Party Hosts Refuse to Stop Drinking for Uninvited Sister-in-Law 🍻😱

Diply Social Team
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Picture this: you're hosting a special celebration for a dear friend's homecoming and 30th birthday. You've got friends from all over, some even flying in for the occasion. The drinks are flowing, and everyone's having a great time. But then, an uninvited guest shows up - your husband's sister, who's been struggling with alcohol. She asks you to stop everyone from drinking, but she doesn't want anyone to know why. What would you do? 🤔🍾

The Sister's Struggle 🥺

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A Special Celebration 🎉

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Friends from Afar ✈️

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A Responsible Gathering 🍻

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The Uninvited Guest 😲

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The Sister's Arrival 🚗

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The Sister's Request 🙏

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The Party's Location 🏡

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The Host's Dilemma 😕

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The Sister's Reaction 😢

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The Host's Question ❓

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A Party Dilemma: Support or Celebrate? 🎊🤷

Our hosts found themselves in quite the predicament when their uninvited sister-in-law showed up and demanded they stop the party from drinking. They didn't want to ruin the celebration for their friend, but they also didn't want to disregard the sister's struggle with alcohol. Ultimately, they chose not to ask their guests to stop drinking, leading to the sister leaving in tears and upset parents. Was their decision justified, or should they have put the party on hold for their sister-in-law? 🍷😥 Let's see what the internet has to say about this situation...

NTA: AA meetings were a better option for her to choose. 👍

missmyrajv | missmyrajv

NTA for not stopping drinking at a party for uninvited SIL in AA 🍻😱

ltenfinger | ltenfinger

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party change for her sobriety, NTA.

vandajoy | vandajoy

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA stands firm.

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Commenter defends NTA and calls out addiction in replies 👏

Purple-Ad-4187 | Purple-Ad-4187

Recovering alcoholic crashes party with alcohol, gets upset. NTA.

Mikou1030 | Mikou1030

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA.

MistressOfNecropolis | MistressOfNecropolis

Uninvited sister-in-law causes drama at party. NTA stands firm. 😱

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Uninvited sister-in-law demands hosts stop drinking. NTA replies.


Commenter suggests sober sister-in-law is setting up a relapse 🤔

jmiracle23 | jmiracle23

Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, gets upset when hosts drink 🍻. Commenters agree NTA.

claudiarabbit123 | claudiarabbit123

NTA refuses to modify party for uninvited sister-in-law with drinking problem 😱

oceanasabeing | oceanasabeing

Let them drink! Commenter defends party hosts' choice 🥂

Whoisdis1909 | Whoisdis1909

Uninvited sister-in-law demands sobriety at party, gets shut down. 😍

Stup2plending | Stup2plending

Uninvited sister-in-law tries to dictate party rules, gets shut down. 🙌

IAmGettingThePig | IAmGettingThePig

Uninvited SIL demands sober party 🤪 NTA stands firm 💪

xpotential31 | xpotential31

Celebrating 2 years of sobriety amidst party host's drinking 🎉

stormgoblin | stormgoblin

NTA. It's unreasonable for her to expect people to drop everything. 🙏

tremulous | tremulous

Responsibility for sobriety lies with the sister-in-law, NTA.

Trashmanjoe | Trashmanjoe

Uninvited sister-in-law wants sober party, commenters disagree. 🙄

Pups_the_Jew | Pups_the_Jew

Uninvited sister-in-law demands sobriety at party. NTA stands firm. 👍

neverthelessidissent | neverthelessidissent

Uninvited sister-in-law can't expect world to change for her. NTA 👍

airedalemumma | airedalemumma

Supportive comment suggests alcohol-free evening with friends for sober sister-in-law.

