Step-Sibling Showdown: Can You Blame a Sister for Not Loving Her Spoiled Stepsister? 😲

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Family dynamics can be complicated, especially when it comes to step-siblings. One woman's mother remarried when she was 12, and her new stepfather had a 2-year-old daughter. While the woman's mother quickly fell in love with the little girl, the woman never really saw her as a sister. Fast forward to today, and the now-spoiled little girl's demanding behavior has driven her step-sister to avoid her. But is it wrong to not love your stepsister, even if her behavior is unbearable? Let's dive into this family drama! 🍿😬

New Family, New Sister?

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Not Feeling the Sisterly Love

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Spoiled Rotten

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Screaming Fits

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TV Time Tantrums

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Piggyback Ride or Else!

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Slide Showdown

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School Struggles

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Avoiding the Annoyance

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Weekend Visits?

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No Stepsister Allowed

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Mom's Disappointment

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Not Everyone Will Love Her

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Birthday Party Blues

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Cold-hearted Sister?

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Is It Wrong to Not Love Your Stepsister? 😕

Our protagonist finds herself in a tough spot, as her mom and stepdad have spoiled her stepsister to the point of unbearable behavior. Despite her mom's insistence that she should love her stepsister, she can't help but avoid her. The woman points out that not everyone will love the little girl, and her behavior will only lead to more problems in the future. But is it really so wrong to not love your stepsister, especially when her antics are driving you away? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🧐

Step-sister's behavior is horrible, but OP's mom and stepdad are the real AHs here 😠

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Sibling rivalry and parenting woes: NTA for not wanting to be around a poorly behaved step-sister 🙅‍♀️

Ok-Writer-774 | Ok-Writer-774

Choosing not to be a sister doesn't make you NTA 👍

Fun-Two-1414 | Fun-Two-1414

Forced sibling love is outdated and unrealistic parenting. 👏

HurtHurtsMe | HurtHurtsMe

NTA commenter advocates for spoiled stepsister's behavior correction. 😲

lynnharris3321 | lynnharris3321

NTA. A classmate shares a sad story of a similar experience.

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Is spoiling an 8-year-old really 'cute'? 🤔

Sword_Of_Storms | Sword_Of_Storms

Step-sister set up for failure? NTA has thoughts 🤔

Mishy162 | Mishy162

No obligation to love a spoiled stepsister. NTA 👍

TrainingDearest | TrainingDearest

NTA. Mom in denial about stepdaughter's behavior 🤔

4682458 | 4682458

Avoiding a bratty step-sister: NTA and free at last! 😊

UnderwaterAlly | UnderwaterAlly

Step-sister drama: NTA for not loving spoiled step-sister 😒

Solaris_0706 | Solaris_0706

Sister suggests behavioural assessment for bratty stepsister. NTA for avoiding.

Gr0uchPotato | Gr0uchPotato

Tough love for a spoiled stepsister, NTA wins the day 👏

PossessionCreepy6074 | PossessionCreepy6074

Dealing with tantrums: effective on 8-year-olds and adults. 😂

NiobeTonks | NiobeTonks

Commenter empathizes with the child but not responsible for her. 😕

Stoney_Wan_KaBlowme | Stoney_Wan_KaBlowme

A harsh truth about the consequences of bad parenting. 😔

RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari

Step-sister's bad behavior enabled by step-father and mother. NTA.

Hoplite68 | Hoplite68

8-year-old acting like a toddler? NTA calls out bad parenting 😱

AnxiousYoung184 | AnxiousYoung184

NTA, blaming the parents for spoiling their child's behavior 👏

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Partner's 8yo isn't entitled like the stepsister. NTA.

