Man Demands Girlfriend Wear Diapers to Bed : Is He Wrong?

Imagine waking up in the middle of the night, soaked in urine… and it’s not even yours! That’s the reality for a 26-year-old man whose 23-year-old girlfriend has been wetting the bed at least once a week. He’s tried everything, from helping her clean up to suggesting she cut back on her alcohol consumption, but nothing seems to work. In a last-ditch effort to save his sanity (and his mattress), he suggested she wear adult diapers to bed. But she’s not having it, calling the idea embarrassing and storming out of the room. So, is he really the bad guy for wanting a dry night’s sleep? Let’s dive into the story…

A Soaked Situation

Nightly Cleanup

The Breaking Point

A Sticky Situation ‍♂️

The Alcohol Factor

A Compromise?

The Diaper Dilemma

Embarrassment and Anger

Her Bladder, Her Problem? ‍♂️

Cleaning Expertise

Mental Health Matters

Love is Blind ❤️

The Uphill Battle ⛰️

A Difficult Conversation

A Desperate Plea for Dry Sheets

So, our desperate boyfriend has tried everything to help his girlfriend with her bed-wetting problem, but she refuses to budge. He’s even suggested adult diapers as a solution, but she’s mortified at the idea and storms out of the room. Despite her mental health issues and the uphill battle they face, he’s determined to help her work through her problems. But is he really the bad guy for wanting a dry night’s sleep? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Commenters express concern for girlfriend’s possible alcoholism and suggest leaving her

NTA for refusing to sleep in a puddle of urine. Girlfriend needs help for drinking addiction or medical issue.

Bed wetting in adults may indicate a medical issue

NTA seeks solutions for GF’s alcoholism and bedwetting. Denial persists.

Commenter warns OP of potential consequences of girlfriend’s alcoholism.

NTA suggests girlfriend should wear diapers to bed. Replies disagree.

NTA suggests OP’s inaction enables girlfriend’s addiction and deeper issues.

Alcohol and bedwetting: NTA but she needs help

NTA suggests girlfriend needs medical attention for bedwetting. Concerning response.

Commenter calls out white knight syndrome, gets support.

Partner’s bedwetting: NTA suggests alcohol problem, replies deny it.

Commenter suggests seeking help for bizarre diaper request.

NTA commenter points out red flags in relationship involving diapers

Commenter questions ‘judgement free zone’ and criticizes girlfriend’s behavior.

Don’t settle for a diaper fetish at 26.

Loving someone with addiction problems they deny is a problem.

Commenter changes mind, deems both parties assholes. ESH but YTA.

NTA. Practical advice on managing the situation with empathy.

Cleaning professional shares tips for removing urine smell from mattress

NTA suggests ultimatum for girlfriend’s bizarre behavior

Partner’s incontinence raises health concerns, NTA for addressing it

Encouraging response to a delicate situation.

Commenter expresses concern for girlfriend’s alcoholism and recommends seeking help.

Commenter calls out hygiene issue in blunt but effective way

Encouraging response to unhelpful behavior in relationship.

Encouraging NTA to seek medical help for girlfriend’s incontinence

Enabling an alcoholic partner: tough love is necessary

Commenter warns against white knight syndrome and fixing partner.

Are co-dependencies ruining your relationships?

Understanding addiction and the need for accountability in relationships.

Partner wants girlfriend to wear diapers to bed. Commenter is NTA.

Brotherly love can’t excuse everything

NTA comment calls girlfriend a ‘disgusting arsehole’ for refusing diapers.

Commenter warns of enabling girlfriend’s alcohol problem

Doubting the authenticity of the post

NTA bf repeatedly wet bed, refused to change. OP suggests reasonable solution.

Separate beds may be the solution. NTA, but reconsider relationship.

Germaphobe’s nightmare: girlfriend asked to wear diapers to bed

User warns OP not to fall into savior role. YTA.

Suggesting a solution without judgment. Good advice

Love doesn’t always conquer all, even with good intentions

Savage advice for a toxic relationship.

Sleeping in separate beds may be the solution.

AlAnon may be a better solution than diapers

Waterproof mattress protectors: a solution for diaper demand?

Approaching the diaper issue with concern is key.

Commenter suggests getting a new mattress and girlfriend

Partner wants girlfriend to wear diapers to bed. Comment suggests doctor.

Encouraging comment on helping partner with a sensitive issue

Respectful boundaries: NTA wants dry bed, GF wants freedom

Girlfriend wet bed, tried to spoon in piss pile. NTA.

NTA suggests sleeping in separate beds due to girlfriend’s bedwetting.

Encouraging support for a difficult situation

Pregnant woman defends wearing diaper to bed. NTA

Commenter praises the post and agrees with the judgement.

NTA expresses concern for girlfriend’s potential addiction and offers advice.

Partner’s drinking causing problems, commenter advises seeking medical help.

NTA suggests solutions for girlfriend’s bed-wetting due to alcoholism

User shares personal experience and advises seeking help. NTA

Partner pees in bed, commenter suggests separate sleeping arrangements.

NTA suggests two options for girlfriend’s bedwetting problem

Commenter empathizes with OP, suggests ending the relationship.

Heartbreaking story of staying with an alcoholic partner.