Pregnant SIL Denied Baby Shower Cake 🎂😱: A Family Feud Unfolds

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

We all love a good family drama, and this one takes the cake... or rather, doesn't! 🎂 A baking enthusiast with a massive family has always made extravagant cakes for her sisters and sisters-in-law's baby showers. However, when her youngest brother's wife, now pregnant with their first baby, asked for a cake, she refused. The reason? A disastrous past experience with this particular sister-in-law, who was picky, perfectionist, and downright unpleasant. 😤 Let's dive into this deliciously dramatic story! 🍿

A Cake-Making Hobbyist 🎂

virtual_range | virtual_range

SIL's Baby Shower Request 🤰

virtual_range | virtual_range

The Reason for Refusal 😤

virtual_range | virtual_range

A Painful Memory 😢

virtual_range | virtual_range

SIL's Response 🙄

virtual_range | virtual_range

Standing Her Ground 🚫🎂

virtual_range | virtual_range

SIL's Disappointment 😠

virtual_range | virtual_range

Husband's Advice 🤷‍♂️

virtual_range | virtual_range

A Pushover No More 💪

virtual_range | virtual_range

SIL's Lecturing Email 📧

virtual_range | virtual_range

To Bake or Not to Bake: A Family Dilemma 🎂🤔

Our baking enthusiast is caught in a sticky situation, torn between wanting to keep the peace and not wanting to relive a painful experience with her picky, perfectionist sister-in-law. 😣 Her husband suggests she should just make the cake, but she's had enough of being a pushover. 🙅‍♀️ With her family members chiming in and her sister-in-law's disappointment growing, the question remains: will she stand her ground and refuse to bake the cake? 🍰 Let's see what the internet thinks of this tasty dilemma... 🍿

NTA! Be firm but don't engage with her toxic behavior 👍

ljn23 | ljn23

Polite response to SIL's cake request avoids family feud 🙌

MyHomeOnWhoreIsland | MyHomeOnWhoreIsland

NTA, but OP should be honest with SIL about past mistreatment 🚫

robinhoodoftheworld | robinhoodoftheworld

NTA. SIL's manipulative behavior and past drama warrant avoiding conflict.

ILoveCuteKitties | ILoveCuteKitties

NTA. Stand up for yourself and teach people how to treat you 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Stand your ground! 🙅‍♀️ Don't explain yourself. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Politely declining and setting boundaries is important for self-care 👍

curiousbelgian | curiousbelgian

Sassy response to entitled SIL sparks agreement and admiration 😍

OnlySomewhatSane | OnlySomewhatSane

Setting boundaries and honesty is key. NTA 💯

10487518386 | 10487518386

Politely declining and setting boundaries. NTA 👍

Bob4Cat | Bob4Cat

Honesty is the best policy for salvaging the relationship 😊

lids4life | lids4life

Commenter and replies agree: NTA, husband is an a**hole 👍

Pardalis64 | Pardalis64

Husband's cake request backfires. Commenter calls NTA

BobbyJoeWratten | BobbyJoeWratten

Baking is a gift offered out of love, not angry demands 💛

Lena1143 | Lena1143

Commenter defends not making cake for pregnant SIL, snark ensues.

teresajs | teresajs

Honesty is the best policy. 💯

gljackson29 | gljackson29

Setting boundaries with kindness: NTA explains why they won't bake again.

PerkyLurkey | PerkyLurkey

Supportive reply to SIL being denied baby shower cake. NTA.

RoxyMcfly | RoxyMcfly

Refusing service to unwanted customers. NTA wins.

BKStephens | BKStephens

Prioritizing mental health is important. Communicate with your spouse 💕

princessunplug | princessunplug

Standing up to entitled family members, NTA wins the day 👏

paul_rudds_drag_race | paul_rudds_drag_race

Setting boundaries with emotional manipulators 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Heartbreaking response to entitled request for baby shower cake 😢

RemDC | RemDC

SIL insults and calls NTA 'sensitive' over baby shower cake 🎂

ofcourseimcrazy | ofcourseimcrazy

Supportive comment encourages standing up for oneself and setting boundaries. 👏

ohwordbrothatscool | ohwordbrothatscool

Husband also sucks? 😱 NTA for denying cake 🎂

elchefe512 | elchefe512

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for setting boundaries 👍

FoxesInSweaters | FoxesInSweaters

Blunt honesty might do her good. NTA.

laik72 | laik72

Setting boundaries and standing up for oneself 💪🏼. No one deserves to be treated poorly.

