A 17-year-old girl finds herself in a heart-wrenching dilemma: should she stay with her loving foster moms or return to her biological mom? When her mom lost custody two years ago, she was placed with a foster family. Now, her mom has a new job and a place to live, but the girl is torn between the two families. She's found support, love, and stability with her foster moms, but her biological mom is working hard to rebuild their life together. Can she make the right decision without hurting anyone? 🥺
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A Heartbreaking Choice: Foster Moms or Bio Mom?
This 17-year-old girl is torn between staying with her supportive foster moms or returning to her biological mom who's working hard to rebuild their life together. With her mom now having a job and a place to live, the girl faces a difficult decision. She's found love, stability, and a fresh start at her new school with her foster moms, but her biological mom accuses her of letting them buy her love. As she struggles to make the right choice without hurting anyone, the internet offers her support and encouragement. Will she be able to find the best solution for her future? 😥
NTA. Foster moms are making good choices on your behalf.
theproblem_solver | theproblem_solver
NTA. Foster moms provide safety and support for transgender teen. 🙏
pincenez3 | pincenez3
Supportive adults crucial for trans youth. Stay where you're supported. 🙏
[deleted] | [deleted]
Loving foster moms vs. bio mom: NTA chooses self-care 👏
fabulousautie | fabulousautie
Choose safety and success over awful memories. NTA 👏
shebanat | shebanat
Stand your ground and stay with your foster moms! 👏
TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680
Loving others doesn't mean you love your mom any less ❤️
Spectrum2081 | Spectrum2081
Stay with your loving foster moms for a better future. ❤️
oreganoca | oreganoca
NTA. Foster moms provide normal, good care. Bio mom doesn't.
hexagon_heist | hexagon_heist
NTA, stay with foster moms for safety, support, and pets! 😊
Luna-Strange | Luna-Strange
Choosing safety over guilt: NTA stands up to abusive uncle 🚨
RunningTrisarahtop | RunningTrisarahtop
Transphobic environment detrimental to you. Stay with foster family. ✨
Ophyria | Ophyria
Heartfelt plea to stay with loving foster mom 😢
IneffableHusbands78 | IneffableHusbands78
Putting yourself first is not selfish. You don't owe anyone. 👏
divestedlegacy | divestedlegacy
A heartfelt message to a teen struggling with a tough decision ❤️
jerkface1026 | jerkface1026
Choose love, not guilt. Don't let bio mom manipulate you. ❤️
Let_Me_Explain_1996 | Let_Me_Explain_1996
Protecting yourself is not selfish. 👏 You're NTA.
juabreudecastro | juabreudecastro
Safe and loved in new home with crochet for anxiety 😊
shannon_99 | shannon_99
Safety concerns raised about moving in with uncle. 😬
user22022 | user22022
Encouraging reply to teen's tough decision. Keep striving for stability. ❤
FreyaB82 | FreyaB82
Stay with bio mom? Or choose foster moms? Heart-wrenching decision 😢
Such-Analysis7721 | Such-Analysis7721
Choose stability over chaos and money. NTA. 👍
Buckeye_Birdy | Buckeye_Birdy
NTA. Foster moms provide structure, care, and support for OP. Bio mom's request is regressive.
conditionalinterest | conditionalinterest
Bio mom wants daughter back for selfish reasons. NTA.
singer96 | singer96
Choose love ❤️ - Teen chooses foster moms over bio mom.
Scribb74 | Scribb74
Don't let guilt ruin your stable foundation. 🙌
sickmanspitefulman | sickmanspitefulman
Trans commenter supports teen staying with foster moms for safety 🙌
ZirriQ | ZirriQ
Bio mom deserves a heads-up, but NTA for choosing love 😍
poyorick | poyorick
Supportive commenter encourages teen to stay with loving foster moms ❤️
PurpleMP12 | PurpleMP12
Heartwarming comment from a former foster child. 💛
4brushwooddogs | 4brushwooddogs
Stay with your loving foster moms, they accept you for you 💕
BattleKitten17 | BattleKitten17
Prioritize your mental health. You're NTA for choosing safety. 🙏
Equivalent-Unit | Equivalent-Unit
Encouraging words for a teen caught in a tough situation 🙏
CheruthCutestory | CheruthCutestory
NTA sweetie. Foster moms are better parents. Bio mom isn't putting you first. 👏
remainsofthedaze | remainsofthedaze
Loving advice on how to navigate a difficult family situation ❤️
obtusewisdom | obtusewisdom
Foster moms provide stability and safety. Bio mom offers a house. 😢
littlehappyfeets | littlehappyfeets
Former foster child advises teen to trust their gut and choose family ❤️
ChickpeaCholo | ChickpeaCholo
Supportive comment encourages child to prioritize their safety and happiness 👏
eva_rector | eva_rector
Trans commenter empathizes with teen's foster care struggle. NTA 👏
buricco | buricco
Choose safety and happiness. You owe your mom nothing. 💪
loki93009 | loki93009
Escape an abusive environment. Seek help and education. NTA 👏
TexasTeacher | TexasTeacher
Choosing a foster family that supports you doesn't make you TA 👏
carrieosman | carrieosman
Structure and stability are crucial for a teen's growth 👨🎓
NhuQP | NhuQP
Teen receives support and validation for prioritizing safety and love ❤️
spotlightsr2 | spotlightsr2
Former foster child advises teen to stay with foster moms ❤️
bunniesndepression | bunniesndepression
Supportive comment for teen staying with foster moms over bio mom 👏
cemeteryboys | cemeteryboys
Heartwarming reply encourages teen to follow their heart ❤️
bigloser79 | bigloser79
NTA. Enjoy your childhood, you're not responsible for your mom. 🙌
ozziejean | ozziejean
British show inspires NTA comment on toxic bio mom
taylorpilot | taylorpilot
Supportive comment: You're NTA and not selfish for wanting to stay 👍
whosafraid11 | whosafraid11
Teen struggles to choose between bio mom and foster moms. 😢
NotSoAverage_sister | NotSoAverage_sister
Heartbreaking story of a child's struggle for basic respect. NTA 😢
Antique-Truth-9529 | Antique-Truth-9529
Heartwarming support for teen in foster care 🤗❤️
meegs1196 | meegs1196
Bio mom wants to control you, stay with loving foster moms. 🙌
uchigaytana | uchigaytana
Commenter suggests drastic measures to bio mom's dismissive behavior. 😳
Flashy-Consequence28 | Flashy-Consequence28
Bio mom emotionally blackmailing teen to live in unhealthy environment. Foster moms provide safe haven ❤️
FlossieOnyx | FlossieOnyx
Former foster carer advises teen to prioritize safety and love ❤
nobodiesfooljke | nobodiesfooljke
Prioritizing stability and safety is not selfish. 👏
ShiloNotShiloh | ShiloNotShiloh
NTA! Foster moms provide mental help and acceptance you need. 🙌
Wafflesxbutter | Wafflesxbutter
Choosing a better life: NTA OP deserves happiness and safety. 🙌
Glittering-War-5748 | Glittering-War-5748
Feeling safe and happy is important. NTA wins this one! 🙌
jjorda6 | jjorda6
Choosing safety over family: navigating abuse as a teenager. 😢
FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams
Heartwarming support for teen's decision to stay with foster moms 😢
Crazed_rabbiting | Crazed_rabbiting
Commenter praises OP's writing skills and agrees with NTA verdict.
zenswashbuckler | zenswashbuckler
Choose safety, boundaries, and love. YWNBTA 👏
wisely_and_slow | wisely_and_slow
