🏠 Homeowner's Girlfriend Unwelcome? Roommate's Shocking Request 😲

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Imagine owning a house and having a friend stay rent-free in your guest room to save up for their own place. You've been dating your girlfriend for almost a year, and everything seems perfect. But then, your friend suddenly says they're uncomfortable with your girlfriend coming over and wants her gone. What would you do? 🤔💔 Here's a story of a homeowner who faced this exact dilemma.

The Generous Homeowner 💕🏠

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

The Roommate's Request 😕

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The Living Arrangement 🛏️

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The Uncomfortable Roommate 😣

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Searching for a Reason 🧐

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The Supportive Girlfriend 💖

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The Vague Discomfort 😐

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The Girlfriend's Perspective 🤷‍♀️

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

The Homeowner's Decision ✋

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

The Emotional Outburst 😢

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

The Update: A Heart-to-Heart 💔

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

The Unrequited Love 💔

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

The Emotional Rollercoaster 🎢

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

The Resolution 🌈

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The Apology and Moving Forward 🤗

throwbeanaway | throwbeanaway

Roommate's Unrequited Love Unveiled 💔🏠

After a heart-to-heart conversation, the homeowner discovers her roommate has been in love with her since college, and living together has reignited those feelings. Hormonal changes and other emotional factors contributed to the roommate's discomfort with the girlfriend's presence. They agree on a resolution, with the homeowner helping her roommate find a therapist and making adjustments for privacy. The girlfriend will still be coming over, and they all hope for a harmonious living situation moving forward. 🌈🏠

🤔 Roommate's jealousy may stem from feelings for OP or GF.

BeebeeYotch | BeebeeYotch

Roommate may have a crush on OP, bet on it! NTA.


Commenter finds situation ridiculous, excited for potential drama. 🥳

StAlvis | StAlvis

Friend uncomfortable with girlfriend, but won't say why 🤔

snicketysnackety | snicketysnackety

Jealous roommate? NTA. She needs to deal with herself 🙏

Jetro99 | Jetro99

🤔 Roommate's strange request: Does she have feelings for OP's girlfriend?

Clydefr0g8 | Clydefr0g8

Sassy NTA comment receives witty reply 😂

DwightDEisenhowitzer | DwightDEisenhowitzer

🤔 Roommate's request may have hidden motives. Investigate before reacting.

bouganvilea25 | bouganvilea25

Roommate's behavior towards girlfriend: NTA or ESH situation? 🤔

TogarSucks | TogarSucks

Ungrateful girlfriend causing roommate drama in shared home 😠

spicybEtch212 | spicybEtch212

🚩 Beware of jealous roommate's motives. NTA for having girlfriend.

GloryIV | GloryIV

Roommate's entitlement over homeowner's girlfriend backfires. NTA wins.

archaeoloshe | archaeoloshe

Roommate uncomfortable with girlfriend, NTA suggests finding new place 🏠

teresajs | teresajs

NTA stands up for homeowner's girlfriend, sparks no debate. 💪

VerdeEyed | VerdeEyed

Roommate's discomfort may stem from personal issues, not GF's gender 🤔

onawingandaswear | onawingandaswear

NTA. Homeowner can do whatever they please in their own house 👍

The_Amazing_Ammmy | The_Amazing_Ammmy

Roommate's guest is depriving privacy, GF should be prioritized. 😑

Mandarinette | Mandarinette

Eviction justified? Commenters agree with NTA verdict 👍

jackytheripper1 | jackytheripper1

Commenter questions obvious judgement in self-aware post 😔

bandit3288 | bandit3288

Girlfriend drama? NTA says 'It's your house' 😎

Niraena | Niraena

Real friends don't make shocking requests 🙅

cinnamngrl | cinnamngrl

Girlfriend not welcome? NTA, it's your home 🏠❤️

SomeoneSomewhere1984 | SomeoneSomewhere1984

"Uncomfy"? Roommate's girlfriend causing tension 🤷‍♂️

gnomewife | gnomewife

Commenter's blunt response to roommate's unreasonable request. 🤬

mouse22222 | mouse22222

Roommate's request denied: Homeowner's GF welcome in shared house 😊

BoundaryStompingMIL | BoundaryStompingMIL

Give notice immediately, avoid entitlement and misery. 🚪💸

ScammerC | ScammerC

Girlfriend unwelcome, but no good reason given. NTA 😊

Aqua-Regis | Aqua-Regis

👍 Advice on how to address roommate's unexpected outburst and concerns.

