Teen Mom's Ex Wants Contact with Daughter After Becoming Infertile 😲

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Imagine being a teenage mom, navigating the challenges of parenthood, only to have the biological father of your child voluntarily terminate his rights and disappear from your lives. Years later, he suddenly wants back in after discovering he's infertile. This is the dilemma faced by a 30-year-old woman who's now happily married and has built a loving family with her husband and daughter. The question is, should she allow the ex-boyfriend back into their lives? 🤷‍♀️

International Custody Chaos 🌏

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Pregnant and Supported 🤰

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Biodad's Hurtful Words 😢

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Terminating Rights 📝

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Parents' Support 🙌

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Age-Appropriate Explanations 🗣️

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Biodad's Sudden Interest 🤨

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Trustworthy Friends 🤞

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Not a Second Choice ❌

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To Reconnect or Not to Reconnect? 🤔

This brave mom has been through a lot, from being a teenage parent to navigating international custody arrangements. Now, she's faced with the decision of whether to let her daughter's biodad back into their lives after he terminated his rights and disappeared. With the sudden news of his infertility, he's claiming he 'deserves' to have biological children. But should this mom risk disrupting her daughter's life for a man who once called her a 'half breed'? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭

Daughter's choice matters. Wait until she's older to decide. NTA.

stormywhethers321 | stormywhethers321

Father wants contact after becoming infertile, but NTA commenters disagree.

heatherlincoln | heatherlincoln

NTA. Daughter has a loving family. Guide her if she wants contact.

teresajs | teresajs

NTA. Daughter not a biological backup. Let him wait. 😲

IrradiatedBeagle | IrradiatedBeagle

NTA. Commenter argues that the world is better off without the racist ex reproducing. Replies support the sentiment and criticize the ex's motives for wanting contact now.

drbarnowl | drbarnowl

Commenter warns Teen Mom about ex's racist past. 🔍

tattoovamp | tattoovamp

Supporting daughter's choice to contact dad when she's 18 👍

AJG0813 | AJG0813

NTA. Having biological children is a privilege, not a right 😲

tallybee | tallybee

Commenter calls out ex's hypocrisy in emotional response. 😱

FatSleepyPidgeon | FatSleepyPidgeon

Bio dad's rights vs daughter's wishes. NTA, let daughter decide 🙏

Citychic88 | Citychic88

Ex's desire for contact after infertility is ego-driven. NTA.

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Abandoning your child doesn't entitle you to parenthood 🙄

DogsReadingBooks | DogsReadingBooks

Let your daughter make an informed decision 👍

David_Apollonius | David_Apollonius

NTA. He terminated his own rights fueled by his hatred.

soccersprite | soccersprite

Daughter should decide if contact with infertile ex-bio dad is worth it. 🙏

Sudden-Cherry | Sudden-Cherry

NTA, but pay up: Back child support for college tuition 💵

Reddoraptor | Reddoraptor

Ex's past racial slurs make waiting for daughter's decision justified 😒

ExilBoulette | ExilBoulette

Biodad wants back in after terminating rights. NTA shuts him down.

spud_gun04 | spud_gun04

Father's entitlement to biological children criticized in NTA comment section 😑

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Validating the commenter's experience and advising against societal pressure. 👍

Charles_Chuckles | Charles_Chuckles

NTA- Ex's infertility doesn't excuse past behavior 🙅

Michalusmichalus | Michalusmichalus

Bio dad wants daughter for biolegacy, not a**hole but selfish. 🤔

BeautyOfABeast | BeautyOfABeast

Father's entitlement to see daughter after being absent and infertile 😲

draksid | draksid

User calls out father's racist past and motives for contact 🔥

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NTA, but hear him out. If he's changed, give a chance 👍

Aldoos217 | Aldoos217

Mother not obligated to let ex contact daughter after abandoning her.

