Imagine growing up with two older half-sisters who you adore, only to be left out of one of their weddings. That's exactly what happened to a 19-year-old woman who has been struggling with her relationship with her sister ever since. The family drama began when the younger sister was snubbed from her sister's wedding festivities, including dress shopping and the actual ceremony in Italy. The reason? Her sister's mother, who has always ignored her existence. 💔 Now, four years later, her father is asking her to talk it out with her sister. But can she forgive and forget? Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story. 😢

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After years of silence, the young woman's father is asking her to consider talking to her sister, Sarah. He believes family is important and wants them to get along. Sarah has also been trying to reach out, but the younger sister is unsure if she can forgive her for the wedding snub and the pain it caused. 😔 The question remains: should she let go of the past and try to mend their relationship, or is it too late to heal the wounds? 💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation...
NTA, the sister should reach out if she wants to reconcile 👍

grandoledog | grandoledog
NTA. Valid feelings and no obligation to talk to sister.

Selenophile91 | Selenophile91
NTA. Family drama persists despite the desire for resolution. 👰

bumblebee7310 | bumblebee7310
Family drama ensues as Mary forces Sarah to choose sides 👰

lynypixie | lynypixie
NTA. Sister excluded OP from events, but father wants reconciliation. 😕

tysontysontyson1 | tysontysontyson1
Sister lied and snubbed you from wedding? NTA, continue NC 🙌

ProfPlumDidIt | ProfPlumDidIt
NTA, her failure to communicate is the problem 👍

calystarose | calystarose
Sister snubbed OP's wedding, now wants forgiveness. NTA stands firm. 👏

userabe | userabe
Dad's 'family is important' speech backfires, sister excluded from wedding. 😬

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366
Sister didn't invite her to wedding, NTA suggests NC email 📱

Dresden_Mouse | Dresden_Mouse
Setting boundaries with family. 👍

MikkiTh | MikkiTh
NTA stands firm on sister's wedding snub, but considers closure.

Shoereader | Shoereader
Family drama unfolds as commenters debate if NTA or ESH 🤔

Limerase | Limerase
NTA, but family drama persists. Father's hypocrisy exposed 😒

Adept-Spirit4879 | Adept-Spirit4879
Sibling drama: Sister not sorry, just afraid of looking bad. NTA 👏

EmploymentBright9707 | EmploymentBright9707
Sarah's behavior was rude and cowardly. NTA. 👍

CriticalSimple3122 | CriticalSimple3122
NTA. Family drama ensues as sister is snubbed from wedding 😱

demonmonkey1313 | demonmonkey1313
NTA. It's up to you if you want closure with sister. 👍

Kitchen_Wolverine_61 | Kitchen_Wolverine_61
Middle options to hear sister out without contact. NTA 👍

ttnl35 | ttnl35
Family drama resolved? NTA sister snubbed from wedding

mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Communication is key! Can they resolve this family drama? 📝

Fire_or_water_kai | Fire_or_water_kai
Cutting toxic family members out can be difficult but necessary 👍

Winter-Pudding-3999 | Winter-Pudding-3999
NTA. Sarah's behavior is unacceptable. Dad needs to stay neutral. 🙅

ApartLocksmith1 | ApartLocksmith1
Sister chose the coward's way out. NTA. 👍

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964
Clear judgement, but why? Tell us more, u/username! 🤔

Ladykaesong | Ladykaesong
Sibling solidarity! NTA commenter supports OP and condemns sister's behavior. 👏

FirefighterAlarmed64 | FirefighterAlarmed64
Wedding snub leads to family drama and unresolved conflict. 😔

AveryAverina | AveryAverina
NTA. Sarah chose mom's ultimatum over sister, now gaslighting. Therapy needed.

darthcatlady | darthcatlady
Commenter suggests ulterior motive for sister's sudden interest 🤔

Otherwise_Turn_869 | Otherwise_Turn_869
Cutting ties with toxic family member? NTA, good luck! 💯

Expert-Angle-8214 | Expert-Angle-8214
NTA. Going NC with someone who doesn't want you around 👍

crochetbug | crochetbug
Sister excluded her from wedding without any explanation. Dad wants reconciliation.

evilcatsorcery | evilcatsorcery
NTA stands up to family drama and refuses to be excluded 👏

netnet1014 | netnet1014
Sister excluded from wedding, advice on repairing relationship. 👆

behating | behating
NTA suggests a letter exchange to repair relationship with sister 📝

Artneedsmorefloof | Artneedsmorefloof
Moving on and leaving things behind. NTA 🙌

sonicblue217 | sonicblue217
NTA commenter empathizes with sister's wedding snub, calls for honesty 👏

Vanriel | Vanriel
Setting boundaries with family. 👍

buttercupgrump | buttercupgrump
NTA advises OP to communicate with step-sister for closure 👍

bambina821 | bambina821
Family drama at a wedding, but is NTA in the right?

Motor_Business483 | Motor_Business483
Sister's wedding snub sparks justified outrage and family tension 😠

JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100
Commenter seeks validation for half-sister's mistreatment. Drama ensues. 😱

Comfortable-Battle18 | Comfortable-Battle18
Commenter suspects ulterior motives for young woman's actions 🤔

Guzzery | Guzzery
Sister snubbed from wedding, but NTA. Family drama resolved?

justtired2022 | justtired2022
Family drama at its finest. NTA, but major AHs around.

HarrisonFordsBlade | HarrisonFordsBlade
Sister snubbed from wedding seeks relationship for free childcare? NTA

Wanderluster621 | Wanderluster621
Doubts about family politics, but NTA and understandable reaction 👍

DZHMMM | DZHMMM
Dad's pushing for reconciliation, but OP is skeptical. 😐

mrbnlkld | mrbnlkld
Family drama: Sister's actions caused irreparable damage. NTA's stance firm. 👍

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver
Sibling drama: NTA sister deserves a strong apology 🙏

maybemaybo | maybemaybo
NTA. Family drama resurfaces after 4 years. Is dad meddling?

FitOrFat-1999 | FitOrFat-1999
Communication is key in resolving family drama. 👥

LeReineNoir | LeReineNoir
NTA. Family drama and mental health should be prioritized 👏

for_whyy | for_whyy
Stand up for yourself! NTA 👏

ronearc | ronearc
No desire to talk to sister, NTA 🤷♀️

Unagi-86 | Unagi-86
Excluded sister NTA, but will she exclude them from wedding? 👰

Longjumping_Pain_470 | Longjumping_Pain_470
Setting boundaries is key! 🙌 NTA for doing so.

JustinBarba | JustinBarba
NTA stands her ground, but open to resolution. 👍

SalamanderHot2799 | SalamanderHot2799