Man Cuts Wife Off From Assets, But Is He the Bad Guy? 😲

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Imagine being torn between your spouse and your adult children during a pandemic. That's the situation this man found himself in when his wife demanded he kick out their struggling kids or face the consequences. 😓 With his wife gone and communication at an all-time low, he finally decides to file for divorce. But when she discovers she's been cut off from their shared assets, all hell breaks loose! 😡 Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story...

Marriage on the Rocks 🥃

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Pandemic Problems 😷

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The Wife's Side Hustle 💻

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Invasion of Personal Space 🏠

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Sink or Swim? 🏊

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Chore Wars 🧹

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The Banshee's Ultimatum 😤

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The Wife's Departure 🚗

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Radio Silence 📵

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Kids' Progress 📈

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Heartbreaking News 💔

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Divorce Papers Served 📄

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Wife's Fury Unleashed 😠

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Name-Calling Ensues 🗣️

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Feeling Guilty? 😔

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Divorce Drama: Who's the Real A**hole? 🤔

In this heart-wrenching tale, a man is caught between his wife and his adult children during the pandemic. Despite his wife's ultimatum, he chooses to help his kids, leading to their separation and eventual divorce. But when he cuts her off from their shared assets, she and her family go ballistic! 😱 Is he really the bad guy for wanting to help his children, or is his wife being unreasonable? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🍿

NTA defends his decision to cut off wife's access to assets.

gen_petra | gen_petra

Legal implications of cutting off access to joint accounts during divorce. 👨‍💻📞

Stravinsky00 | Stravinsky00

Commenter defends man's actions, sparks debate on marriage system. 💍

minizookeeper | minizookeeper

Divorcees argue over shared assets and adult children's responsibilities. ESH.

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Commenter expresses concern for wife's perspective, deems OP a light TA.

fuckpineapplepizza | fuckpineapplepizza

Unfair distribution of chores causing marital asset dispute 🤔

Equivalent_Collar_59 | Equivalent_Collar_59

Man unilaterally removes wife's crafting room, cuts off health insurance 😠

ThatComicChick | ThatComicChick

Man expects kids to focus on job search, wife wants more. YTA.

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Reader calls out husband for cutting off shared funds 😒

07budgj | 07budgj

ESH, but OP is presenting his own POV and still looks like an a**hole. Commenters calling wife a gold digger are wrong. 💰

arkanasi | arkanasi

Man's decision to cut off wife from assets deemed selfish 😕

EuropeanLady | EuropeanLady

Man prioritizes lazy kids over wife. YTA 😠

Springheeledjacklyn | Springheeledjacklyn

Man's selfishness towards wife and kids earns him YTA judgement 🤨

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Commenter calls out OP for neglecting important context. YTA confirmed 😠

PyrexPizazz217 | PyrexPizazz217

Spouse doesn't respect wife's craft, both are at fault. 🤷‍♂️

DawaLhamo | DawaLhamo

Commenter calls out poster for being TA and misleading 😑

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OP is called out for being a 'gigantic d**k' for cutting off his spouse's access to joint assets. 😱