Queen_beeeeee | Queen_beeeeee

Roommate's jealousy causing tension in friendship. NTA, handle gently 😊

DeadlyDomi | DeadlyDomi

NTA. Commenter suggests friend's issue is trans-related projection. Reply implies possible romantic feelings.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Roommate's irrational behavior towards homeowner's girlfriend. NAH.

MyBoldestStroke | MyBoldestStroke

Girlfriend living rent-free? NTA, says commenter with laughing face.

Frenchie1001 | Frenchie1001

Roommate upset about homeowner's girlfriend staying over. NTA.

orangefreezepop | orangefreezepop

Clear communication is key 👨‍🍳

greenprotomullet | greenprotomullet

🤔 Roommate's motives questioned in comment section

PlushieTushie | PlushieTushie

Roommate's strange request leads to NTA's justified reaction. 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Mystery surrounds roommate's strange request. What's really going on? 🤔

brewerybitch | brewerybitch

🚪👋 Don't let her manipulate you. You're not responsible for her.

fakesloover | fakesloover

👍Agree, roommate's behavior seems suspicious. NTA for having girlfriend over.

distracted_x | distracted_x

Roommate's love confession prompts awkward living situation 😳

Feeling-better2day | Feeling-better2day

Confusion over OP's trans lesbian girlfriend, but roommate has no say 😐

Mirewen15 | Mirewen15

🤔 Is the roommate jealous or is there more to it?

[deleted] | [deleted]

Roommate jealous of girlfriend? 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Unpaid 'roommate' wants to control guests? Your house, your rules. NTA 👍

releasethe_mccracken | releasethe_mccracken

🤔 Roommate's jealousy revealed in shocking request. #NTA

IndividualDismal1722 | IndividualDismal1722

Roommate's girlfriend unwelcome, NTA for setting boundaries. 😊

evhanne | evhanne

Self-reflection is key 🔑 Don't be too hard on yourself

Kamikaze_Bacon | Kamikaze_Bacon

Update brings wholesome twist to NTA comment ❤

FinitoHere | FinitoHere

Roommate's dishonesty warrants eviction. NTA. 💯

My_reddit_throwawy | My_reddit_throwawy

Girlfriend vs Roommate: NTA, it's YOUR house. Roommate needs help 😔

aarbelai25 | aarbelai25

NTA! But what led to this shocking request? 🤔

headoftheasylum | headoftheasylum

Mystery surrounds the situation. 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Roommate's girlfriend unwelcome? NTA says beggars can't be choosers 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

Girlfriend not paying rent? NTA, she has no say 🤷‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Roommate's girlfriend unwelcome? Commenter says NTA for siding with homeowner.

anngrn | anngrn

👀 Homeowner's girlfriend unwelcome? Roommate gets evicted without hesitation

Mike06110815 | Mike06110815

Commenter predicts roommate's feelings for homeowner, happy for resolution 😊

PonderWhoIAm | PonderWhoIAm

Being open to communication can prevent conflicts 👥

chiropterra | chiropterra

NTA. Short and sweet, no need for explanation 😍

dr-sparkle | dr-sparkle

NTA. Roommate's jealousy and unreciprocated feelings require physical space. 😎

[deleted] | [deleted]

Girlfriend staying rent-free, NTA calls out her audacity 😍

ohmoimarie | ohmoimarie

Your home, your rules 🏠 Stand your ground!

AstroBoyTurf | AstroBoyTurf

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