Imagine being a teenage mom, navigating the challenges of parenthood, only to have the biological father of your child voluntarily terminate his rights and disappear from your lives. Years later, he suddenly wants back in after discovering he's infertile. This is the dilemma faced by a 30-year-old woman who's now happily married and has built a loving family with her husband and daughter. The question is, should she allow the ex-boyfriend back into their lives? 🤷♀️
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This brave mom has been through a lot, from being a teenage parent to navigating international custody arrangements. Now, she's faced with the decision of whether to let her daughter's biodad back into their lives after he terminated his rights and disappeared. With the sudden news of his infertility, he's claiming he 'deserves' to have biological children. But should this mom risk disrupting her daughter's life for a man who once called her a 'half breed'? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭
Daughter's choice matters. Wait until she's older to decide. NTA.
stormywhethers321 | stormywhethers321
Father wants contact after becoming infertile, but NTA commenters disagree.
heatherlincoln | heatherlincoln
NTA. Daughter has a loving family. Guide her if she wants contact.
teresajs | teresajs
NTA. Daughter not a biological backup. Let him wait. 😲
IrradiatedBeagle | IrradiatedBeagle
NTA. Commenter argues that the world is better off without the racist ex reproducing. Replies support the sentiment and criticize the ex's motives for wanting contact now.
drbarnowl | drbarnowl
Commenter warns Teen Mom about ex's racist past. 🔍
tattoovamp | tattoovamp
Supporting daughter's choice to contact dad when she's 18 👍
AJG0813 | AJG0813
NTA. Having biological children is a privilege, not a right 😲
tallybee | tallybee
Commenter calls out ex's hypocrisy in emotional response. 😱
FatSleepyPidgeon | FatSleepyPidgeon
Bio dad's rights vs daughter's wishes. NTA, let daughter decide 🙏
Citychic88 | Citychic88
Ex's desire for contact after infertility is ego-driven. NTA.
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Abandoning your child doesn't entitle you to parenthood 🙄
DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks
Let your daughter make an informed decision 👍
David_Apollonius | David_Apollonius
NTA. He terminated his own rights fueled by his hatred.
soccersprite | soccersprite
Daughter should decide if contact with infertile ex-bio dad is worth it. 🙏
Sudden-Cherry | Sudden-Cherry
NTA, but pay up: Back child support for college tuition 💵
Reddoraptor | Reddoraptor
Ex's past racial slurs make waiting for daughter's decision justified 😒
ExilBoulette | ExilBoulette
Biodad wants back in after terminating rights. NTA shuts him down.
spud_gun04 | spud_gun04
Father's entitlement to biological children criticized in NTA comment section 😑
343427229486267 | 343427229486267
Validating the commenter's experience and advising against societal pressure. 👍
Charles_Chuckles | Charles_Chuckles
NTA- Ex's infertility doesn't excuse past behavior 🙅
Michalusmichalus | Michalusmichalus
Bio dad wants daughter for biolegacy, not a**hole but selfish. 🤔
BeautyOfABeast | BeautyOfABeast
Father's entitlement to see daughter after being absent and infertile 😲
draksid | draksid
User calls out father's racist past and motives for contact 🔥
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA, but hear him out. If he's changed, give a chance 👍
Aldoos217 | Aldoos217
Mother not obligated to let ex contact daughter after abandoning her.
