Imagine being 21, pregnant, and uncertain about your future. Now imagine your boyfriend and mother pressuring you to keep the baby, even though you’re not ready. This is the story of a young woman who found herself in this exact situation. After lying to her boyfriend and having an abortion, she faced the wrath of her family and even ended up homeless. But that’s just the beginning of this emotional rollercoaster.
Boyfriend’s Dad Passes Away

The Abortion Decision

Baby as a Gift from God?

Mum Gets Involved

Kicked Out & Moving In

Changing Her Mind

Regret & Secret Abortion

Living in a Car

Boyfriend & His Mum Begging

Dad Finds Out & Takes Her In

Moving Back Home

Locking Herself Away

Feeling Like a Terrible Person

Tempted to Make Everyone Happy

Seeking Answers

Is She Really the Villain Here?
After lying to her boyfriend and having an abortion, this young woman faced the wrath of her family and even ended up homeless. Now back at her parents’ house, she’s constantly reminded of her decision and feels like a terrible person. Her boyfriend and friends tell her she should have just had the baby, while her mum hates her. She’s tempted to give in to their wishes just to make everyone happy, but deep down, she’s seeking answers and validation. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
NTA. Commenters offer support and urge OP to prioritize her own well-being.

NTA for not having a baby to make others happy
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Supportive comment with empathy for tough decision and toxic family.

Virtual hugs and support for woman’s decision to have abortion.

Magical uterus doesn’t cure emotional woes, NTA wins the argument.

Pregnant woman stands up for her right to choose.

Stand up for your choices and don’t let others bully you.

Empathetic comment offers advice to pregnant woman in distress.

Woman receives support for decision to have abortion and leave manipulative boyfriend

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize own well-being and future

Empathetic comment supports woman’s right to choose.

Choosing not to have a child is a valid choice

NTA. Boyfriend’s psychotic behavior forced unwanted pregnancy and pressure. Leave him!

Commenter supports woman’s right to choose, condemns bullying.
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Empowering comment encourages self-care and independence.

NTA. Partner not supportive, mom controlling. Tough situation, hope improves

Choosing to have a child for others is not okay

Stand up for your own bodily autonomy! NTA.

Empathetic commenter supports OP’s abortion decision amidst family turmoil.

Commenter deemed not the a**hole, but why?

NTA. Don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm

Empathetic reply to woman’s abortion decision with important reminders ❤️

Empathetic comment supports woman’s right to bodily autonomy

NTA who had an abortion is criticized for not having a baby

Supportive comment advises moving on from toxic boyfriend

Empathetic reply supports woman’s difficult decision.
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Choose parenthood on your own terms, not anyone else’s.

NTA. Your body is not community property. Break up ♀️

Escape toxic family. NTA for choosing your own life

Choosing abortion doesn’t make you an a**hole.

A disturbing comment with no appropriate replies.

NTA, dump the bf and mom. Your body, your choice.

Commenter receives support after being manipulated into abortion by boyfriend

Empathetic reply supports woman’s right to choose.

Empowering response to pressure to have unwanted baby.

Don’t bring a child into a bad situation. Seek support

Supportive comment reminds woman to prioritize herself and her future

Commenter supports OP’s decision and curses out others.

Commenter criticizes BF and his mother for pressuring her to have a baby and become a human incubator. Raises concerns about the societal pressure on women to prioritize motherhood over personal needs.
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Boyfriend devalues partner’s grief and autonomy. Supportive dad shines through.

Protect yourself, block your ex and get a restraining order. NTA

Empowering comment defends pro-choice stance.

Empathetic comment supporting OP’s decision to prioritize her future.

NTA gets helpful advice on leaving manipulative boyfriend and taking control.
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NTA, woman stands up for herself and gets an abortion. ❤️

Empathetic comment urges woman to leave manipulative partner and prioritize herself.

Empathetic reply to a woman in an abusive situation.

Supportive comment encourages leaving toxic relationship and prioritizing self-care.

Supportive comment encourages moving away from toxic environment ❤️
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Supportive comment offers advice to pregnant woman in difficult situation
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Ex-boyfriend and mother are horrible. NTA for having abortion

NTA, seek counseling, move away from abusive boyfriend and family
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Cut off toxic people for a better life

Supportive comment from someone who had an abortion too

Commenter defends ‘NTA’ for woman’s abortion and advises break-up

Chappelle agrees with NTA comment, watch the video for context

Empathetic comment supports woman’s decision to not have baby.

Toxic relationship advice: break up, block, and move out

Don’t have a baby to make others less miserable #NTA