MrsPandaBear | MrsPandaBear

Protecting parental rights in a sensitive situation. 👏

RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun

NTA mom protects kids from abusive biodad, gets support 👏

notkeenontalking | notkeenontalking

NTA. The guy sees your daughter as a consolation prize 😡

kupo_kupo_wark | kupo_kupo_wark

Should the daughter have a say in reconnecting with her father? 🤔

ceridwen04 | ceridwen04

👏🏽Savage response to deadbeat dad wanting contact with daughter.👏🏽

Lunasi | Lunasi

Daughter's opinion matters. NTA for wanting contact. 👍

Wizofoz737 | Wizofoz737

Commenter calls out biodad's prejudice, supports OP's decision. 👏

MyLilPiglets | MyLilPiglets

Involving daughter in decision to meet infertile ex 👍

nemeranemowsnart | nemeranemowsnart

Should the daughter have a say? Betrayal concerns raised 🤔

ischemgeek | ischemgeek

Should a daughter have the right to meet her bio dad? 🙂

sofs666 | sofs666

Passionate response defends father's rights with fiery language 🔥

LaszloPanaflexxx | LaszloPanaflexxx

NTA gets sweet revenge. 😏

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Father wants contact with daughter after becoming infertile. Commenter says no.

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Supervised video calls reasonable, but daughter's choice should be respected 🙏

SugarKyle | SugarKyle

Ex's entitlement to daughter after infertility earns NTA judgement 👏

GonnaBeIToldUSo | GonnaBeIToldUSo

Don't let him back in now that he's infertile 🚫. Daughter's choice later.

mextrawork | mextrawork

Let your daughter choose 👫, NTA 👍

dresshater1 | dresshater1

Terminating rights as an adult. NTA. Infertility not your fault. 🙏

deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau

Curious commenter eagerly awaits update on custody battle 🤔

bendywing | bendywing

Devil's advocate suggests considering possibility of racist parents influencing ex.

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Demanding back child support for 15 years 💰💸

tofarr | tofarr

Letting daughter choose father's contact after infertility. NTA. 👍

any0must | any0must

Navigating a daughter's desire to know her estranged father 👨🏻‍💻

Amsnabs215 | Amsnabs215

Teen's bio dad wants contact after becoming infertile, but commenters suggest daughter should decide. NTA, but bio dad sounds like a self-centered douche 🤷‍♀️

missmixza | missmixza

Father wants contact after becoming infertile, called daughter racial slurs 😠

Bleep_bloop5678 | Bleep_bloop5678

Wait until daughter is 18 to decide, NTA. 🤔

auntynell | auntynell

Daughter's choice matters. Karma's at work. NTA. 🙏

unsweetenedlemon | unsweetenedlemon

Commenter doesn't hold back on ex's past behavior 🤯

alex10102 | alex10102

Ex's selfishness and lack of remorse. Limited contact not recommended.

TsukaiSutete1 | TsukaiSutete1

Let your daughter decide if she wants to meet him 👨🏻‍💻 but he sounds entitled 🤒

Ironman1690 | Ironman1690

Father's infertility doesn't justify using daughter as backup plan 🙅

whatevercomes2mind | whatevercomes2mind

Ex wants daughter as backup plan after becoming infertile. NTA.

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Father wants contact, but daughter's feelings should be considered 👨🏻‍💻

Whenitrainsitpours86 | Whenitrainsitpours86

Father wants contact after infertility, daughter's choice. Redemption attempt?

Happyfun0160 | Happyfun0160

Consider your child's feelings before making decisions. #NTA 👍

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Honesty is the best policy, but let your daughter choose 👍

MooseAndOliver | MooseAndOliver

Consider giving him a chance at redemption. 🤔

NakedandFearless462 | NakedandFearless462

Daughter's opinion matters. NTA, but chat with her 👍

vikkihspoon | vikkihspoon

Ex gave up legal obligations, no right to contact daughter 🙎

MrMashed | MrMashed

Putting the daughter's needs first. 👍

Pinkkypie | Pinkkypie

Honesty is key. Daughter should be aware of her options. 👍

carolinemathildes | carolinemathildes

Former partner wants contact with daughter after losing fertility. Commenters support mother's decision to follow established arrangements.

raoulfgonzo | raoulfgonzo

Let the daughter decide, not the infertile ex 🙅

confusedblep | confusedblep

Daughter's choice to meet biological father after adoption. NTA.

Cali_Coon | Cali_Coon

NTA considers talking to mutual friends before allowing contact with daughter 👥

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