Imagine discovering your husband's infidelity at his funeral, and it doesn't end there – the mistress is pregnant! That's what happened to a 52-year-old woman who found herself in a moral dilemma. She agreed to set up a college trust for the child and let them live rent-free in one of her properties. But when the mistress asked for more financial help, the widow drew the line. Now, with the child ready for college, the woman is facing backlash for not replenishing the trust fund. Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster. 😬🎢
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Is She Being Unfair or Standing Her Ground? 🤔
After discovering her husband's infidelity at his funeral, this widow agreed to set up a college trust for the affair child and let them live rent-free in one of her properties. When the child needed medical treatment, she allowed the mistress to use some of the trust funds. Now, as the child is ready for college, the mistress is upset that the trust fund hasn't been replenished. With the widow's family weighing in and calling her actions unfair, is she being unreasonable or simply honoring the original agreement? Let's see what the internet thinks of this complicated situation... 💬
NTA. OP went above and beyond for the mistress's child.
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NTA fulfilled agreement, mistress had 18 yrs to save money 🤷♀️
danirdaniels | danirdaniels
NTA. OP is praised for being generous and polite despite circumstances.
Gonebabythoughts | Gonebabythoughts
NTA. Widow refuses to replenish college trust for husband's affair child 😳
drunkonmartinis | drunkonmartinis
NTA. Widow not responsible for husband's affair child's education fund.
Maddie215 | Maddie215
Widow's decision to not replenish trust fund for affair child justified 🙌
hexgirlthorn | hexgirlthorn
Widow protected an innocent life and went above and beyond. 🏅
Christwriter | Christwriter
NTA for refusing to replenish trust for husband's affair child 😱
SolemnDignity | SolemnDignity
NTA. You've gone above and beyond. Don't get taken for a ride. 😱
LimeBasilMandarinYum | LimeBasilMandarinYum
NTA. Don't sleep with unavailable people. MIL and SIL can pay.
Princesstiy | Princesstiy
Widow called TA for putting up with husband's mistress for 18 years. Replies explain her reasons for doing so. NTA 👍
Lorinthia | Lorinthia
NTA: Widow not obligated to help husband's affair child. MIL & SIL can contribute. People are weird. 😱
TiberiusClegane | TiberiusClegane
Generosity has limits. NTA for not replenishing trust fund 👏
justslightlyparanoid | justslightlyparanoid
NTA. OP's obligation ends at 18. Family should contribute too 👍
Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain
Curiosity about mistress' spending sparks tense exchange 🤔
Ichauch13 | Ichauch13
NTA. Commenter calculates expenses and defends widow's decision. 💪
raebz12 | raebz12
Widow refuses to fund affair child's college education. NTA. 😊
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Widow's act of kindness or obligation? Redditors discuss. 🤔
Admirable_Mud_7423 | Admirable_Mud_7423
Generous widow refuses to replenish college trust for husband's affair child 😱
SnooPeppers1641 | SnooPeppers1641
NTA. Don't give them a cent more. Charge rent. Love child is an adult now. 😱
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Widow not obligated to replenish trust for husband's affair child 💰
mference123 | mference123
Generous widow refuses to give more money, gets called out.
madisengreen | madisengreen
NTA. Widow refuses to replenish college trust for husband's affair child.
LivelyUnicorn | LivelyUnicorn
Widow seeks legal advice for husband's affair child entitlement 😊
horsendogguy | horsendogguy
Commenter calls out affair partner's entitlement, says NTA. 😱
Numb3r3dDays | Numb3r3dDays
Widow stands her ground in the face of husband's affair child 🙌
mommak2011 | mommak2011
Generous widow refuses to fund husband's affair child. NTA 😊
dr-sparkle | dr-sparkle
Living rent-free for 18 years? Massive kindness and ungratefulness. NTA 😱
iHeal4Coffee | iHeal4Coffee
NTA stands up for herself and suggests community college 💪
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NTA. Widow refuses to replenish college trust for husband's affair child 😱
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Widow refuses to replenish trust for husband's affair child. NTA 😊
signed_under_duress | signed_under_duress
NTA. Generosity has limits. You did enough. 🙏
Nebsy_Websy | Nebsy_Websy
Commenters agree: Widow not at fault for denying trust replenishment 👍
NowIFeelLikeANoob | NowIFeelLikeANoob
NTA comment: Short and sweet, she's using you. 😜
cabbage9988 | cabbage9988
Widow stands her ground on trust, not the a**hole 👏
ingodwetryst | ingodwetryst
Widow's decision to not pay for affair child's college justified. 💰
trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer
Widow praised for standing her ground on affair child trust. 👏
Tacowrecker | Tacowrecker
Comment section loves the term \#choosingbeggar 😂
stegeein2h8 | stegeein2h8
Generosity has its limits, NTA stands their ground 💪
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Commenter questions widow's use of saved money for rent 🤔
Boris_The_Johnson | Boris_The_Johnson
In-laws should step up. Widow not obligated to replenish trust. 👍
Good_crisps_73 | Good_crisps_73
Commenter empathizes with widow's situation and expresses frustration with mistress's legal rights 💔😡
Leyla_Hearts | Leyla_Hearts
Generous widow stands up for herself and denies husband's affair child
ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586
NTA. Offer a rental contract and start eviction proceedings. 🙌
Wwwweeeeeeee | Wwwweeeeeeee
Generous gesture acknowledged with NTA verdict 👍
PMyra | PMyra
Widow refuses to pay for affair child's college, NTA.
aiolyfe | aiolyfe
Widow stands her ground on stepchild's college fund. NTA 👍
BoldHYPER | BoldHYPER
Curious commenter asks about widow's finances and family involvement 🤔
pinkcherry99 | pinkcherry99
Generous inheritance or not, NTA for setting boundaries 👏
sexymawma | sexymawma
NTA.. No explanation needed. 😎
Goldmembergirl7 | Goldmembergirl7
Entitled widow refuses to replenish trust fund. Commenter says NTA 😍
ConfusedFanGirl0502 | ConfusedFanGirl0502
Widow's generosity taken for granted by husband's affair child 😒
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No obligation to replenish trust for husband's affair child 😍
rendhorn | rendhorn
Homewrecker's problem 😒
jessika_smile | jessika_smile
MIL and SIL should make up for it. NTA wins 👏
TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680
Widow's act of kindness questioned but justified in the end. 😊
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Widow refuses to fund affair child's college, commenters side with her 👍
InfamousFail7 | InfamousFail7
NTA- Widow's decision justified. Daughter and mistress should be independent 👍
godzilla619 | godzilla619
