Picture this: you're a dad who wants to take your son on a magical trip to Disney Land, but there's a catch. Your baby mama has another child from a different relationship, and she wants you to take her daughter along too. What would you do? One dad found himself in this exact situation, and his decision has sparked quite the debate! 🤔💥
The Backstory: Two Kids, Different Dads 🧑👦👦
The Relationship: Not So Friendly 😒
Enter: The Half-Sister 👧
Disney Dream Turns into Dilemma 🎡
Baby Mama's Request 🙏
Dad's Response: Not My Kid, Not My Problem 🚫
The Jealousy Card 🃏
Dad Stands His Ground 💪
Baby Mama's Counteroffer 💸
Dad's Ultimate Decision 🎢
Baby Mama's Retaliation 🚫
Dad's Sneaky Move 😏
The Aftermath: Disney Trip & Bitter Baby Mama 🎠
The Great Disney Debate: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷
So, was this dad right to stand his ground and only take his son to Disney Land, leaving his baby mama's daughter behind? Or should he have been more considerate and taken both kids on the trip? The internet is divided on this one, with some people siding with the dad and others calling him out for his actions. Let's dive into the top responses and see what people think about this Disney dilemma! 🍿📣
NTA for not taking the girl on the trip, but ESH for playing the kid against his mom. The adults need to prioritize the kids and work on better co-parenting. 🙄
Commenters debate whether both parties are equally at fault. ESH.
ESH, playing kids against parents is AH behavior 😑
NTA comment defends OP's decision, with ESH reply criticism.
NTA comment sparks debate about father's responsibilities and manipulation 🤔
Toxicity damages kids. Both parties need to grow up. 😔
Mom uses daughter as leverage, dad takes son to Disney. ESH.
Curious about custody? One commenter asks for more information.
NTA dad faces criticism for excluding step-sibling from Disney trip 🎉
NTA parent defends telling son the truth about trip plans 🤷♀️
Commenter calls out manipulative behavior, receives defensive reply. 🤷♂️
A blunt comment calling out everyone's behavior. 🤷♂️
Taking baby mama's daughter to Disney: NTA or ESH?
Debate over dad's honesty sparks YTA vs ESH argument 🤔
Supportive comment urges OP to fight for custody of son.
Taking someone else's daughter to Disney is a liability risk 😬
Commenter defends dad for leaving ex's daughter behind at Disney 🤷♂️
Using your son to get your way makes you TA 😠
Not his kid, not his problem. 🤷♂️
Heartbreaking situation for innocent children 😢
Commenter suggests firm visitation schedule, dad was in prison 🤷
Co-parenting drama: Dad excludes daughter from family vacation 😲
ESH, but it's important to honor the sibling relationship 👭
NTA dad stands his ground and sets boundaries with baby mama.
Mom's shortsightedness creates tension, dad NTA for generous actions 😊
Fair point, but what about the family dynamic? 🤔
NTA dad advised to get formal custody in court ⚖️
Not the a**hole for not taking baby mama's daughter 🙌
NTA dad prioritizes honesty with son over toxic ex's daughter 👍
NTA dad takes son to Disney, leaves baby mama's daughter behind
NTA for wanting to take your child to Disney, but YTA for weaponizing your son. She is also an AH for expecting you to take care of a child that you don't claim. But she's your son's sister and she's a child, let's be kind 🙏
NTA for wanting a fun experience with your son, YTA for pitting him against his mother. Get a custody order.
Parental dispute leads to legal action. NTA takes the high road.
Not the a**hole for not wanting to take responsibility 👏
Commenter defends dad's decision to not take girlfriend's daughter to Disney 😊
Father defends himself and son after leaving stepdaughter behind 😊
NTA for prioritizing son over girlfriend's daughter. 🤷♂️
Commenter calls out OP for using son against mother. YTA 🤦♂️
NTA stands up for himself against bitter baby mama 🙌
Blended family advice: NTA but work together for smooth ride 🙌
Commenter seeks more info to give verdict on custody dispute.
Step-parenting boundaries discussed in Disney trip comment section. 🎉
Dad should petition for equal custody instead of playing victim 🙅
Commenter calls out dad for leaving son's sibling behind 😲
Father stands up for his son's happiness and seeks legal help.
Bringing up DL to your kid after BM said no? ESH 😑
Commenter calls out dad for being selfish and immature 😠
Commenter calls out parent for childish behavior. 😱
Dad leaves daughter behind, uses son to manipulate mom. YTA 😠
Commenter calls out father's behavior and lack of respect. 😒
Commenter calls out dad for neglecting his son's half-sister. YTA.
Divided opinions on father's responsibility towards stepdaughter. 🤔
Sarcastic comment receives no replies 🤷♂️
Co-parenting struggles and manipulation affect innocent children 😢
Legal concerns make it unsafe to take non-bio daughter. 🚨
Putting it in writing is crucial to avoid hurting children 👍
NTA. Setting boundaries with entitled baby mama. 🚩