Picture this: you're a 19-year-old babysitter who takes on a new job for a single mom. You meet her two adorable kids and agree on everything, but on your first day, you discover a shocking secret: the mom has a third, severely-disabled child she never mentioned! 😲 That's what happened to one young woman, who was suddenly expected to care for the 11-year-old wheelchair user without any prior knowledge or experience. How did she handle this unexpected twist? Read on to find out! 📖
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Meeting the Family 👩👧👦
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Something's Off... 🤔
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An Unexpected Responsibility 😨
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"It's Like Caring for an Infant" 👶
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Standing Her Ground 🚫
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The Mom's Desperate Plea 🙏
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Leaving the Job 💼
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Mom's Reaction 😮
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A Struggling Single Mom? 🤷♀️
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A Huge Responsibility 😓
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The Moral Dilemma 🤔
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The Babysitter's Dilemma: Right or Wrong? 🤷
So, was our babysitter in the right for refusing to care for the disabled child she never agreed to look after, or should she have given the struggling single mom a chance to find a replacement? It's a tough call, and opinions are bound to be divided. 😬 Let's see what people have to say about this controversial situation... 🍿
NTA for refusing to babysit disabled child without proper training 😱
bohohoboohno | bohohoboohno
NTA for refusing to babysit disabled child. Mom should help.
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Babysitter not at fault for refusing to care for disabled child 🙏
ADG1983 | ADG1983
Mother hides disabled son from babysitter, tricking them into taking on more responsibility. Commenters express concern over child's well-being. 😔
girl_supersonicboy | girl_supersonicboy
Caring for disabled people requires training and safety checks. NTA.
SantaPachaMama | SantaPachaMama
Hiding a disabled child from the babysitter? Definitely NTA 👍
dwassell73 | dwassell73
Commenter suggests mom should have offered to babysit instead 😊
simba1998 | simba1998
Babysitter stands up for herself after mom's deceitful behavior 💪
NorthernLitUp | NorthernLitUp
Mother hides disabled son from babysitter. NTA suggests reporting to CPS.
Mimila1111 | Mimila1111
NTA. You stood up for yourself and refused to be used 👏
Massive-Emergency-42 | Massive-Emergency-42
Babysitting a severely disabled child without prior notice? NTA for declining. 👍
WebbieVanderquack | WebbieVanderquack
Employer's unfair treatment is illegal. Mom never had a job? 🤔
ZZ12zz14ZZ | ZZ12zz14ZZ
NTA for refusing to babysit disabled child without prior knowledge 🙏
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Honesty is key when finding a babysitter for a disabled child 🙌
DarkFaeries | DarkFaeries
NTA. The mom misled and tried to take advantage of you 😡
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NTA. Leaving was the responsible thing to do. 👍
Arbor_Arabicae | Arbor_Arabicae
Compassionate response to mother's misguided actions. 😢
stormywhethers321 | stormywhethers321
Declining to babysit disabled child is responsible and reasonable. 👍
pinkmoray | pinkmoray
Babysitter not the a**hole for refusing to watch disabled child.
KaizureTheRed | KaizureTheRed
NTA. Leaving was the right choice. Legal problems avoided 🙌
rez2metrogirl | rez2metrogirl
NTA suggests resources for mom to properly care for disabled son. 👍
larawashy | larawashy
Babysitter not the a**hole for declining undisclosed extensive duties 😊
RadiantFusion0711 | RadiantFusion0711
NTA defends babysitter's decision to not care for disabled child 👍
scrapqueen | scrapqueen
Concerned commenter advocates for disabled child's proper care. 🚧
vtj0101 | vtj0101
Mom tricks babysitters into caring for disabled son. NTA response.
Fickle_Ostrich4923 | Fickle_Ostrich4923
Babysitter discovers hidden disabled child, mom lies for convenience. NTA.
asphodel2020 | asphodel2020
Commenter calls out mom's unacceptable behavior with shock and disbelief 😱
wetastelikejesus | wetastelikejesus
Supporting disabled people requires proper training 🙌
proknoi | proknoi
Commenter suspects more lies from mother hiding disabled son 😕
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Trust your instincts and stand up for yourself. NTA 👍
AssistPure | AssistPure
Sitter called out for unethical behavior by commenters 👏
TCTX73 | TCTX73
NTA commenter calls out mother for hiding disabled child 😱
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Babysitter discovers hidden disabled child. NTA for refusing responsibility. 😱
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Proper training is crucial when caring for disabled children 🙌
sreno77 | sreno77
NTA calls out dangerous behavior of irresponsible mother 😱
Bogg99 | Bogg99
Babysitter rightfully concerned about lack of training for disabled child 😱
whitewer | whitewer
Struggling mom's reputation in the neighborhood is ruined 😢
Fancy-Lemon-8029 | Fancy-Lemon-8029
Babysitter deceived by mom hiding disabled son 😱 #NTA
Zorkeldschorken | Zorkeldschorken
Babysitter not at fault for undisclosed disabled child. NTA 👍
Affirmativerobot | Affirmativerobot
Empathetic commenter calls out lying mother, advises backing out. 👏
Lotex_Style | Lotex_Style
Deceived by the employer, NTA babysitter did nothing wrong 😊
highwoodshady | highwoodshady
Mother lies about job responsibilities, babysitter not at fault. NTA 👍
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Run fast! 🏃♀️ NTA, huge red flags and gaslighting.
AerieAnhedonia | AerieAnhedonia
Mom's behavior towards disabled son sparks NTA response 👏
Colonel_Buttfuck | Colonel_Buttfuck
NTA admits lack of training for disabled child care 😕
FrescoInkwash | FrescoInkwash
Agreement made with hidden information? NTA stands firm 💪
Difficult-Grass7856 | Difficult-Grass7856
Commenter calls out mom's behavior with strong sentiment 😱
YetAnotherJake | YetAnotherJake
🤯 Babysitter avoids legal responsibility and calls out mother's bad behavior. NTA
jpcats | jpcats
Babysitter shares horror story of being misled by a family 😱
rileysauntie | rileysauntie
Mother expects untrained babysitter to handle inappropriate tasks. NTA.
HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors
Compassion and accountability, but lying makes her the a**hole 🤷🏻♀️
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Babysitter discovers shocking truth about disabled child's mother. NTA.
Charming-Touch-7584 | Charming-Touch-7584
NTA calls out irresponsible mother for hiding disabled son. 😱
Ok_Individual9340 | Ok_Individual9340
Babysitter rightfully claims NTA for undisclosed special needs child 😊
Emotional-Ebb8321 | Emotional-Ebb8321
Mom hides disabled son from babysitter 😱 NTA's advice
SomeBadMasterpiece | SomeBadMasterpiece
Babysitter stands up to mom, NTA, with a sassy reply 👏
WallStreetGayBear | WallStreetGayBear
Whispering support for OP's not the a-hole stance 👍
Warriormuffinhed | Warriormuffinhed
Supportive comment for babysitter who discovered hidden disabled child 👏
sleepybuddha44 | sleepybuddha44
Proud of you for leaving. NTA. Proper training is crucial. 💪
Ziggywife1990 | Ziggywife1990
Babysitting horror story shared, empathy for disabled child and mother.
Mommy-Q | Mommy-Q
Babysitting a disabled child requires proper training and liability coverage. 🧐
pineapples_are_evil | pineapples_are_evil
Commenter suggests letting mom take care of disabled son 👍
pensaha | pensaha
