Man Kicks Out Late Wife's Daughter for 'Dating Peace' 😲

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Imagine losing your mom and then being asked to leave the home you've been living in just so your mom's widower can date in peace. That's the situation Beth, a 19-year-old college student, finds herself in. Her mom's widower, who we'll call 'MovingOn', has decided that he's ready to move on with his life and start dating again. But there's one problem: Beth's presence in the house is making things 'super awkward' for him. So, he's given her an ultimatum - find a new place to live by the end of the semester or else. 🙄 Let's dive into the story and see what led to this decision.

The Background 📖

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The House Situation 🏠

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Dating Troubles 😬

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The Ultimatum ⏳

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Beth's Reaction 😠

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Financial Struggles 💸

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The Relationship with Beth 🤔

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Ground Rules and Moving On 💔

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The Marriage 🤵👰

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Practical Decision 💍

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No Responsibility for Beth 🚫

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Final Response 🗣️

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MovingOn's Decision Stands 🚪

Despite the backlash, MovingOn remains firm in his decision to ask Beth to leave. He insists he's not just trying to 'get laid' but wants to move on and have a normal adult relationship. While some may argue that kicking out a grieving 19-year-old is heartless, others believe he has the right to move on with his life. So, what do you think? Is MovingOn justified in his decision, or is he being insensitive to Beth's situation? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🍿

Grieving stepdaughter kicked out during pandemic. YTA according to commenters.

bubbalooski | bubbalooski

NTA - OP supported his wife and Beth, now it's time for her to live her own life. Beth's behavior towards OP's guests is unacceptable. It's a toxic living arrangement that needs to end. 💁‍♂️

RedditDK2 | RedditDK2

OP seeks judgement, receives YTA, ignores it. 🤔

Phoenixflame3009 | Phoenixflame3009

Stepdad or not, kicking her out was wrong. YTA 🤷‍♂️

Puppyjito | Puppyjito

Commenter calls out OP for lack of empathy and questionable relationship

burntcucumberxyz | burntcucumberxyz

NTA defends OP's decision to kick out ungrateful adult step-daughter 😊

031Bandit | 031Bandit

Insensitive widower dismisses stepdaughter's grief over losing her mother. 😢

pininen | pininen

YTA for kicking out grieving daughter during pandemic without emotional support 😲

SionaSF | SionaSF

Man criticized for kicking out late wife's daughter. YTA.

Even_Speech570 | Even_Speech570

Step-daughter disrespects grieving step-father for dating again. 🙄


Commenter defends man's right to date after wife's death. 👍

Icy-Cold8692 | Icy-Cold8692

Stepfather gives stepdaughter 5 months notice to move out. NTA 👍

iamhekkat | iamhekkat

Curious commenter questions man's relationship with late wife's daughter 🤔

lestrangerface | lestrangerface

Concerned commenter asks about late mother's life insurance and Beth's well-being.

OkapiEli | OkapiEli

ESH. OP should talk to her about her situation.

dart1126 | dart1126

Commenter questions if daughter saw OP as family figure 🤔

ilikelemons00 | ilikelemons00

Stepdaughter grieving, but OP prioritizes dating over surrogate daughter. YTA. 😡

fuzzyone06 | fuzzyone06

Encouraging comment on making a difference in someone's life 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Heartbreaking question left unanswered in stepdaughter dispute 😢

Olympusrain | Olympusrain

NTA comment defends OP's decision to kick out unappreciative adult stepdaughter 😒

horsendogguy | horsendogguy

Moving on after loss is hard. Daughter's support matters 😢

solodolo16 | solodolo16

Concerned commenter questions late wife's plan for daughter's future 🤔

sarcazm | sarcazm

Absentee bio dad with drug problems, a common story 🤷‍♂️

typicalaquarius | typicalaquarius

Man defends kicking out late wife's daughter for being rude 😒

ozziejean | ozziejean

Commenter sees through man's self-serving motives for kicking daughter out 🤔

MinutemanRising | MinutemanRising

Stepfather kicks out grieving stepdaughter for dating, called out for being selfish 😱

Heisenbread77 | Heisenbread77

NTA defends against assumptions in a heated comment section. 🤔

daisiesanddaffodils | daisiesanddaffodils

Commenter accuses man of abandoning step-daughter for new relationship. YTA.

Wolflmg | Wolflmg

Bio father should take responsibility. NTA 👍

Eyiolf_the_Foul | Eyiolf_the_Foul

Commenter calls out man for kicking out daughter for dating

0biterdicta | 0biterdicta

Concerned commenter questions if Beth has a safe place to go 🤔

livie8978 | livie8978

Boundaries were set, NTA for kicking out disrespectful daughter 👍

thicklover | thicklover

Debate over kicking out 19-year-old daughter for dating peace 🤔

teamoctopus | teamoctopus

Man shows heartlessness to late wife's daughter. Commenters criticize behavior.

the-mirrors-truth | the-mirrors-truth

Teenager gets kicked out of home for 'dating peace' 😲

Froken_Boring | Froken_Boring

Compassionate advice to reconcile with stepdaughter after wife's death 💜

Lurkedylurker | Lurkedylurker

Setting boundaries after trauma bonding. NTA for parting ways. 👍

wordsinmouth | wordsinmouth

NTA. Giving her a timeline was the right move. 👍

aabbccbb | aabbccbb

Not family, not the a**hole 😍

fibbi18 | fibbi18

NTA for wanting to date, but offer to pay for apartment 👨‍🎓

GremlinFiend2121 | GremlinFiend2121

Commenter calls out man for kicking out stepdaughter without warning. YTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Adult step-daughter needs to move out and grow up 😒

Throwaway8872438 | Throwaway8872438

ESH for volatile behavior, seek middle ground before cutting ties. 🙏

ShiloNotShiloh | ShiloNotShiloh

Moving on after spouse's death. NTA for kicking out rude daughter 😊

TrixIx | TrixIx

Moving around often, but where did she live before? 🤔

RO489 | RO489

Step-daughter vs dating life, YTA prioritizing wrong relationship 🤷

anthonyhmtnj | anthonyhmtnj

Stepfather kicks out stepdaughter from her home. YTA. 😡

Blueathena623 | Blueathena623

NTA. You have the right to peace in your own home 👏

JasminRR | JasminRR

NTA for kicking out late wife's disrespectful daughter 👏

Humble-Cheesecake778 | Humble-Cheesecake778

Commenter calls out OP for being a terrible stepfather 🔥

07budgj | 07budgj

NTA, but late wife's daughter is an adult. Sad situation. 😢

lovebeinganasshole | lovebeinganasshole

Supportive comment: NTA, she'll figure it out 👍

gubbygoobyqt | gubbygoobyqt

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