No_Extreme_1798 | No_Extreme_1798

Mom wants a break from the brat, not your visit 😊

Zach_203 | Zach_203

Avoiding spoiled stepsister: NTA's best move 🙌

Adventurous-Cook-464 | Adventurous-Cook-464

Taking a stand against toxic family dynamics. 💪

Lori_D | Lori_D

User clarifies age discrepancy in NTA comment thread. 👍

RaZZeR_9351 | RaZZeR_9351

Observation of similar behavior led to disastrous consequences. Self-care first. 🙏

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Spoiled stepsister needs boundaries and parenting, NTA. 👍

ResponseMountain6580 | ResponseMountain6580

NTA and complimenting the writing? Classy move 😎

Impossible_Dark_6163 | Impossible_Dark_6163

Sibling rivalry? NTA has a valid point 😊

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Commenter shares experience with effective discipline techniques. 👍

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Calling out bad behavior: NTA stepsister needs discipline now ⚠️

eRant4881 | eRant4881

Savage honesty: Stepsister drama and bad parenting 😱

Travelgal96 | Travelgal96

Age gap and spoiled behavior justify stepsister distance. NTA.

neogreenlantern | neogreenlantern

Step-sister screams and causes trouble, OP not obliged to host. NTA 👍

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

Sister not at fault for not loving spoiled stepsister 😍

albagilatej | albagilatej

NTA commenter approves of tough love in step-sibling relationship 👍

Brilliant_Key_9391 | Brilliant_Key_9391

NTA, but mom needs to address sister's behavior, not reactions. 🙅

One-Possibility1178 | One-Possibility1178

Age difference revealed in INFO comment sparks curiosity 🤔

Queen_Sized_Beauty | Queen_Sized_Beauty

NTA stands firm against spoiled stepsister's behavior. 🙌

yourcatsbff | yourcatsbff

Mother's manipulative behavior towards sister's responsibility. NTA.

Shoddy_Lifeguard_852 | Shoddy_Lifeguard_852

Step-sister's behavior called out by NTA in a mature way 👏

Fine_Helicopter7214 | Fine_Helicopter7214

NTA commenter advises clarifying parenting responsibility with mother. 👍

Facetunethis | Facetunethis

Age gap and lack of common ground, NTA for setting boundaries 👍

disisathrowaway | disisathrowaway

Setting boundaries with manipulative mother and spoiled stepsister. NTA 👏

blueberryyogurtcup | blueberryyogurtcup

Sibling rivalry and parental favoritism. Navigating a nightmare 🤯

flowerbitch1998 | flowerbitch1998

Step-sibling rivalry and parental pressure, NTA stands their ground 👏

Lost-Glove-1291 | Lost-Glove-1291

Not all stepsiblings bond, and that's okay. 🤷‍♀️

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Sister chooses peace over spoiled stepsister. NTA 👍

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Spray her with water 😂: A creative solution to a spoiled stepsister.

DeathLife97 | DeathLife97

Sometimes family doesn't mean you have to put up with toxicity 👍

EllieMacAus19 | EllieMacAus19

Family feud? NTA says you can't force love 🙅

Gray_Twilight | Gray_Twilight

Love can't be forced, and boundaries are important. NTA 👍

TinyTurtle42 | TinyTurtle42

Being honest about not loving stepsister, NTA. Can't force relationship. 👍

VictoriousSeahorse | VictoriousSeahorse

Step-sister's entitled behavior justifies OP's decision. NTA 👍

NotMe739 | NotMe739

Stepping up: Addressing a disruptive stepsister's behavior. NTA 👍

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Addressing behavioral issues and family resentment towards step-siblings 🤔

Korilian | Korilian

Training a spoiled stepsister: NTA's friend's drastic solution 🤪

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Standing up to spoiled stepsister and clueless parents. 💪

Poinsettia917 | Poinsettia917

Step-sibling strife: NTA for not loving spoiled stepsister 😒

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Calling out entitled behavior: NTA for not loving stepsister 👏

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Dealing with entitled step-siblings who bully and make 'jokes' 😑

Extension-Cup-3529 | Extension-Cup-3529

Parenting without discipline leads to natural consequences and social isolation 😲

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Spoiled stepsister needs a reality check before it's too late 😱

Upset_Custard7652 | Upset_Custard7652

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