Bride-to-Be Refuses to Invite Maid of Honour's Boyfriend to Wedding: Justified or Over the Line? 😲

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Weddings are a time for love, celebration, and, unfortunately, sometimes drama. One bride-to-be is facing a dilemma that could potentially ruin her big day. Her maid of honour's boyfriend has a history of causing tension between the two best friends, and now the bride is questioning whether she should invite him to her wedding. But her maid of honour isn't taking the news lightly, threatening not to attend the wedding if her boyfriend isn't invited. The bride is left wondering if she's in the wrong for wanting to keep her special day drama-free. 😕💔

The Unwanted Boyfriend 💔

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

The Root of the Problem 😠

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Birthday Party Blues 🎂

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Party Crasher 😒

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Pregnancy and Heartbreak 💔

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Supportive Friend Steps Up ❤️

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Tragic Loss and Hospital Stay 😢

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Ungrateful Boyfriend Strikes Again 😡

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Ongoing Tension 😣

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

The Unchanging Opinion 🙄

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Wedding Invitation Dilemma 💌

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Protecting Her Special Day 👰

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Maid of Honour's Ultimatum 😨

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

Questioning Her Decision 🤔

sirkey2203 | sirkey2203

To Invite or Not to Invite: The Wedding Dilemma 🤷‍♀️

The bride-to-be is torn between wanting a drama-free wedding and not wanting to lose her maid of honour over the decision to exclude her boyfriend. With a history of tension and conflict, the bride feels justified in her decision, but her best friend's ultimatum has her questioning if she's in the wrong. As the wedding day approaches, the bride must decide if she's willing to risk her special day for the sake of her friendship. Let's see what people think about this complicated situation...🧐💍

NTA for not inviting the toxic boyfriend to the wedding 👏

MGDarion | MGDarion

Commenters express concern for friend in possibly abusive relationship

m_preddy | m_preddy

NTA. Commenter offers empathetic advice for friend in abusive relationship. 👏

salukiqueen | salukiqueen

NTA bride-to-be sparks debate on whether to invite maid of honour's abusive boyfriend to wedding 😐

RachelTsou | RachelTsou

Protecting a friend from abuse: the right thing to do 👏

Frankie_M_99 | Frankie_M_99

Bride-to-be refuses to invite maid of honour's toxic boyfriend to wedding. NTA.

cdifl | cdifl

Debate over whether stress causes miscarriage, but NAH for wedding.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Encouraging support for friend in abusive relationship 💖

zenswashbuckler | zenswashbuckler

Commenter gives advice on how to communicate with MoH. 👍

HisPumpkin19 | HisPumpkin19

Supportive reply suggests friend needs help. 🙏

rayvon2006 | rayvon2006

Bride-to-be faces dilemma with MOH's abusive boyfriend: NTA but find new MOH

BertTheNerd | BertTheNerd

Wedding guest list drama - NTA takes charge 😎

Chaij2606 | Chaij2606

Toxic friendship. Maid of honour not supportive. 💯

GerryBeck | GerryBeck

Wedding guest list drama: NTA but risk losing friend. 😕

Prechrchet | Prechrchet

Set your wedding guest list as you please. NTA 👍

Sleepy_felines | Sleepy_felines

Commenter sympathizes with Maid of Honour's boyfriend situation 😢

Soumeeimhere | Soumeeimhere

Friend's loyalty questioned after choosing boyfriend over bride-to-be 😕

QuitaQuites | QuitaQuites

NTA but set boundaries with your MOH and find someone else.

jammy913 | jammy913

Best friend prioritizes toxic boyfriend over bride-to-be's boundaries. NTA. 👏

Superlemonada | Superlemonada

Bride-to-be's friend refuses to invite her MOH's boyfriend to wedding 💔

shadowoflillith | shadowoflillith

Bride-to-be justified in not inviting manipulative, abusive boyfriend 👏

ozoptimist | ozoptimist

Supportive comment advises bride-to-be to prioritize her wedding day 👏

princesspurrito36 | princesspurrito36

Supportive comment suggests possible abuse in maid of honour's relationship. 😱

QuestBear | QuestBear

Supportive comment advises bride-to-be to keep boundaries with abusive friend.

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

Supporting a friend in an abusive relationship: a delicate balance 🤗

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment acknowledges toxicity and potential friendship fallout. 👍

Trippygirl13 | Trippygirl13

Friend in abusive relationship, bride-to-be justified in not inviting boyfriend 🙏

Nomegusta111 | Nomegusta111

Supportive comment urges friend to leave abusive relationship 👏

anarchyshift | anarchyshift

Support for bride-to-be's decision to exclude maid of honour's boyfriend.

BeaArt78 | BeaArt78

Maid of honour's boyfriend not invited to wedding. NTA.