Defensive OP gets called out for being YTA 🤨

modernwunder | modernwunder

Moving two adults into a trailer without consulting wife? YTA. 😑

Consistent_Language9 | Consistent_Language9

OP's wife had no say in stepchildren moving in 🤔

melody_pond_1821 | melody_pond_1821

Commenter calls out OP for being the bad guy. 💥

backupbitches | backupbitches

Curious about the backstory and legal implications of this situation? 🤔

PoorCorrelation | PoorCorrelation

Commenter suggests OP's kids were not pulling their weight. 🤔

Protowhale | Protowhale

User calls out husband for unilateral decisions and financial abuse 🔥

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish and shortsighted. 🤔

terrapharma | terrapharma

Keeping health insurance from wife makes ESH situation worse. 😡

perhapsnew | perhapsnew

Cutting off health insurance during pandemic? YTA, no doubt 😡

lexi_the_leo | lexi_the_leo

Redditors agree: OP is the a**hole 🤬

insquestaca | insquestaca

YTA for unilaterally letting your kids move in without consulting wife 🙄

OpheliasTragedy | OpheliasTragedy

Standing up for kids and cutting off freeloader. NTA 👏

Trex1322 | Trex1322

Redditor calls out husband for cutting off wife from assets 🔥

Adventurous-Mode-277 | Adventurous-Mode-277

Commenter calls out controlling behavior, hopes for justice 💯

kittenwolfmage | kittenwolfmage

Commenter predicts financial consequences for husband, calls him YTA. 😡

wheres_the_revolt | wheres_the_revolt

Commenter calls out both parties for lack of communication 🤔

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Commenter calls out OP for unfairness and lack of transparency 😒

alessalevan | alessalevan

Joint account = joint decision. YTA for cutting her off.

Bibi_Baby13 | Bibi_Baby13

Commenter questions OP's actions, seeks more information 🤔

Excellent_Front9522 | Excellent_Front9522

Is the husband TA for cutting off his wife's assets? 🤔

Daeneryspls | Daeneryspls

Spouse devalues wife's work, cuts off income, and invades privacy 🤯

Tossedfarawayy | Tossedfarawayy

Commenter calls out OP for being dismissive and a defender of a murderer. YTA 😠

shadedferns | shadedferns

Wife deserves better 🤨 Man's controlling behavior is unacceptable

riritreetop | riritreetop

Man dismisses wife's health problems and cuts her off from assets. YTA 😠

kelduck | kelduck

Commenter thinks OP is the a**hole. Uh oh. 🤨

JenBGenX | JenBGenX

Man belittles wife, expects her to do everything. YTA 😡

mafaldaconquino | mafaldaconquino

Commenter questions OP's decision to invite children without wife's consent 🤔

dinglepumpkin | dinglepumpkin

Redditor calls out OP for being a bad husband 🔥

kelcity | kelcity

Commenter calls out OP as the a**hole, no debate here. 🙄

tarbearjean | tarbearjean

Commenter warns YTA of illegal actions and consequences 🚨

DLS3141 | DLS3141

Redditors agree: OP is the a**hole for dismissing wife's efforts 🤯

traumablades | traumablades

Commenter reflects on a dead marriage, deems everyone sucks here. 😔

Sepherik | Sepherik

Commenter explains why OP is the a-hole, with legal consequences. 😱

DraganTehPro | DraganTehPro

YTA for cutting off access to healthcare and shared account.

Bayfp | Bayfp

Man cuts wife off after ultimatum, NTA or ESH?

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Commenter calls out OP as YTA with shock emoji.

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Redditors agree: OP is the a**hole 👎

orangesmoke05 | orangesmoke05

Red flags: cutting off shared assets, YTA, illegal actions 🚨

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Commenter thinks the husband is the a**hole. 🤪

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Commenter deems someone the a**hole 🤬

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Man prioritizes adult kids over wife, internet calls him a**hole 😠

kristie_b1 | kristie_b1

ESH. Lack of communication and unrealistic expectations caused the conflict. 😕

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Communication is key! Both parties could have handled better 👍

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Who's responsible for kids' chores? Let's discuss 🤔

generic_bitch | generic_bitch

Cutting off shared account not right, could lead to alimony. 😓

obleak1 | obleak1

Commenter changes judgement from NTA to YTA with explanation. 🤔

perfect_fitz | perfect_fitz

Commenter changes judgement to YTA after reading other comments 🤔

MoriohSound12 | MoriohSound12

Commenter calls out husband for being controlling and sexist. 😠

Environmental-End724 | Environmental-End724

Adult kids should help with chores and tensions need easing. ESH 😒

Birdonahook | Birdonahook

Moving in adult children against her wishes makes YTA 😡

jlysc | jlysc

Commenter calls out husband for being the a**hole and predicts legal consequences. 😏

Craftyhobby | Craftyhobby

YTA husband faces alimony after cutting off wife's support 😡

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