Weddings are supposed to be a time of love and celebration, but sometimes family drama can’t help but rear its ugly head. Our bride-to-be discovered her dad’s affair when she was just 14, and it’s been a rocky relationship ever since. Fast forward to her wedding planning, and tensions are at an all-time high with her dad and stepmom. After a heated confrontation, she decides to uninvite them both from her big day. But is she going too far? Read on to find out!
The Affair Discovery

Mom’s Death and Moving In

The Fiance and Scandalous Start

Cutting Out the Cheater

The Proposal and Wedding Planning

Tension Over the Dress

The Lunchtime Confrontation ️

Accusations of Breaking ‘Girl Code’

Bride’s Fiery Response

Paying the Check and Leaving

Uninviting the Homewreckers

Family Fallout

Dad’s Pleas for Reconciliation

Fiance’s Surprising Defense

Seeking Outside Opinions

The Wedding Guest List Dilemma
After a tense dress shopping trip and a heated confrontation over ‘girl code,’ our bride-to-be makes the bold decision to uninvite her dad and stepmom from her wedding. With half of his side of the family now threatening not to attend, she’s left wondering if she’s gone too far. Even her fiance thinks she might be too harsh, considering it’s been 15 years since the affair. What do you think? Is our bride justified in her actions, or should she reconsider? Let’s see what the internet has to say…
NTA for uninviting dad & stepmom from wedding, commenters agree

NTA! Best friend and his husband will give her away

Bride uninvites dad and stepmom, saves money, and disinvites guests.

Stepmom accuses bride of breaking ‘girl code’ for not covering her affair with bride’s father. NTA.

OP’s response to stepmom’s criticism is praised with applause

Mom spills affair, bride uninvites dad and stepmom. Yikes.

NTA comment suggests talking to father, setting boundaries.

Commenter justifies bride’s decision to uninvite dad and stepmom.

NTA comment defends against cheating accusations

Cutting toxic family from the guest list #NTA

Stepmom’s affair partner tries to bond with bride? NTA uninviting toxicity

Commenter supports bride’s decision and uses humor to emphasize it

NTA comment section: Debate on moral standards and ‘girl code’.

NTA, but harsh. Commenter recommends talking it out with fiancé.

Commenter uses reverse uno card metaphor to describe bride’s actions.

Stepmom gets roasted in comment section

Breaking girl code? Not NTA! Step away from drama.

Bride uninvites dad and stepmom from wedding, deemed NTA by commenters.

Friend’s ex turned partner, not scandalous. NTA, supported friend.

Engaging in a debate on girl code, NTA wins.

“Take no prisoners”, commenter applauds bride’s moral standpoint.

Daughter defends uninviting dad and stepmom from wedding. #NTA

Navigating family drama and infidelity, commenter advises cutting ties.

Commenter defends bride against dad and stepmom’s hypocrisy.

NTA stands up to stepmom’s hypocrisy at wedding

Commenter defends bride’s decision and throws shade at stepmom

Commenters question OP’s mother’s behavior while condemning stepmom’s actions.

Commenter calls out stepmom’s hypocrisy, NTA verdict.

NTA. Weddings are no place for people who disrespect marriage.

Commenter praises OP for standing up to morally questionable stepmom.

Dad’s silence speaks volumes, NTA for uninviting them

Fiance’s devil’s advocate advice supports NTA bride’s decision

Stepmom and dad uninvited from wedding. NTA.

Empowering comment about girl code and supporting the bride

Commenter empathizes with bride’s situation but criticizes her dad’s actions.

Stepmom judged bride despite affair with married man

Daughter defends herself against hypocritical relationship advice.

Commenter defends bride’s decision to uninvite dad and stepmom.

Calling out infidelity and upholding girl code

Supportive comment defends bride’s decision to uninvite dad & stepmom

Commenter defends bride, calls stepmom a homewrecker. NTA.

Commenter suggests therapy to handle extreme responses to stepmom.

Empathetic comment reminds bride to consider fiance’s perspective

Cheating is never the solution

Commenter believes bride is NTA (not the a**hole)

Family counseling could be the key
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Commenter warns against infidelity’s devastating effects on children.

Cheating stepmom calls out bride for breaking girl code. NTA wins.

Intimate wedding or photography fail? You decide

Time doesn’t heal all wounds in this family feud

Standing up to cheaters

Stepmom gets called out, dad needs to stay in lane

Standing up for yourself and having good morals!

Wedding drama ends in smooth sailing. NTA

OP receives praise for uninviting dad and stepmom from wedding

Cheers to standing up for yourself!

Agreement on NTA judgement with no further discussion.

Secure your big day with hired security and avoid drama

Finding peace after 15 years of hurtful family issues. ♀️

Breaking the girl code and wedding invite drama

Curious commenter seeks updates on family drama

Stepmom broke up family, bride NTA for uninviting them
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Daughter uninvites dad & stepmom from wedding. Commenter supports decision.

Defending your morals is worth more than a wedding invite

Overcoming family drama and healing old wounds.

NTA bride receives advice to talk to her dad.
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Congratulations on your wedding! NTA

Dating friend’s ex: ESH comment section stays off-topic

NTA reminds husband not to throw stones in glass houses

Stepmom criticized bride’s relationship, NTA for uninviting her.

Bride uninvites dad and stepmom from wedding, gets support from commenters

Standing up to toxic family. NTA and a hero.
