Imagine being a divorced mom of two, helping your ex-husband with his kids from another marriage, only for them to start calling you 'Mama'! 😳 That's exactly what happened to a 31-year-old woman who's been taking care of her ex's kids after his wife passed away. As much as she loves having them around, she felt it was important to set boundaries and clarify her role in their lives. But when she did, things took a dramatic turn with her ex-husband, leaving her questioning her actions. 🤔 Let's dive into this rollercoaster of a story! 🎢
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In a whirlwind of family drama, our heroine finds herself at the center of a heated debate about her role in her ex-husband's kids' lives. After setting boundaries and clarifying that she's not their mama, she's met with backlash from her ex, who accuses her of crushing the kids' spirits. 😢 But she doesn't back down, instead finding a new nickname - Auntie - and taking charge of the situation by discussing living arrangements with her ex. With the ball in his court, will he step up or continue to check out? Only time will tell. 🕰️ Let's see what the internet thinks of this complex situation...
NTA for setting boundaries with manipulative ex, but don't punish kids 😔
YeahIgotanopinion | YeahIgotanopinion
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, but still a great mom 👍
87_north | 87_north
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, but still loving them. Auntie suggestion.
TheoryAddict | TheoryAddict
Single mom sets boundaries with ex's kids, sparks family drama 😱
Mewmewlikethat | Mewmewlikethat
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA. Ex needs to respect them.
GypsyBuckingham | GypsyBuckingham
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA. Explained situation kindly 👍
Alyssa_Hargreaves | Alyssa_Hargreaves
Don't let your ex walk all over you. Stand up! 🚫👞 NTA
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NTA, but document and protect yourself. Potential for custody battle. 🚨
littlefiddle05 | littlefiddle05
Commenter questions ex's fidelity, chaos of work from home parenting 🤔
Traditional-Bed9449 | Traditional-Bed9449
Woman stands up to disrespectful ex, sets healthy boundaries 💪
squidinosaur | squidinosaur
Respectful ex sets boundaries with ex's kids, sparks family drama 😱
Kellymargaret | Kellymargaret
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA gets praised 👏
reclaimation | reclaimation
Setting boundaries with ex's kids as a maternal figure - NTA
Kettlewise | Kettlewise
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, sparking family drama. 😱
fatolderlady2 | fatolderlady2
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, deserves better, time to move on 👏
blingalee1802 | blingalee1802
Ex's issues? NTA sets boundaries with kids, sparks drama 😱
krittengirl | krittengirl
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama, NTA wins.
devilsadvo886 | devilsadvo886
Ex's kids, boundaries, and drama: navigating motherhood after breakup 😱
bitchofeskar | bitchofeskar
Setting boundaries with ex's kids causes family drama. NTA.
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Suggesting nicknames for ex's kids sparks friendly discussion 😊
MzOpinion8d | MzOpinion8d
Commenter warns OP of potential consequences of unlimited generosity. OP explains their perspective and priorities.
1-2-buckle-my-shoes | 1-2-buckle-my-shoes
Don't be a doormat! Set boundaries with your partner's kids 🙌
Mission-Cloud360 | Mission-Cloud360
Commending a selfless woman for setting boundaries with ex's kids 👏
ILoatheCailou | ILoatheCailou
Supportive comment defends woman's boundaries with ex's ungrateful kids.
Cherrygrove-elk | Cherrygrove-elk
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, but still a maternal figure. NTA 👏
knotthemessenger | knotthemessenger
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, but is ex shirking responsibility? 🤔
The_final_frontier_ | The_final_frontier_
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA wins the game 🏀
ollyman97 | ollyman97
Setting boundaries with ungrateful ex after cheating. NTA 👏
mornis | mornis
Unpaid babysitting for ex's kids causes family drama 😱
volatile-ish | volatile-ish
Commenter advises setting boundaries with ex's kids and standing up for them. 👏
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Setting boundaries can be tough, but NTA and truthful 😊
dirtybirdfeeder | dirtybirdfeeder
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, still NTA. 👍
GypsyBuckingham | GypsyBuckingham
Setting boundaries with ex's kids: Don't play wifey for free 💯
partypancakesbacon | partypancakesbacon
Ex's kids cross the line, but OP is a saint 🙌
pixp85 | pixp85
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA.
Melanie-Littleman | Melanie-Littleman
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA.
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Co-parenting civilly with financial support, no drama here 👍
PhantomStrangeSolitu | PhantomStrangeSolitu
Complicated family dynamics... 🤔
dnmnew | dnmnew
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, but how to maintain closeness? 🙂
JWJulie | JWJulie
Stepping up as a mother figure, even if not called mom 🙌
MomIrishTwins | MomIrishTwins
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTY.
jlorde9 | jlorde9
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA.
Accidentloilit | Accidentloilit
Ex's intentions are suspect. Set boundaries and take a step back. 🙏
Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA wins.
emherrera1960 | emherrera1960
Commenter defends woman's right to set boundaries with ex's kids.
gelatoisthebest | gelatoisthebest
NTA OP, but it's time to set boundaries with the father 🙏
No_Recording9016 | No_Recording9016
Single mom suggests suing for child support, husband criticized.
No_Respond_8394 | No_Respond_8394
Boundaries with ex's kids, but what to be called? NTA 💁♀️
Extension_Honeydew62 | Extension_Honeydew62
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA 👏
henlochole | henlochole
Ex-husband calling her 'mama' raises red flags. NTA, but cautious.
Khali1987 | Khali1987
Setting boundaries with ex's kids after cheating. NTA 👏
howyoudoin06 | howyoudoin06
Ex encourages kids to call her 'mama', NTA sets boundaries 🙌
FifiIsBored | FifiIsBored
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA.
Angel-4077 | Angel-4077
Ex's boundary issues spark drama, commenter supports OP's decision. 👍
waitingforchange53 | waitingforchange53
Support for NTA who sets boundaries with ex's kids 🙌
kiwi_klutz | kiwi_klutz
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA wins.
dellaevaine | dellaevaine
Set boundaries and stop this arrangement to avoid further harm. 🙏
patrislove | patrislove
NTA but beware of potential half-siblings 🤪
snowboard7621 | snowboard7621
Choosing a more familial title for ex's kids. 👥
WhatABaker | WhatABaker
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA receives support 👏
dce42 | dce42
Ex's manipulation and broken hearts make him the a**hole 😠
Here_WolfyWolfyWolfy | Here_WolfyWolfyWolfy
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA. Miss Leila works fine 👍
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NTA. Ex-husband taking advantage, kudos for setting boundaries 💪
Speakklife | Speakklife
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA. Keep your title.
MobMotherScitah | MobMotherScitah
Compassionate OP stands up for herself and ex's kids. 😍
besupergood | besupergood
Setting boundaries is important. NTA teaches respect for boundaries 👍
throwRA90809 | throwRA90809
Setting boundaries with ex's kids sparks family drama. NTA.
Standard-Candle | Standard-Candle
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, NTA. Verbal abuse not tolerated.
cassowary32 | cassowary32
Ex insults woman providing childcare for his kids. NTA here 👏
juswundern | juswundern
Setting boundaries with ex's kids, but what about being called Aunty?
Scully152 | Scully152
