

Few-Web3214 | Few-Web3214

Empathetic NTA comment acknowledges sister's hurt, suggests compromise with parents.

SoloBurger13 | SoloBurger13

Dog mistreatment leads to holiday chaos. NTA dilemma resolved.

I_might_be_weasel | I_might_be_weasel

Compassionate NTA suggests overdue conversation with uncontrollable sister ❤️

Quistadora | Quistadora

NTA offers compromise, parents and sister are the AHs. 💁‍♀️

Potential_Honey_955 | Potential_Honey_955

Compassionate NTA comment sympathizes with sister but supports husband. 😢

Nolly66 | Nolly66

Setting boundaries with a loved one's compulsive behavior 👍


Navigating the complexities of disability, consent, and family dynamics 🤔

muse273 | muse273

NTA. Sister's behavior is sexual harassment and assault. Stand your ground. 🚨

baby1iz | baby1iz

Commenter sympathizes and suggests alternatives for sister's behavior during Christmas. 😞

sometimes_a_comment | sometimes_a_comment

Protecting partner from harassment, NTA despite sister's illness. 🚨

JuliaX1984 | JuliaX1984

Setting boundaries with family is okay 👍

arsong1rl | arsong1rl

Standing up to sexual harassment at Thanksgiving dinner. NTA 💪

Mama_Odie | Mama_Odie

Standing up against inappropriate behavior during the holidays 🎄

simplymandee | simplymandee

NTA stands up for boundaries with a hypothetical twist 🤔

mariruizgar | mariruizgar

Setting boundaries with a sister who has a condition. 👍

Resident-Science-525 | Resident-Science-525

Protecting your spouse from toxic family. NTA 👍

No-Elderberry2072 | No-Elderberry2072

NTA. Parents responsible for sister's behavior. Home unsafe for husband. 😱

coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85

Parents prioritize anger over sister's well-being. NTA.

SherDelene | SherDelene

Sister's advances on husband make Christmas awkward. NTA for avoidance.

SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123

Setting boundaries with family during holidays can be tough 😢

NickelPickle2018 | NickelPickle2018

Defending against false accusations with NTA and confusion 😕

Broad_Respond_2205 | Broad_Respond_2205

Husband shouldn't be subjected to sister's behavior. NTA. 👍

shenanigansco34 | shenanigansco34

NTA for prioritizing spouse over sister's uncontrollable behavior 👍

Odd-End-1405 | Odd-End-1405

Unwanted sexual advances at Christmas? Definitely not the a**hole.

Winnimae | Winnimae

Parents' guilt-tripping is cruel. NTA for not going. 🙏

ligerzero459 | ligerzero459

NTA shuts down absurd suggestion to tolerate sexual harassment/assault. 🙄

journeyintopressure | journeyintopressure

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