When an 18-year-old high school senior found herself in a difficult situation, she turned to her older half-sister for help. But now, the younger sister is blaming her sibling for the life-altering decision she made. As Thanksgiving approaches and emotions run high, the sisters find themselves in the midst of a family drama that could change their relationship forever.
Sister’s Troubled Past ️

Ex and His Family Out of the Picture

Sister Asks for Help

The Options: Adoption or Abortion

Abortion Procedure Done ✅

Sister’s Shocking Accusation

Defending Her Actions ️

Thanksgiving Approaches

College and Guilt

Explaining the Options

Child Support Reality Check

The Final Decision

Mom’s Strict Views

Thanksgiving Dilemma ♀️

Family Torn Apart by Life-Altering Decision
After helping her younger sister through an unwanted pregnancy, the older sister is now being blamed for the decision that was made. As emotions run high and Thanksgiving approaches, the sisters find themselves in a family drama that could change their relationship forever. With the younger sister accusing her sibling of making her “kill her baby,” the older sister tries to defend her actions and navigate the tense situation. Will the family be able to come together, or will this decision drive them further apart?
NTA. Sister blames OP for unwanted pregnancy decision. OP helped her make an informed decision, but sister is dealing with guilt and regret. She needs counseling to work through her feelings.

Debate over whether OP was honest or pushy about abortion decision

NTA. Sister blames OP for unwanted pregnancy decision. OP suggests therapy.

Encouraging abortion is not the same as pushing someone to do it
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The context of the conversation is crucial
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Encouraging response to NTA’s advice, therapy suggestion for sister

Abortion is a tough choice, but it was HER choice

Offering resources saved sister from regret. Dodged a bullet

Education about gestation is crucial before deciding on an abortion

Be patient and understanding towards her guilt and grief.

Taking responsibility . NTA stands her ground.

Missing details: How many times suggested abortion? Did she hesitate?

You gave your opinion, she made the decision. NTA

Giving honest opinions and options, NTA for her final choice

Offering support to a grieving sister. NTA

Don’t take the blame for someone else’s mistakes

Speaking the truth, even if it’s unpopular

Support for suggesting, not forcing, abortion decision.

Realistic advice given, decision was ultimately hers. NTA

Supportive comment encourages counseling and staying in her corner

Commenter expresses concern over sister’s unwanted abortion decision

Commenter praises OP’s decision to prevent unwanted pregnancy

NAH verdict with a call for therapy and support

Did OP pressure her sister into unwanted abortion?

Supportive comment on coping with post-abortion emotions and blame-shifting.

Blaming sister for unwanted pregnancy decision, NTA stands strong

You’re NTA for someone else’s unwanted pregnancy decision!

Taking responsibility for choices. Counseling could help. #NTA

Taking responsibility for unwanted pregnancy decision.

Abortion grief counseling can help cope with difficult choices

Misplaced anger and guilt over unwanted pregnancy

Encouraging counseling for sister’s unwanted pregnancy decision

Supportive comment reminds to be patient with emotional sister

Supportive comment acknowledges complexity of abortion and emotional aftermath

Valid feelings, valid decision. Encourage therapy for your sister

Her body, her choice. NTA wins the argument

Supportive comment gets thumbs up

Commenter defends against blame for unwanted pregnancy decision.

Supportive OP and mourning sister handle abortion with empathy

Supportive comment and advice for dealing with unwanted pregnancy

Supportive comment receives NTA judgment.
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NTA. Sister wants to push guilt on you for her choices

Encouraging NTA comment advocates for a serious perspective with empathy

Supportive sister helps with abortion, respects her choice. NTA

Protecting the baby from harm, NTA stands her ground

Sister blames OP for unwanted pregnancy, but OP is NTA

Realistic advice leads to blame game. NTA wins.

Encouraging NTA comment suggests seeking mental health support for sister

User supports abortion in controversial pregnancy decision
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Don’t let her manipulate you with threats of telling mom

Being NTA, commenter thinks sister will realize the favor soon

Offered options, she chose. NTA.

Taking responsibility for actions and facing consequences

Be compassionate towards your sister’s traumatic experience.

Sister had multiple opportunities to back out of unwanted pregnancy. NTA

Sister seeks support, but OP suggests adoption or abortion. NAH.

Supportive comment defends decision to not blame OP for abortion.

Giving advice doesn’t make you responsible for her decision. NTA

Supportive sister gets blamed for unwanted pregnancy
