Weddings are a time for love, celebration, and, unfortunately, sometimes drama. One bride-to-be is facing a dilemma that could potentially ruin her big day. Her maid of honour’s boyfriend has a history of causing tension between the two best friends, and now the bride is questioning whether she should invite him to her wedding. But her maid of honour isn’t taking the news lightly, threatening not to attend the wedding if her boyfriend isn’t invited. The bride is left wondering if she’s in the wrong for wanting to keep her special day drama-free.
The Unwanted Boyfriend

The Root of the Problem

Birthday Party Blues

Party Crasher

Pregnancy and Heartbreak

Supportive Friend Steps Up ❤️

Tragic Loss and Hospital Stay

Ungrateful Boyfriend Strikes Again

Ongoing Tension

The Unchanging Opinion

Wedding Invitation Dilemma

Protecting Her Special Day

Maid of Honour’s Ultimatum

Questioning Her Decision

To Invite or Not to Invite: The Wedding Dilemma ♀️
The bride-to-be is torn between wanting a drama-free wedding and not wanting to lose her maid of honour over the decision to exclude her boyfriend. With a history of tension and conflict, the bride feels justified in her decision, but her best friend’s ultimatum has her questioning if she’s in the wrong. As the wedding day approaches, the bride must decide if she’s willing to risk her special day for the sake of her friendship. Let’s see what people think about this complicated situation…
NTA for not inviting the toxic boyfriend to the wedding

Commenters express concern for friend in possibly abusive relationship

NTA. Commenter offers empathetic advice for friend in abusive relationship.

NTA bride-to-be sparks debate on whether to invite maid of honour’s abusive boyfriend to wedding

Protecting a friend from abuse: the right thing to do

Bride-to-be refuses to invite maid of honour’s toxic boyfriend to wedding. NTA.

Debate over whether stress causes miscarriage, but NAH for wedding.
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Encouraging support for friend in abusive relationship

Commenter gives advice on how to communicate with MoH.

Supportive reply suggests friend needs help.

Bride-to-be faces dilemma with MOH’s abusive boyfriend: NTA but find new MOH

Wedding guest list drama – NTA takes charge

Toxic friendship. Maid of honour not supportive.

Wedding guest list drama: NTA but risk losing friend.

Set your wedding guest list as you please. NTA

Commenter sympathizes with Maid of Honour’s boyfriend situation

Friend’s loyalty questioned after choosing boyfriend over bride-to-be

NTA but set boundaries with your MOH and find someone else.

Best friend prioritizes toxic boyfriend over bride-to-be’s boundaries. NTA.

Bride-to-be’s friend refuses to invite her MOH’s boyfriend to wedding

Bride-to-be justified in not inviting manipulative, abusive boyfriend

Supportive comment advises bride-to-be to prioritize her wedding day

Supportive comment suggests possible abuse in maid of honour’s relationship.

Supportive comment advises bride-to-be to keep boundaries with abusive friend.

Supporting a friend in an abusive relationship: a delicate balance
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Supportive comment acknowledges toxicity and potential friendship fallout.

Friend in abusive relationship, bride-to-be justified in not inviting boyfriend

Supportive comment urges friend to leave abusive relationship

Support for bride-to-be’s decision to exclude maid of honour’s boyfriend.

Maid of honour’s boyfriend not invited to wedding. NTA.

Maid of honour’s loyalty questioned by commenters.

Choose a new MoH and enjoy your wedding day! NTA

Friendship dynamics may need rethinking.

Wedding guest list drama: Bride refuses to invite MOH’s boyfriend

Navigating toxic friendships is tough, but prioritizing your well-being matters

Bride-to-be justified in not inviting MOH’s boyfriend

Bride-to-be’s Maid of Honour chooses rude boyfriend over lifelong friend ♀️

Set a firm rule for the wedding guest list. NTA

Friendship with boundaries: NTA for not inviting toxic boyfriend

Friend’s toxic relationship shouldn’t ruin your wedding day.

Friendship fallout: NTA needs new BFF, enabling boyfriend unacceptable. ♀️

NTA. Bride-to-be stands up for herself and sets boundaries.

Supportive comment suggests finding new MOH due to friend’s behavior

Wedding day is about the couple, not the MOH’s boyfriend

Friend in abusive cycle with boyfriend gives ultimatum to bride-to-be. NTA.

Bride-to-be refuses to invite MoH’s controlling boyfriend to wedding

NTA – No drama in this bridal party
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Supportive comment advises heart-to-heart with worried Maid of Honour.

Supportive comment on emotional abuse and distancing from toxic relationships.

MOH’s loyalty questioned after bride-to-be’s wedding decision

Friend prioritizes boyfriend over maid of honor, NTA for excluding.

Bride’s decision justified but MOH’s relationship concerning

Wedding day should be stress-free. NTA for not inviting.

Friendship on hold: NTA refuses to invite MOH’s boyfriend

Maid of Honour’s boyfriend is the AH, NTA for bride-to-be
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Red flags? Tell me more about this potential disaster…

Commenter expresses concern for MOH’s relationship, advises caution

Bride-to-be praised for excluding toxic and abusive boyfriend

Wedding drama! Commenter defends bride-to-be’s controversial decision.

Take control of your wedding guest list! NTA
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Friend threatens to skip wedding unless MOH’s boyfriend invited. NTA.
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Bridesmaid’s toxic boyfriend banned from wedding for security reasons

Bride-to-be justified in not inviting disliked person to wedding

Toxic MOH? Find a new one

Bridezilla alert! Refusing MOH’s boyfriend, YTA and needs replacement

Cutting ties with a toxic friend before the wedding

Wedding drama: Bride-to-be justified in not inviting maid of honour’s boyfriend

Wedding invite drama: Friend’s boyfriend not invited. NTA wins.
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Choosing an abusive a**hole over the bride? Definitely not okay

Wedding drama? NTA bride sets boundaries for drama-free day

Supportive comment on friend’s abusive relationship. Encourages help-seeking.

NTA defends decision, commenters express concern for Maid of Honour.

Bride-to-be justifies not inviting maid of honour’s abusive boyfriend

Toxic boyfriend at the wedding? NTA for not inviting him!
