Picture this: you're hosting a special celebration for a dear friend's homecoming and 30th birthday. You've got friends from all over, some even flying in for the occasion. The drinks are flowing, and everyone's having a great time. But then, an uninvited guest shows up - your husband's sister, who's been struggling with alcohol. She asks you to stop everyone from drinking, but she doesn't want anyone to know why. What would you do? 🤔🍾
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Our hosts found themselves in quite the predicament when their uninvited sister-in-law showed up and demanded they stop the party from drinking. They didn't want to ruin the celebration for their friend, but they also didn't want to disregard the sister's struggle with alcohol. Ultimately, they chose not to ask their guests to stop drinking, leading to the sister leaving in tears and upset parents. Was their decision justified, or should they have put the party on hold for their sister-in-law? 🍷😥 Let's see what the internet has to say about this situation...
NTA: AA meetings were a better option for her to choose. 👍
missmyrajv | missmyrajv
NTA for not stopping drinking at a party for uninvited SIL in AA 🍻😱
ltenfinger | ltenfinger
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party change for her sobriety, NTA.
vandajoy | vandajoy
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA stands firm.
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Commenter defends NTA and calls out addiction in replies 👏
Purple-Ad-4187 | Purple-Ad-4187
Recovering alcoholic crashes party with alcohol, gets upset. NTA.
Mikou1030 | Mikou1030
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA.
MistressOfNecropolis | MistressOfNecropolis
Uninvited sister-in-law causes drama at party. NTA stands firm. 😱
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Uninvited sister-in-law demands hosts stop drinking. NTA replies.
NAQURATOR | NAQURATOR
Commenter suggests sober sister-in-law is setting up a relapse 🤔
jmiracle23 | jmiracle23
Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, gets upset when hosts drink 🍻. Commenters agree NTA.
claudiarabbit123 | claudiarabbit123
NTA refuses to modify party for uninvited sister-in-law with drinking problem 😱
oceanasabeing | oceanasabeing
Let them drink! Commenter defends party hosts' choice 🥂
Whoisdis1909 | Whoisdis1909
Uninvited sister-in-law demands sobriety at party, gets shut down. 😍
Stup2plending | Stup2plending
Uninvited sister-in-law tries to dictate party rules, gets shut down. 🙌
IAmGettingThePig | IAmGettingThePig
Uninvited SIL demands sober party 🤪 NTA stands firm 💪
xpotential31 | xpotential31
Celebrating 2 years of sobriety amidst party host's drinking 🎉
stormgoblin | stormgoblin
NTA. It's unreasonable for her to expect people to drop everything. 🙏
tremulous | tremulous
Responsibility for sobriety lies with the sister-in-law, NTA.
Trashmanjoe | Trashmanjoe
Uninvited sister-in-law wants sober party, commenters disagree. 🙄
Pups_the_Jew | Pups_the_Jew
Uninvited sister-in-law demands sobriety at party. NTA stands firm. 👍
neverthelessidissent | neverthelessidissent
Uninvited sister-in-law can't expect world to change for her. NTA 👍
airedalemumma | airedalemumma
Supportive comment suggests alcohol-free evening with friends for sober sister-in-law.
starchy2ber | starchy2ber
Suggests finding coping mechanisms, questions sister-in-law's intentions 🤔
RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking 😱 NTA
Double_Reindeer_6884 | Double_Reindeer_6884
NTA, she can't impose her journey on others 🙏
cassandrafishbones27 | cassandrafishbones27
Sensible response to entitled sister-in-law's alcohol addiction 🙌
Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes
Hosting party, NTA but SIL put herself in ridiculous situation 😱
Capable_Ad_976 | Capable_Ad_976
Showing up uninvited and expecting everyone to stop drinking? 🤔 NTA
ReinaRocio | ReinaRocio
Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, NTA for not stopping drinking 👍
TheAxe11 | TheAxe11
Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party and demands changes, NTA prevails 👏
HowardProject | HowardProject
Recovering alcoholic explains importance of self-management and support groups 👍
sillymissmillie | sillymissmillie
Commenter suggests uninvited sister-in-law needs help with sobriety. NTA.
TheHouseOnTheCorner | TheHouseOnTheCorner
Recovering alcoholic defends party hosts, suggests AlAnon for support. 👏
sisterZippy | sisterZippy
Setting boundaries is key. NTA for asking her to leave 👍
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Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA responds.
If-By-Whisky | If-By-Whisky
Uninvited SIL demands party hosts stop drinking and lie. NTA.
cara180455 | cara180455
Uninvited sister-in-law can't dictate hosts' behavior. NTA 👍
4thxtofollowtherules | 4thxtofollowtherules
Commenter calls out sister-in-law's entitlement and need for structure 🙌
dcoleski | dcoleski
Sober commenter defends hosts, calls uninvited SIL selfish 😱
justtobecontrary | justtobecontrary
Recovering alcoholic SIL can't impose her limitations on party hosts 😒
Shizanketsuga | Shizanketsuga
Uninvited sister-in-law ruins party with controlling behavior. NTA.
ThunderSparkles | ThunderSparkles
Ex-alcoholic uninvited to party, blames hosts for drinking. NTA.
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Uninvited SIL demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA, alcoholism not guests' issue. 😱
PlantsAnimalsAndArt | PlantsAnimalsAndArt
Hosting a party shouldn't be affected by uninvited guests' needs 🍻😱
zqmvco99 | zqmvco99
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking 😑
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Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts to stop drinking. NTA.
No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628
Uninvited SIL crashes party, demands attention, called narcissistic brat 😱
Whisky2121 | Whisky2121
Cheers to supporting sobriety and setting boundaries! 🥂 NTA
RuthlessKittyKat | RuthlessKittyKat
OMG, commenter agrees with host's actions! 😍
elpatio6 | elpatio6
NTA stands up for personal responsibility and addiction management.
cultqueennn | cultqueennn
NTA comment defends party hosts and criticizes sister-in-law's behavior 👍
Outrageous-Ad-9069 | Outrageous-Ad-9069
Recovering alcoholic's sister-in-law gets upset at party. NTA.
wyrmfood | wyrmfood
Commenter blames sister-in-law's relapse on self-centered behavior 😒
theloveburts | theloveburts
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA.
FoxPug | FoxPug
NTA refuses to enable sister-in-law's addiction, educates family on AA 🚫🍺
Crazy-Solution-1749 | Crazy-Solution-1749
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA.
Piercedbunny | Piercedbunny
Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, NTA kicks her out 🚫🍺
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Supporting her journey doesn't mean you have to be sober 🍻
Kettlewise | Kettlewise
Uninvited SIL asks partygoers to stop drinking. NTA's advice: show her the door 🙌
Long-Strategy-3026 | Long-Strategy-3026
Uninvited sister-in-law demands party her way, called out NTA 👏
coolbandshirt | coolbandshirt
SIL getting sober is commendable, but can't expect hosts to stop drinking 🚩
Anakerie | Anakerie
Sober commenter calls out uninvited sister-in-law's entitlement 😱
lotusblossom60 | lotusblossom60
Commenter defends party hosts and suggests sister-in-law work on mental fortitude 🙏
timeforwine11 | timeforwine11
Honesty is the best policy, but maybe not about pregnancy 😂
walkingontinyrabbits | walkingontinyrabbits
Supporting recovery doesn't mean catering to uninvited guests 🙏
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