starchy2ber | starchy2ber

Suggests finding coping mechanisms, questions sister-in-law's intentions 🤔

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking 😱 NTA

Double_Reindeer_6884 | Double_Reindeer_6884

NTA, she can't impose her journey on others 🙏

cassandrafishbones27 | cassandrafishbones27

Sensible response to entitled sister-in-law's alcohol addiction 🙌

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes

Hosting party, NTA but SIL put herself in ridiculous situation 😱

Capable_Ad_976 | Capable_Ad_976

Showing up uninvited and expecting everyone to stop drinking? 🤔 NTA

ReinaRocio | ReinaRocio

Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, NTA for not stopping drinking 👍

TheAxe11 | TheAxe11

Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party and demands changes, NTA prevails 👏

HowardProject | HowardProject

Recovering alcoholic explains importance of self-management and support groups 👍

sillymissmillie | sillymissmillie

Commenter suggests uninvited sister-in-law needs help with sobriety. NTA.

TheHouseOnTheCorner | TheHouseOnTheCorner

Recovering alcoholic defends party hosts, suggests AlAnon for support. 👏

sisterZippy | sisterZippy

Setting boundaries is key. NTA for asking her to leave 👍

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Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA responds.

If-By-Whisky | If-By-Whisky

Uninvited SIL demands party hosts stop drinking and lie. NTA.

cara180455 | cara180455

Uninvited sister-in-law can't dictate hosts' behavior. NTA 👍

4thxtofollowtherules | 4thxtofollowtherules

Commenter calls out sister-in-law's entitlement and need for structure 🙌

dcoleski | dcoleski

Sober commenter defends hosts, calls uninvited SIL selfish 😱

justtobecontrary | justtobecontrary

Recovering alcoholic SIL can't impose her limitations on party hosts 😒

Shizanketsuga | Shizanketsuga

Uninvited sister-in-law ruins party with controlling behavior. NTA.

ThunderSparkles | ThunderSparkles

Ex-alcoholic uninvited to party, blames hosts for drinking. NTA.

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Uninvited SIL demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA, alcoholism not guests' issue. 😱

PlantsAnimalsAndArt | PlantsAnimalsAndArt

Hosting a party shouldn't be affected by uninvited guests' needs 🍻😱

zqmvco99 | zqmvco99

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking 😑

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Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts to stop drinking. NTA.

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Uninvited SIL crashes party, demands attention, called narcissistic brat 😱

Whisky2121 | Whisky2121

Cheers to supporting sobriety and setting boundaries! 🥂 NTA

RuthlessKittyKat | RuthlessKittyKat

OMG, commenter agrees with host's actions! 😍

elpatio6 | elpatio6

NTA stands up for personal responsibility and addiction management.

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

NTA comment defends party hosts and criticizes sister-in-law's behavior 👍

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Recovering alcoholic's sister-in-law gets upset at party. NTA.

wyrmfood | wyrmfood

Commenter blames sister-in-law's relapse on self-centered behavior 😒

theloveburts | theloveburts

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA.

FoxPug | FoxPug

NTA refuses to enable sister-in-law's addiction, educates family on AA 🚫🍺

Crazy-Solution-1749 | Crazy-Solution-1749

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party hosts stop drinking. NTA.

Piercedbunny | Piercedbunny

Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, NTA kicks her out 🚫🍺

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Supporting her journey doesn't mean you have to be sober 🍻

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Uninvited SIL asks partygoers to stop drinking. NTA's advice: show her the door 🙌

Long-Strategy-3026 | Long-Strategy-3026

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party her way, called out NTA 👏

coolbandshirt | coolbandshirt

SIL getting sober is commendable, but can't expect hosts to stop drinking 🚩

Anakerie | Anakerie

Sober commenter calls out uninvited sister-in-law's entitlement 😱

lotusblossom60 | lotusblossom60

Commenter defends party hosts and suggests sister-in-law work on mental fortitude 🙏

timeforwine11 | timeforwine11

Honesty is the best policy, but maybe not about pregnancy 😂

walkingontinyrabbits | walkingontinyrabbits

Supporting recovery doesn't mean catering to uninvited guests 🙏

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