Wedding planning can be a rollercoaster of emotions, and for one bride-to-be, a 15-year-old grudge has resurfaced, causing tension between her and her mom. The 32-year-old woman is set to be married next year, and while discussing her wedding plans, her mom inquired about the dress shopping. However, the bride's response was far from what her mom expected. 😳💔
Bride-to-Be Clashes with Mom Over Wedding Dress Shopping: A 15-Year-Old Grudge 😱

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This bride-to-be is torn between her desire for independence in choosing her wedding dress and the guilt of hurting her mom's feelings. The unresolved prom dress drama from 15 years ago has left her resentful and unwilling to let her mom have any input on her wedding dress. But with her mom in tears, she's left questioning if she's taken it too far. What do you think? Was she justified in standing her ground, or should she have been more considerate of her mom's feelings? Let's see what the internet has to say... 🧐💬
NTA, don't fall for her guilt trips. Get the dress you want 👏

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Setting boundaries with parents during wedding planning. NTA 👏

Psychological_Ad3329 | Psychological_Ad3329
NTA. Stand your ground and choose your dream dress 👟

rockrunner21 | rockrunner21
NTA. A 15-year-old grudge and a broken trust. 💔

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NTA bride seeks revenge on mom for ruined prom with dress.

Kanulie | Kanulie
Avoid the emotional strain and don't tell her next time 🙌

BeeOk6214 | BeeOk6214
Protecting your big moments from a controlling parent. NTA 👏

pinkwineenthusiast | pinkwineenthusiast
Crying doesn't mean someone is in the right. It means they are crying. 😢

Testingthrowaway00 | Testingthrowaway00
Communication is key. Have an honest conversation with your mom 👍

KaliTheBlaze | KaliTheBlaze
Stand up for yourself and don't let others gaslight you! 💪

Ribbon- | Ribbon-
A heartwarming story about a mother's love and sacrifice ❤️

YourMoonWife | YourMoonWife
It's your wedding, your decision. Don't let controlling parents win! 🙌

Bibingka_Malagkit | Bibingka_Malagkit
Bride-to-be holds a grudge against mom over dress shopping 😱

Key_Accident_5150 | Key_Accident_5150
Breaking free from a controlling Chinese immigrant mother. NTA 👏

IlluminatiQueen | IlluminatiQueen
Take control of your wedding day and don't let past grudges ruin it. 💍

threeforagirl | threeforagirl
Money might have been the reason for mom's request 💰

Momma4life22 | Momma4life22
ESH. Diplomacy could have been better. Apologize and clear air 🙏

0xB4BE | 0xB4BE
Take control of your wedding dress shopping and have fun 🎉

Ursula_Bot | Ursula_Bot
Navigating cultural differences and past grudges with mother for wedding dress.

TheButcherOfBaklava | TheButcherOfBaklava
Mom wants her daughter to wear something honouring HER – completely selfish 😱

Bruiscear | Bruiscear
Bride-to-be receives support for setting boundaries with mom over dress.

Kitsumekat | Kitsumekat
Communicate calmly with mom about past prom dress issue 👥

Terrible_Menu5694 | Terrible_Menu5694
Mother's past actions affect daughter's wedding dress shopping. NTA advice given.

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Choose who lifts you up for best dress shopping experience 👟

Careful-Attitude1103 | Careful-Attitude1103
Mom's control issues resurface during wedding dress shopping. Daughter frustrated.

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NTA. Suggest a trial run or calmly explain your vision 👍

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NTA commenter questions manipulation and prioritizing feelings.

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Bride stands up to mom's grudge, takes control of wedding dress 👟

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Healing old wounds with mom during wedding dress shopping 🙌

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Suggests a possible solution to bride-to-be's wedding dress shopping conflict 🙏

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Encouraging NTA comment with advice on moving forward and healing 👍

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Wedding dress shopping with a passive narcissist mom - NTA.

Whitwoc | Whitwoc
15-year-old grudge over wedding dress budget? YTA or NAH?

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NTA calls out parent's actions, sparks no replies. 😎

fiio83 | fiio83
Bride-to-be stands her ground, excludes mom from dress shopping 😎

frubi86 | frubi86
Take control of your wedding dress shopping and buy what you want 💪

Big__Bang | Big__Bang
Bride-to-be forced to compromise on dress, mom obsesses over stranger 😱

Sudden-Requirement40 | Sudden-Requirement40
Immigrant family solidarity! NTA. Set boundaries and choose your dress 👏

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Choosing who to bring wedding dress shopping can be tough 👰

OkCharity4894 | OkCharity4894
ESH, but let it go and stand strong in your preferences 🙌

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Insightful comment on cultural differences and financial struggles 👍

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A clash of generations: ESH, but maturity is key 🙌

mahoagie | mahoagie
NTA, but deeper issues remain unresolved 🤔

Ok-Writer-774 | Ok-Writer-774
Short and sweet: commenter thinks OP is not the a**hole 👍

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Stand up for yourself, your feelings matter too! 👏

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Mom's controlling behavior questioned in wedding dress dispute 🤔

Plenty_Metal_1304 | Plenty_Metal_1304
Stay strong and don't let tears sway you. NTA 💪

cassiesfeetpics | cassiesfeetpics
Take control of your wedding dress and stand up to mom 💪

Obrina98 | Obrina98
Take control of your wedding gown choice, apologize but stand firm. 👏

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Setting boundaries with toxic family members. NTA 👍

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
Mother-daughter conflict over wedding dress shopping; forgiveness and compromise suggested ❤️

PaleontologistLost71 | PaleontologistLost71
Supportive mom encourages bride-to-be to get the dress she wants 🙌

groovymama98 | groovymama98
Choosing a dress with mom ≠ letting her control your life. NTA 👍

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Avoiding drama with a fake shopping trip 👗👀 #NTA

Significant-Tooth117 | Significant-Tooth117
Take control of your wedding dress, not your mom 👟

solitarybydesign | solitarybydesign
NTA: Commenter supports OP in emotional wedding dress dispute.

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Supportive comment suggests peaceful dress shopping with mom. 🙌

eyore5775 | eyore5775
Commenter defends bride-to-be against controlling mother 👏

AwkwardBugger | AwkwardBugger
Suggests a compromise to keep peace with controlling mother 🙏

Feltedskullpuppets | Feltedskullpuppets
Mom's drama llama behavior earns her a wedding invite snub 😒

Affectionate_Ice_658 | Affectionate_Ice_658
Mom's past behavior justifies bride-to-be's decision. NTA 👍

I_might_be_weasel | I_might_be_weasel
Setting boundaries with narcissistic parents is important. NTA 👍

hazelnut_coffay | hazelnut_coffay
NTA. Parental pressure on clothing choices can have lasting effects 😢

SpecialistAfter511 | SpecialistAfter511
NTA. Protect yourself. They staged that very well, didn't they? 😱

Motor_Business483 | Motor_Business483
User seeks clarification on apology, suggests calm discussion with family 👀

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Bride stands up to mom's 15-year-old grudge, NTA 👏

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Chinese woman shares wedding experience, advises to prioritize happiness.

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Breaking free from immigrant parents' emotional blackmailing 😱

Modero1 | Modero1
Resentment over prom dress resurfaces in wedding dress shopping. 😕

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Bride's mom barred her from French class, now not invited to wedding 😂

TrinalRogue | TrinalRogue
15-year-old grudges come back to haunt, NTA wins

GMSB | GMSB
15-year-old grudge resurfaces, but commenter says NTA 😊

Antique_Teaching_333 | Antique_Teaching_333
Choose your dress, choose your company. NTA 👏

Ohmymaddy | Ohmymaddy
Choose your own dress and supporters, guilt-tripping mom excluded 🙌

PipeInevitable9383 | PipeInevitable9383
Commenter takes a stand against toxic family dynamics 💪

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