College Move-In Day Drama: Daughter Excludes Mom

Imagine moving into your college dorm without your mom by your side. That’s exactly what an 18-year-old girl did, leaving her mom devastated and questioning her actions. The young woman had been feeling excluded from her mom’s new family with her stepdad, Ryan, and his relatives. After years of being left out of family events and feeling unwanted, she decided to take matters into her own hands and exclude her mom from her college move-in day. But now, she’s wondering if she went too far. Let’s dive into the story.

Graduating Early and Moving On

Living with Mom and Stepdad

Feeling Excluded from the Family

Left Out of Family Events

The Painful Reality of Rejection

Family Outings Without Me

The Last Straw ‍♀️

Mom’s Silence Speaks Volumes

Preparing for College Move-In Day

The Big Day Arrives

Mom’s Reaction

Accusations of Exclusion ️

Confronting the Past

Feeling Guilty

Attempts to Address the Issue

Daughter’s Bold Move: Was It Justified? ‍♀️

After years of feeling excluded and unwanted by her mom’s new family, this 18-year-old college student decided to exclude her mom from her college move-in day. She had tried addressing the issue with her mom in the past, but nothing ever changed. Now, after leaving her mom hurt and upset, she’s questioning if she went too far. Was this young woman justified in her actions, or did she cross a line? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Daughter rightfully excludes toxic mom from move-in day. NTA

NTA. Daughter deserves support beyond social media moments. Stay strong

Excluded from daughter’s new family, mom faces consequences. NTA ❤️

Supportive commenters agree: NTA, move-in day is about you

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day, commenter supports decision.

Former college advisor offers support and advice to excluded daughter.

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day, but can relationship recover?

Money talks: Mom prioritizes Ryan over daughter’s feelings

Supportive mom offers sympathy and advice to excluded daughter

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day, but seeks reconciliation. NTA

Daughter justifies excluding mom from move-in day. ‍♀️

Daughter rightfully excludes mom from move-in day, NTA

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day, commenters support decision.

Mother’s neglect or daughter’s omission? Commenter offers advice and support

Mom fails to act like an NTA, loses benefits

Daughter stands up to entitled mom. NTA wins with epic response.

Mom gets benched for not being a team player.

Setting boundaries with toxic family members is important

OP tried talking to her mom about exclusion, but no change. Others agree mom is awful for not seeing it herself. ‍♀️

NTA. Neglectful parenting can have lifelong effects.

Daughter stands up to neglectful mom on move-in day

Daughter excludes mom from move-in day, commenters side with daughter.

Daughter rightfully excludes mom, who chose husband’s family over her.

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day, but finds support.

Daughter neglects mom’s feelings, faces consequences. NTA

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s mom, but acknowledges her choices.

Daughter excludes mom: justified or hypocritical? NTA wins.

Commenter receives validation for their actions.

Daughter excluded mom, comment advises on reconciliation timeline and boundaries.

Move-in day is a huge deal emotionally, and you’re NTA

Commenter sympathizes with exclusion, declares not the a**hole.

Linking post to mom for empathy

NTA reminds mom that daughter is not her child

College move-in day brings up painful family drama. NTA.

Supportive comment receives no replies. NTA wins this round

NTA stands up for themselves against exclusion from family drama.

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day. NTA, enjoy college

Mom gets called out on her BS, but is NTA

Mom chooses boyfriend over daughter, gets upset when excluded

Sibling solidarity against toxic mom, NTA. Good luck

Commenter defends someone’s actions and approves of their decision.

Daughter excludes mom, commenter says she failed in her duty

Empathetic comment supports daughter’s decision to exclude emotionally abusive mom.

Setting boundaries with family can be tough.

NTA. Setting boundaries and hoping for a positive change

Empathetic comment encourages reflection and growth

Supportive comment encourages enjoying campus life despite family drama

Karma strikes: Daughter excludes mom on move-in day. NTA.

Daughter explains mom’s mistake and how it affected her.

Putting a dick before your child? NTA’s advice for OP.

Starting college without mom: commenter supports daughter’s decision.

Daughter asserts independence, commenters support her decision.

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day, commenters side with daughter

Daughter cuts off mom for enabling brother’s bad behavior. NTA

Supportive comment calls out mom’s behavior, suggests sharing post.

Mother’s exclusion leads to daughter’s justified move-in day drama

NTA stands up to family’s mistreatment during college move-in day

Daughter excludes mom on move-in day, commenters say NTA

Commenter supports OP, condemns mom and stepdad’s behavior.

Excluded mom gets support, good riddance to toxic family

Harsh but fair judgement, NTA. Tough love prevails

NTA. Glad your dad helped. Enjoy school, hope mom reflects

Daughter stands up to cruel treatment from stepfamily. NTA.

Standing up to neglectful parents: NTA for excluding mom

Commenter supports daughter’s decision to exclude mom, cites past behavior.

Daughter excluded mom, but comment recommends mental health services. NTA.

Daughter excludes mom from move-in day, commenters support decision.

Daughter’s exclusion of mother sparks emotional NTA comment thread

Supportive comment offers love and advice to OP ❤️