TdoggGatineau | TdoggGatineau

Singer shares wedding gig horror story, sparks curiosity 😱🎤

[deleted] | [deleted]

Suggests flattery instead of confrontation to avoid drama with SIL 👏

hot_as_a_toaster | hot_as_a_toaster

SIL micromanages cake, but OP not baking for anyone. NTA 👍

WabbitFan | WabbitFan

Polite honesty is key to avoiding family feuds 🙌

sqitten | sqitten

Suggests charging SIL for cake or pitching in for pro cake 🤔

karmaskies | karmaskies

Standing up for oneself against a narcissistic SIL 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA for not baking cake, commenter calls out toxic behavior 😱

CaseofBasket | CaseofBasket

NTA stands their ground in family feud over baby shower cake 🎂

TakeAWlkOnTheWldSyd | TakeAWlkOnTheWldSyd

Politely suggesting a professional baker for SIL's specific tastes. 😊

moonbeamcrazyeyes | moonbeamcrazyeyes

Baking takes time and effort, NTA for setting boundaries 👐

mixi_e | mixi_e

NTA comment shuts down baby shower cake drama 😍

Froot-Batz | Froot-Batz

Setting boundaries with family over baby shower cake 🎂

yourunclekev | yourunclekev

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. 👏

GayMedic | GayMedic

NTA shuts down entitled SIL's behavior with a burn 🔥

CoffeeCat77 | CoffeeCat77

Sneaky cake revenge plan sparks NTA sentiment 😉🎂

lonefargogirl | lonefargogirl

Simple solution to a complex family feud 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter calls out husband, advocates for cutting ties with SIL. 👏

Pardalis64 | Pardalis64

Calling out entitlement with a hint of sympathy. 👏

BrunetteThrasher | BrunetteThrasher

Stand up to the bully and let hubby bake the cake 🤪

badwolf1013 | badwolf1013

Supportive comment suggests therapy fund for niece/nephew. 👍

formerlyknownaslurk | formerlyknownaslurk

NTA defends right to say no to baking a cake 🎂

rhunter99 | rhunter99

Stand up for yourself and communicate clearly. NTA 👍

never_say_never | never_say_never

Just say no and cut contact. 🙅‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sibling conflict arises over SIL's behavior towards OP.

jess3474957 | jess3474957

Sarcastic solution to cake feud sparks creative alternative 🎂

[deleted] | [deleted]

Honesty is the best policy for maintaining relationships 👍

honeyyybee7 | honeyyybee7

NTA comment: Don't worry about keeping the peace 👊

Pardalis64 | Pardalis64

NTA stands up to entitled SIL's cake demand. 🎂🙅‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Defending OP's actions against entitled SIL. 💪

Shnoopy_Bloopers | Shnoopy_Bloopers

Standing up for yourself: NTA comment shuts down entitled relative 💯

-Holiday-Armadillo- | -Holiday-Armadillo-

Karen SIL denied cake at baby shower, family calls her insane. 😱

vodka_philosophy | vodka_philosophy

DIY cake or shove it up her a**? NTA strikes back

creepshow22 | creepshow22

NTA refuses to make free cake for entitled SIL 😱

Momjamoms | Momjamoms

Intense comment suggests reconsidering partner choice after family feud.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Baker stands up to entitled SIL, teaches her a lesson 🙌

pgh9fan | pgh9fan

Baking for ungrateful family members is heartbreaking 😢

romidwife | romidwife

Baker stands up for herself and her skills. 💪

kifferella | kifferella

Baking the cake won't keep the peace 🤷‍♀️. Best to avoid SIL.

super_common_name | super_common_name

Filed Under: