We've all been in situations where we try to be considerate and accommodating, but sometimes things don't go as planned. A young woman (20F) found herself in the midst of unexpected drama when she tried to accommodate her friend's autistic sister, Sarah (14F), by giving her a special cup designed to prevent choking on strawberry-shaped ice cubes. Little did she know that her good intentions would be met with accusations of ableism from her friend, Jen (21F). 😕🍓
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Our protagonist thought she was doing the right thing by giving Sarah a special cup to prevent choking on strawberry-shaped ice cubes. But Jen's accusation of ableism left her questioning her actions. Sarah, on the other hand, was thrilled with her 'special' cup and even took it home. 🌸🥤 One can't help but wonder if Jen's reaction was truly warranted or if she was just being overly sensitive. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭
Debate over ableism and autism in response to 'special' cup. 🤔
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Disabled girl receives 'special' cup, sister disapproves 😱
SparklySlothGiraffe | SparklySlothGiraffe
Sarcastic reply to NTA comment sparks laughter 😂
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Autistic commenters defend against misuse of 'ableist' label 🤔
Mastreworld | Mastreworld
A heartwarming story about a special cup for a special girl ❤️
RabidSolutions | RabidSolutions
Reusable ice cube design criticized for safety concerns 😬
TheDukeOf_Donuts | TheDukeOf_Donuts
Inclusive accommodations make experiences safer and more enjoyable 👍
adriesty | adriesty
NTA, your kindness is appreciated. Give your friend time 🙏
Amonette2012 | Amonette2012
NTA defends Sarah's happiness after 'special' cup outrage 😊
SpectrophobicSinner | SpectrophobicSinner
Protecting autistic sister: NTA and the opposite of ableism 👏
RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari
👍 NTA for going above and beyond to accommodate Sarah's needs.
ironosora | ironosora
NTA: Op made Sarah happy, sister should have been more supportive 😊
AmIarealbunny | AmIarealbunny
Commenter suggests involving Sarah in decision-making process for cup. 👍
Ankko_2109 | Ankko_2109
Accommodating disabilities is not ableist. 👍
mandogrogu | mandogrogu
Disabled person defends 'special' cup, calls out ableism. NTA x2000000000 👏
DragonKat_90 | DragonKat_90
Commenter thanks community for helpful insights and updates situation 🙌
fairyjeongyeon | fairyjeongyeon
Autistic individual approves 'special' cup for safety, NTA 👍
yukithewhitewolf | yukithewhitewolf
Using different items for accommodations is considerate, not ableism 👍
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Advocate explains why de-stigmatizing difference is more helpful than assimilation 👏
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Inclusion wins! Accommodations for all abilities are not ableist 👏
joreadfluidart | joreadfluidart
Suggestion to buy a replacement cup for autistic girl 👍
rbollige | rbollige
Commenter praises OP for accommodating autistic sister at tea bar 😊
Circe54 | Circe54
Celebrating inclusivity and accessibility with a specially made cup! 🎉
KampW | KampW
Sister's ableist behavior sparks outrage and conflict 😠
MageVicky | MageVicky
Parent of autistic kids praises accommodating gesture for Sarah 👏
Momsters123 | Momsters123
Sister outraged over 'special' cup for autistic girl 😱, but commenter defends accommodating disabilities 👍
acceberbex | acceberbex
Opposite of ableism? NTA makes autistic girl's day 😊
AliManny | AliManny
Accommodating sister receives praise for being considerate of her autistic sibling 🙌
ok_byside | ok_byside
Inclusivity wins! 🙌 NTA for making Sarah happy ❤️
Amara_Undone | Amara_Undone
Sister outraged over 'special' cup, but Sarah was happy 😊
lynziB | lynziB
Inclusive decision-making could've avoided sister's outrage 😔
Soranic | Soranic
Autistic person defends Sarah's positive reaction to 'special' cup 👏
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Advocating for equity over equality in accommodating different needs 🤔
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Autistic person defends desire for sippy cup, NTA 😊
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Silicon in drinks? NTA comment sparks debate.
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Accommodating an autistic person is excellent! NTA 👍
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Inclusion and safety win, but why is Jen upset? 🤔
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Autistic adult defends 'special' cup, calls Jen insufferable 😱
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Sister outraged over 'special' cup for autistic girl? NTA explains.
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Friend's quick reaction leads to embarrassing and angry situation 🤦♀️
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Navigating disability and fairness with maturity 👍
ImFinePleaseThanks | ImFinePleaseThanks
Matching cup or choking? Friend's an idiot. NTA 🤬
SoManyWhippets | SoManyWhippets
Being considerate isn't ableist. Don't be offended just to be offended 🙏
pixelated__pixie | pixelated__pixie
Parent of child with ASD defends 'special' cup, NTA
Iwasabrickwall | Iwasabrickwall
Thoughtful gesture towards autistic girl sparks agreement in comments 👍
Flow-Clean | Flow-Clean
Sister outraged over 'special' cup, commenter defends accommodation 😊
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The dark side of 'special' treatment in the disabled community 😱
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Autistic person grateful for 'special' cup, sister outraged 😱
SasSaphir_25 | SasSaphir_25
Sarcasm at its finest. Helping disabled is ableist now? 😂
konofireda98 | konofireda98
Accommodating a disabled person is inclusive, NTA 👏
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Sister defends 'NTA' judgement, suggests Jen is just jealous 🤪
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Sarcasm at its finest. NTA for showing kindness 😂
OldBroad54 | OldBroad54
Grateful for 'special' cup, but floating bits cause stress 🤯
DazzleLove | DazzleLove
Heartwarming comment on 'special' cup for autistic girl 😍
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Autistic person loves 'special' cup, sister outraged 😍
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Commenter calls out Autism Speaks and supports OP's actions 👍
Wilkie77 | Wilkie77
Assuming help without asking is ableist 🤔
frydbolonyponysamich | frydbolonyponysamich
Sibling conflict over 'special' cup, mild YTA, communication needed 🙏
laugenbroetchen | laugenbroetchen
Kind commenter shares personal experience and defends Sarah's happiness. 🙌
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Sister accuses of ableism for saving her autistic sibling's life 🤷♀️, but Sarah loved it 😊
No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628
Sister outraged over 'special' cup for autistic girl. NTA.
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Sister outraged over 'special' cup for autistic girl? NTA explains why.
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Being 'person centred' is important for individuals with learning disabilities 👍
hansy2000 | hansy2000
Disabled person defends adaptive solutions, calls out ableism. 👏
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Sister defends 'not ableist' decision to deny ice cubes 🤭
helluvahoe | helluvahoe
Sensible suggestion for future accommodations, reasonable and effective solution 👍
joseph_wolfstar | joseph_wolfstar
Inclusivity wins! NTA took safety concerns seriously 💪
BugsRatty | BugsRatty
Autistic commenter shares the struggle of breaking cups, grateful for help 🙏
MarvelGirl43 | MarvelGirl43
Advocating for disabled family members can be overbearing. NTA. 🙏
TrekfanNJ | TrekfanNJ
Inclusion without endangerment, NTA comment is sweet 😍
RubyRogue13 | RubyRogue13
Parent of autistic child appreciates effort to keep loved ones safe 🙏
JvaughnJ | JvaughnJ
Accommodations for special needs are not ableist. 👏
lifeonthehill5385817 | lifeonthehill5385817
Sarcasm and common sense prevail in ableist accusation. 😂
StrawberryQueenx | StrawberryQueenx
Sister questions if accommodation decision was ableist without Sarah's input 🤔
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