Mother's Ultimatum Backfires: Daughter Chooses Independence 😲

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Imagine working hard, saving up, and paying for your own phone and bills, only to have your mother demand even more money from you. That's exactly what happened to one young woman who was living with her parents and trying to make ends meet. After a series of arguments, her mother gave her an ultimatum: give her more money, watch her nieces and nephew, or leave the house. You won't believe the choice she made! 😲💔

Proud Moment: Buying Her Own Phone 📱

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Dad's Generosity: A Helping Hand 🤝

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Mom's Request: More Money for Utilities 💸

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Job Loss: Missing Work for Family Duties 😞

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New Job, Same Problems: Money Troubles 😓

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Mother-Daughter Fights: Tensions Rise 😠

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Mom's Justification: My House, My Rules 🏠

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No More Babysitting: Taking a Stand 🛑

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The Ultimatum: Money, Babysitting, or Leave 😵

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Making a Choice: Packing Up and Leaving 🧳

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New Home: Boyfriend's Mom to the Rescue 🏡

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Parting Words: Accusations of Abandonment 💔

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Saying Goodbye: A Tearful Farewell 😢

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Ultimatum Backfires: Daughter Chooses Independence 💪

After countless arguments and mounting tension, this young woman's mother gave her an ultimatum: give her more money, watch her nieces and nephew, or leave the house. Frustrated and feeling trapped, she chose to leave and move in with her boyfriend's family. Despite the emotional turmoil and accusations of abandonment, she took a stand and made a choice that changed her life forever. Now, let's see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation... 🍿💬

NTA. Leaving was hard but right. Mother's controlling and toxic.

skyelyy | skyelyy

Don't give ultimatums, or else suffer the consequences 😡

Infamous-Wasabi-9007 | Infamous-Wasabi-9007

Daughter leaves toxic situation, internet fact-checks mom's expenses 👌

GrassTerrible5262 | GrassTerrible5262

NTA. Mother wants free childcare and money. Good on you for leaving 💯

JimmyCorbiere | JimmyCorbiere

Daughter chooses independence and finds a new loving family ❤️

Johnny_Flak | Johnny_Flak

OP's decision to leave home was met with hostility. NTA 👏

foobarney | foobarney

Setting boundaries with a narcissistic mother. NTA 👍

Realistic-Slip45 | Realistic-Slip45

Oops! Redditor admits to reposting after violating a rule 🤦‍♂️

Best_Bat4228 | Best_Bat4228

Commenter suspects sister and mother were not running errands. NTA.

SayerSong | SayerSong

Sibling and mother's entitlement leads to daughter's independence 😎

Bringintheclowns1 | Bringintheclowns1

Daughter chooses independence and stands up to mother's ultimatum 💪

bamf1701 | bamf1701

Don't let anyone take advantage of you 🙏 You're NTA

ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

Dad's on her side but hardly got a word in 😕

ItsAJAgain | ItsAJAgain

Mom's guilt-tripping backfires as daughter chooses independence 😎

SteakMenu | SteakMenu

Commenter sympathizes with daughter's decision and advises her to calculate childcare costs for future reference. 👍

FunNegotiation9953 | FunNegotiation9953

When ultimatums backfire 🤬 OP chooses independence and mom is mad 😑

RexJacobus | RexJacobus

Leaving and getting a job is your best bet 👍

SirinMMD | SirinMMD

Daughter chooses independence and is called out for it. NTA 👍

conuly | conuly

Breaking free from a toxic household and taking responsibility 💪

chlocatt | chlocatt

Father supported her, but mother's ultimatum backfired. Childcare is expensive.

Yoshiezibz | Yoshiezibz

Babysitting for free? Definitely NTA 👍

PillowOfCarnage | PillowOfCarnage

Money for utilities is good, but ultimatums are bad 😕

ObviousAirline | ObviousAirline

Daughter stands up to controlling and abusive mother. NTA 👏

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Choosing independence over family demands. NTA wins.

CaliforniaJade | CaliforniaJade

NTA. Mother treating you like a tenant and free babysitter 😒

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Single mom stands up for herself against family's neglect 💪

zqmvco99 | zqmvco99

Breaking free from emotional abuse: OP is NTA 👏

VerendusAudeo | VerendusAudeo

Daughter defends dad against comment accusing him of cowardice 💪

Victor-Grimm | Victor-Grimm

Curious commenter questions the whereabouts of OP's dad and mom's daily errands 🤔

Ellie_Loves_ | Ellie_Loves_

Sibling favoritism and toxic behavior. NTA wins.

Remote-Cloud1224 | Remote-Cloud1224

Celebrate your independence! 🎉

Trick_Few | Trick_Few

Commenter questions the situation in a neutral tone 🤔

Look_Waffles | Look_Waffles

Mother's manipulative ultimatum backfires, NTA for choosing independence. 😲

ewspeedround | ewspeedround

Escape the a**hole: Daughter chooses independence over controlling mother.

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Curiosity about age in NTA situation sparks discussion 🤔

RedoftheEvilDead | RedoftheEvilDead

Daughter leaves after mom gives ultimatum. NTA wins.

jessie014 | jessie014

Commenter questions excessive errands in a humorous tone 😂

BeautifulCucumber | BeautifulCucumber

Suspicious of mother's $400/month demand for utilities, possible scam 🤔

ex-lewis | ex-lewis

Daughter chooses independence and stands up to toxic mother. 💪

Betsy24601 | Betsy24601

Breaking free from a controlling parent is brave 🙌🏼

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Commenter praised for making the right choice 👍

lagomorphlover | lagomorphlover

Choosing independence: NTA comment gets supportive response 👏

Tuesday_TauRus_Child | Tuesday_TauRus_Child

Comment suggests family issues, leaves room for interpretation 🤔

MarxFuryRoad | MarxFuryRoad

Malicious compliance leads to independence. NTA wins the game 🏆

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Daughter stands up to entitled family, chooses independence 💪

lp967ajp456 | lp967ajp456

Mother's favoritism and unfair treatment leads to daughter's independence 😎

Ayandel | Ayandel

Daughter chooses independence after mother's ultimatum. #NTA 👏

BSturdy987 | BSturdy987

Mother's ultimatum backfires, commenters side with daughter 😊

Mission-Cloud360 | Mission-Cloud360

Commenter supports OP and slams their mother 👏

Eastern-Resolution15 | Eastern-Resolution15

Daughter's financial contribution to mom raises questions. 🤔

melmoore82 | melmoore82

Commenter praises someone's action as not being an a**hole 👏

Unhappysong-6653 | Unhappysong-6653

Take control of your life ✊❄️ #NTA

Chance-Contract-1290 | Chance-Contract-1290

Choosing independence over ultimatums 👏

Badger-of-Horrors | Badger-of-Horrors

Commenter receives validation for their actions. 👍

calaakla | calaakla

Daughter stands up for independence, internet agrees. 👏

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Heartwarming comment wishes OP and brother happiness 😊

flukefluk | flukefluk

Escaped toxic home, but what were parents doing for 8hrs? 🤔

LadyReika | LadyReika

Choosing independence over ultimatum, NTA gets support 👏

jjkeit | jjkeit

Daughter chooses independence, mom mad despite giving ultimatum. NTA 👏

cool-user-name88 | cool-user-name88

Don't be an unpaid babysitter! NTA, run and live free! 🙌

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Commenter shares personal experience and encourages OP's independence. 👏

dracoda | dracoda

Parents guilt-tripping kids for money? Not cool 😑 #NTA

gotothebloodytop | gotothebloodytop

Commenter calls out absurd expenses and free babysitting, supports OP

Mrs_ChanandlerBong_ | Mrs_ChanandlerBong_

Escape from an abusive mother who exploits her daughter 😲

eat_freshh | eat_freshh

Breaking free from toxic family expectations 👏

3x1stent1alCr1s1s | 3x1stent1alCr1s1s

Escape the nest! NTA's mom is a piece of work 🙌

aliquilts71 | aliquilts71

Cheers to independence! NTA gets the green light 👍

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Daughter chooses independence over servitude. NTA 👏

Amegami | Amegami

Don't be a free babysitter. Move out and be independent. #NTA

Sudkiwi1 | Sudkiwi1

Commenter supports OP's decision and condemns mother's behavior.

Neko_09 | Neko_09

Independence wins: Daughter's decision inspires love story ❤️

SkippyTeddy83 | SkippyTeddy83

Overbearing mother's ultimatum leads to resentment and conflict 😠

TheRedditArtie | TheRedditArtie

Commenter suspects mom's ulterior motive for collecting money 💰


Questioning the 8-hour errands and supporting NTA stance 👍

SensualSasquatch | SensualSasquatch

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