MrsPandaBear | MrsPandaBear
Protecting parental rights in a sensitive situation. 👏
RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun
NTA mom protects kids from abusive biodad, gets support 👏
notkeenontalking | notkeenontalking
NTA. The guy sees your daughter as a consolation prize 😡
kupo_kupo_wark | kupo_kupo_wark
Should the daughter have a say in reconnecting with her father? 🤔
ceridwen04 | ceridwen04
👏🏽Savage response to deadbeat dad wanting contact with daughter.👏🏽
Lunasi | Lunasi
Daughter's opinion matters. NTA for wanting contact. 👍
Wizofoz737 | Wizofoz737
Commenter calls out biodad's prejudice, supports OP's decision. 👏
MyLilPiglets | MyLilPiglets
Involving daughter in decision to meet infertile ex 👍
nemeranemowsnart | nemeranemowsnart
Should the daughter have a say? Betrayal concerns raised 🤔
ischemgeek | ischemgeek
Should a daughter have the right to meet her bio dad? 🙂
sofs666 | sofs666
Passionate response defends father's rights with fiery language 🔥
LaszloPanaflexxx | LaszloPanaflexxx
NTA gets sweet revenge. 😏
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Father wants contact with daughter after becoming infertile. Commenter says no.
OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Supervised video calls reasonable, but daughter's choice should be respected 🙏
SugarKyle | SugarKyle
Ex's entitlement to daughter after infertility earns NTA judgement 👏
GonnaBeIToldUSo | GonnaBeIToldUSo
Don't let him back in now that he's infertile 🚫. Daughter's choice later.
mextrawork | mextrawork
Let your daughter choose 👫, NTA 👍
dresshater1 | dresshater1
Terminating rights as an adult. NTA. Infertility not your fault. 🙏
deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau
Curious commenter eagerly awaits update on custody battle 🤔
bendywing | bendywing
Devil's advocate suggests considering possibility of racist parents influencing ex.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Demanding back child support for 15 years 💰💸
tofarr | tofarr
Letting daughter choose father's contact after infertility. NTA. 👍
any0must | any0must
Navigating a daughter's desire to know her estranged father 👨🏻💻
Amsnabs215 | Amsnabs215
Teen's bio dad wants contact after becoming infertile, but commenters suggest daughter should decide. NTA, but bio dad sounds like a self-centered douche 🤷♀️
missmixza | missmixza
Father wants contact after becoming infertile, called daughter racial slurs 😠
Bleep_bloop5678 | Bleep_bloop5678
Wait until daughter is 18 to decide, NTA. 🤔
auntynell | auntynell
Daughter's choice matters. Karma's at work. NTA. 🙏
unsweetenedlemon | unsweetenedlemon
Commenter doesn't hold back on ex's past behavior 🤯
alex10102 | alex10102
Ex's selfishness and lack of remorse. Limited contact not recommended.
TsukaiSutete1 | TsukaiSutete1
Let your daughter decide if she wants to meet him 👨🏻💻 but he sounds entitled 🤒
Ironman1690 | Ironman1690
Father's infertility doesn't justify using daughter as backup plan 🙅
whatevercomes2mind | whatevercomes2mind
Ex wants daughter as backup plan after becoming infertile. NTA.
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Father wants contact, but daughter's feelings should be considered 👨🏻💻
Whenitrainsitpours86 | Whenitrainsitpours86
Father wants contact after infertility, daughter's choice. Redemption attempt?
Happyfun0160 | Happyfun0160
Consider your child's feelings before making decisions. #NTA 👍
[deleted] | [deleted]
Honesty is the best policy, but let your daughter choose 👍
MooseAndOliver | MooseAndOliver
Consider giving him a chance at redemption. 🤔
NakedandFearless462 | NakedandFearless462
Daughter's opinion matters. NTA, but chat with her 👍
vikkihspoon | vikkihspoon
Ex gave up legal obligations, no right to contact daughter 🙎
MrMashed | MrMashed
Putting the daughter's needs first. 👍
Pinkkypie | Pinkkypie
Honesty is key. Daughter should be aware of her options. 👍
carolinemathildes | carolinemathildes
Former partner wants contact with daughter after losing fertility. Commenters support mother's decision to follow established arrangements.
raoulfgonzo | raoulfgonzo
Let the daughter decide, not the infertile ex 🙅
confusedblep | confusedblep
Daughter's choice to meet biological father after adoption. NTA.
Cali_Coon | Cali_Coon
NTA considers talking to mutual friends before allowing contact with daughter 👥
Vincent-Mango-gh | Vincent-Mango-gh