Limp-Muffin3003 | Limp-Muffin3003

Maid of honour's loyalty questioned by commenters. 🤔

NoCucumber5384 | NoCucumber5384

Choose a new MoH and enjoy your wedding day! 💕 NTA

Lotex_Style | Lotex_Style

Friendship dynamics may need rethinking. 🤔

PurlPaladin | PurlPaladin

Wedding guest list drama: Bride refuses to invite MOH's boyfriend 🤔

OlrikMeister | OlrikMeister

Navigating toxic friendships is tough, but prioritizing your well-being matters 🙌

unaotradesechable | unaotradesechable

Bride-to-be justified in not inviting MOH's boyfriend 😊

AnonymousVex7676 | AnonymousVex7676

Bride-to-be's Maid of Honour chooses rude boyfriend over lifelong friend 🤷‍♀️

LadyStonio | LadyStonio

Set a firm rule for the wedding guest list. NTA 👍

EarthBelcher | EarthBelcher

Friendship with boundaries: NTA for not inviting toxic boyfriend 👏

Bobalery | Bobalery

Friend's toxic relationship shouldn't ruin your wedding day. 👰🏻🎓

ChiveBasket | ChiveBasket

Friendship fallout: NTA needs new BFF, enabling boyfriend unacceptable. 🤷‍♀️

Aicatalia | Aicatalia

NTA. Bride-to-be stands up for herself and sets boundaries. 👏

crazycatleslie | crazycatleslie

Supportive comment suggests finding new MOH due to friend's behavior 👏

rainbowsassqueen | rainbowsassqueen

Wedding day is about the couple, not the MOH's boyfriend 😍

PrettyHateMachinexxx | PrettyHateMachinexxx

Friend in abusive cycle with boyfriend gives ultimatum to bride-to-be. NTA.

valerian_spiel | valerian_spiel

Bride-to-be refuses to invite MoH's controlling boyfriend to wedding 😍

Awsomesauc58 | Awsomesauc58

NTA - No drama in this bridal party 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment advises heart-to-heart with worried Maid of Honour.

thatssallfolkss | thatssallfolkss

Supportive comment on emotional abuse and distancing from toxic relationships. 👍

puravida_2018 | puravida_2018

MOH's loyalty questioned after bride-to-be's wedding decision 😕

Enjay73 | Enjay73

Friend prioritizes boyfriend over maid of honor, NTA for excluding.

bbbeepp | bbbeepp

Bride's decision justified but MOH's relationship concerning 😕

FightingFairy4 | FightingFairy4

Wedding day should be stress-free. NTA for not inviting.

Captain_Quoll | Captain_Quoll

Friendship on hold: NTA refuses to invite MOH's boyfriend 🙅

CommunitySuitable206 | CommunitySuitable206

Maid of Honour's boyfriend is the AH, NTA for bride-to-be 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Red flags? 🚩 Tell me more about this potential disaster...

gamemamawarlock | gamemamawarlock

Commenter expresses concern for MOH's relationship, advises caution 🚩

SlartieB | SlartieB

Bride-to-be praised for excluding toxic and abusive boyfriend 👍

CremeDeMarron | CremeDeMarron

Wedding drama! Commenter defends bride-to-be's controversial decision. 😱

coldteafordays | coldteafordays

Take control of your wedding guest list! NTA 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friend threatens to skip wedding unless MOH's boyfriend invited. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bridesmaid's toxic boyfriend banned from wedding for security reasons 🚨

DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser

Bride-to-be justified in not inviting disliked person to wedding 😍

Phil_Oop_North | Phil_Oop_North

Toxic MOH? Find a new one 👍

breakfree99 | breakfree99

Bridezilla alert! Refusing MOH's boyfriend, YTA and needs replacement 😠

krlrk | krlrk

Cutting ties with a toxic friend before the wedding 👍

LennyBrisco01 | LennyBrisco01

Wedding drama: Bride-to-be justified in not inviting maid of honour's boyfriend 😕

Arnesis | Arnesis

Wedding invite drama: Friend's boyfriend not invited. NTA wins.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Choosing an abusive a**hole over the bride? Definitely not okay 😑

MelodyRaine | MelodyRaine

Wedding drama? NTA bride sets boundaries for drama-free day 😍

lootenantdank | lootenantdank

Supportive comment on friend's abusive relationship. Encourages help-seeking. 👏

Donnathesinger | Donnathesinger

NTA defends decision, commenters express concern for Maid of Honour.

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

Bride-to-be justifies not inviting maid of honour's abusive boyfriend 👍

dookle14 | dookle14

Toxic boyfriend at the wedding? NTA for not inviting him! 😊

Weskit | Weskit

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