Imagine dining at a local Chinese restaurant, enjoying the food, and tipping generously, only to have the waitress confront you about the tip amount. That’s exactly what happened to one customer, who was left in a moral dilemma. The customer tipped 15%, but the waitress demanded more, leading to an unexpected turn of events. Let’s dive into this spicy story! ️
A Night Out for Chinese Food

The Bill Arrives

Confronted for Not Tipping Enough

Frustration Takes Over

Reflecting on the Situation

What Should’ve Been Done?

Seeking Opinions

TL;DR

EDIT: Clarifying Intentions ️

The Aftermath: Was Taking Back the Tip Justified?
After being confronted by a waitress who demanded a bigger tip, the customer took back the $5 bill and left the restaurant. The customer wonders if they should’ve ignored the waitress’s request or given a larger tip to avoid conflict. They’re seeking opinions on whether taking back the tip was the right move. Have you ever experienced a similar situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this tipping dilemma!
NTA. Waitress acted entitled and ungrateful over a small tip.

Debate over tipping culture and entitlement in service industry

Customer defends tipping 15% and questions waitress’ expectations

Canadian tipping culture vs American tipping culture explained

Customer takes back tip from entitled waitress, commenters agree NTA

NTA. Server demands bigger tip, customer takes it back

Customer tipped almost 20%, waitress demanded more, NTA.

Explaining the situation could have helped her improve

Canada saves the day! NTA wins.

Fair or not? Customer takes back optional tip from rude waitress

Former waitress agrees with NTA verdict, shares own bad experience

Tipping debate crosses borders
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Reasonable tip sparks rude comment from entitled waitress

Customer justified in not tipping due to rude waitress attitude

Customer takes back tip from poorly performing waitress. NTA

Debate on tipping culture and entitlement in the service industry

Tipping is optional where I live, server sounds entitled

Commenter rants about tipping culture and defends customer.

Tourist refuses to tip after being told it’s customary ♂️

Customer refuses to tip after waitress rounds up bill.

Former waiter says waitress was unprofessional, NTA for not tipping

Unprofessional for servers to demand bigger tips

Customer defends not tipping due to flawed system and fear

Customer defends 15% tip, warns against rude waitresses.

NTA commenter defends tipping etiquette and criticizes entitlement.

Commenter criticizes tipping culture in North America and advocates for fair salaries.

Waitress defends $5 tip, receives NTA judgement from commenter.

Confusing tips? Australia sounds like my kind of place

Passionate comment calls for ending tipping culture in America

Less contact with waitstaff is preferred by many customers

A Canadian customer questions the new high tip options

Customer takes back tip, commenter defends and criticizes waitress.

Debate over tipping culture and entitlement in service industry

Culture shock: tipping norms vary by region and expectation.

Standing up for fair tips

Geography lesson in the comments

Customer stands up to entitled waitress demanding bigger tip

Money talk: entitlement or earned?

Australian weighs in on tipping culture in the USA

A pregnant woman, her daughter, and husband’s bread obsession gone wrong

NTA says a 15% tip is good, waitress’s entitlement backfires

NTA – Tips are a gratuity for good service
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Customer takes back tip after waitress demands more

Have you ever encountered a demanding waitress?

Tipping is voluntary, but waitress demands bigger tip. NTA.

Canadian defends tipping culture and fair wages for servers

UK resident baffled by US tipping culture

Former Canadian waitress shocked by rising tip expectations and poor service.

Customer defends taking back tip, cites low service level.

UK commenter defends 15% tip, supports customer taking it back

Former server explains why discussing tips with customers is humiliating
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Canadian defends tipping culture, calls out assumption of US location

In some cultures, tips are incentives for good service. #NTA

Customer stands up for tipping etiquette. NTA

Customer removes tip after entitled waitress demands more, NTA.
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Commenter advocates for fair wages instead of tipping culture
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Customer praised for not giving into entitled waitress

Demanding tips = bad idea
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Customer defends not tipping, calls 20% rule ‘bollocks’

Tipping should be a bonus, not an obligation. #NTA

Customer defends their tipping decision after unprofessional demand. NTA

American server defends tipping culture in Montreal, sparks debate
