Picture this: you're a dad who wants to take your son on a magical trip to Disney Land, but there's a catch. Your baby mama has another child from a different relationship, and she wants you to take her daughter along too. What would you do? One dad found himself in this exact situation, and his decision has sparked quite the debate! 🤔💥
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The Backstory: Two Kids, Different Dads 🧑👦👦
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The Relationship: Not So Friendly 😒
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Enter: The Half-Sister 👧
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Disney Dream Turns into Dilemma 🎡
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Baby Mama's Request 🙏
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Dad's Response: Not My Kid, Not My Problem 🚫
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The Jealousy Card 🃏
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Dad Stands His Ground 💪
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Baby Mama's Counteroffer 💸
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Dad's Ultimate Decision 🎢
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Baby Mama's Retaliation 🚫
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Dad's Sneaky Move 😏
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The Aftermath: Disney Trip & Bitter Baby Mama 🎠
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The Great Disney Debate: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷
So, was this dad right to stand his ground and only take his son to Disney Land, leaving his baby mama's daughter behind? Or should he have been more considerate and taken both kids on the trip? The internet is divided on this one, with some people siding with the dad and others calling him out for his actions. Let's dive into the top responses and see what people think about this Disney dilemma! 🍿📣
NTA for not taking the girl on the trip, but ESH for playing the kid against his mom. The adults need to prioritize the kids and work on better co-parenting. 🙄
Emotional_Koala_ | Emotional_Koala_
Commenters debate whether both parties are equally at fault. ESH.
Primary-Criticism929 | Primary-Criticism929
ESH, playing kids against parents is AH behavior 😑
TCGislife | TCGislife
NTA comment defends OP's decision, with ESH reply criticism.
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NTA comment sparks debate about father's responsibilities and manipulation 🤔
VinoBoxPapi | VinoBoxPapi
Toxicity damages kids. Both parties need to grow up. 😔
SoloBurger13 | SoloBurger13
Mom uses daughter as leverage, dad takes son to Disney. ESH.
RichPerformance2369 | RichPerformance2369
Curious about custody? One commenter asks for more information.
WhoDat24_H | WhoDat24_H
NTA dad faces criticism for excluding step-sibling from Disney trip 🎉
Background-Lab-4896 | Background-Lab-4896
NTA parent defends telling son the truth about trip plans 🤷♀️
Fragrant-Ship-1568 | Fragrant-Ship-1568
Commenter calls out manipulative behavior, receives defensive reply. 🤷♂️
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A blunt comment calling out everyone's behavior. 🤷♂️
SoloPiName | SoloPiName
Taking baby mama's daughter to Disney: NTA or ESH?
RatioNo1114 | RatioNo1114
Debate over dad's honesty sparks YTA vs ESH argument 🤔
bmyst70 | bmyst70
Supportive comment urges OP to fight for custody of son.
No_Audience_6774 | No_Audience_6774
Taking someone else's daughter to Disney is a liability risk 😬
lurninandlurkin | lurninandlurkin
Commenter defends dad for leaving ex's daughter behind at Disney 🤷♂️
Meryuchu | Meryuchu
Using your son to get your way makes you TA 😠
lyan-cat | lyan-cat
Not his kid, not his problem. 🤷♂️
Katana1369 | Katana1369
Heartbreaking situation for innocent children 😢
dhizbsizbsi | dhizbsizbsi
Commenter suggests firm visitation schedule, dad was in prison 🤷
InternationalOil540 | InternationalOil540
Co-parenting drama: Dad excludes daughter from family vacation 😲
ConsitutionalHistory | ConsitutionalHistory
ESH, but it's important to honor the sibling relationship 👭
majolie1970 | majolie1970
NTA dad stands his ground and sets boundaries with baby mama.
JuliaX1984 | JuliaX1984
Mom's shortsightedness creates tension, dad NTA for generous actions 😊
OldManSpeed | OldManSpeed
Fair point, but what about the family dynamic? 🤔
JazD36 | JazD36
NTA dad advised to get formal custody in court ⚖️
Help24-7 | Help24-7
Not the a**hole for not taking baby mama's daughter 🙌
ayymahi | ayymahi
NTA dad prioritizes honesty with son over toxic ex's daughter 👍
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NTA dad takes son to Disney, leaves baby mama's daughter behind
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NTA for wanting to take your child to Disney, but YTA for weaponizing your son. She is also an AH for expecting you to take care of a child that you don't claim. But she's your son's sister and she's a child, let's be kind 🙏
Candi_Kane33 | Candi_Kane33
NTA for wanting a fun experience with your son, YTA for pitting him against his mother. Get a custody order.
feb021921 | feb021921
Parental dispute leads to legal action. NTA takes the high road.
Adventurous-Row2085 | Adventurous-Row2085
Not the a**hole for not wanting to take responsibility 👏
Scone_Of_Arc | Scone_Of_Arc
Commenter defends dad's decision to not take girlfriend's daughter to Disney 😊
Public-Ad-9827 | Public-Ad-9827
Father defends himself and son after leaving stepdaughter behind 😊
beansblog23 | beansblog23
NTA for prioritizing son over girlfriend's daughter. 🤷♂️
iFiNiTysCr3eCh | iFiNiTysCr3eCh
Commenter calls out OP for using son against mother. YTA 🤦♂️
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NTA stands up for himself against bitter baby mama 🙌
Defiant_Breakfast308 | Defiant_Breakfast308
Blended family advice: NTA but work together for smooth ride 🙌
Terlingua-Joe2022 | Terlingua-Joe2022
Commenter seeks more info to give verdict on custody dispute.
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Step-parenting boundaries discussed in Disney trip comment section. 🎉
Jensooverstupid | Jensooverstupid
Dad should petition for equal custody instead of playing victim 🙅
JuracekPark34 | JuracekPark34
Commenter calls out dad for leaving son's sibling behind 😲
cocotastrophie | cocotastrophie
Father stands up for his son's happiness and seeks legal help.
ExplanationMinimum51 | ExplanationMinimum51
Bringing up DL to your kid after BM said no? ESH 😑
Felis_Dee | Felis_Dee
Commenter calls out dad for being selfish and immature 😠
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Commenter calls out parent for childish behavior. 😱
TopazWarrior | TopazWarrior
Dad leaves daughter behind, uses son to manipulate mom. YTA 😠
miloschmilo | miloschmilo
Commenter calls out father's behavior and lack of respect. 😒
misogynysucks | misogynysucks
Commenter calls out dad for neglecting his son's half-sister. YTA.
sleddingdeer | sleddingdeer
Divided opinions on father's responsibility towards stepdaughter. 🤔
Accomplished_Fun1576 | Accomplished_Fun1576
Sarcastic comment receives no replies 🤷♂️
creammfilled_ddonut | creammfilled_ddonut
Co-parenting struggles and manipulation affect innocent children 😢
Rando_R_Random_IV | Rando_R_Random_IV
Legal concerns make it unsafe to take non-bio daughter. 🚨
CantBelieveThisIsTru | CantBelieveThisIsTru
Putting it in writing is crucial to avoid hurting children 👍
Throwingshadesofgrey | Throwingshadesofgrey
NTA. Setting boundaries with entitled baby mama. 🚩
LouisV25 | LouisV25
