We’ve all had our fair share of relationship drama, but this one takes the cake! A girlfriend finds herself in a tough spot after her boyfriend criticizes her grunge style and weight. She’s had enough and calls him out on his superficial behavior, but he claims she’s just being hormonal. Is she overreacting or is her boyfriend really crossing the line? Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions and find out!
The Grunge Style Drama

First Incident

Her Defense

His Counter-Argument

Accusations of Lying

The Weight Issue

His Accusation

The Real Reason?

Her Reaction

Unsatisfied with Apology

Eating Too Much?

Denial and Accusations

Calling Him Out

Superficial Boyfriend or Hormonal Girlfriend? ♀️
This poor girlfriend has had enough of her boyfriend’s superficial comments about her grunge style and weight. She’s called him out on his behavior, but he insists she’s just being hormonal. From accusing her of dressing like a ‘slob’ to saying he doesn’t want to ‘f**k a skeleton,’ this boyfriend’s comments have left her feeling hurt and confused. Is she overreacting or is her boyfriend really in the wrong? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Gaslighting, emotional abuse, and insults. Break up for your sake.

Commenter defends OP against emotionally abusive boyfriend, using personal experience.

Supportive comment calls out abusive behavior, encourages leaving.

Partner’s constant criticism is unacceptable. NTA for standing up.

Commenter calls out boyfriend’s hypocrisy and body shaming.

Dump the guy – Redditors offer to do it for her

Commenter defends OP, calls out boyfriend as the a**hole.

Commenter sympathizes with girlfriend, suggests dumping the a**hole boyfriend.

Recognize the red flags of abuse and leave him. NTA

Toxic boyfriend called out, commenter recommends cutting ties.

Commenter calls out boyfriend for abusive behavior.

Supportive comment advises to leave toxic relationship.

Short and not so sweet.
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NTA comment prompts concern for relationship
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Get out before he causes more emotional damage.

Leave him! You deserve better. NTA.

Dump the toxic girlfriend and find someone who loves you

Encouraging reply to relationship advice with empowering message.

Commenter calls out gaslighting and advises to dump the boyfriend

Emotional abuse alert! NTA, get out while you can.

Dump him! NTA, he’s negging and gaslighting you.

Partner’s gaslighting and body shaming behavior is unacceptable

Toxic boyfriend tries to change her, commenters urge to leave

Curious why the commenter thinks the girlfriend should leave.

Commenter questions why girlfriend is with unsupportive boyfriend

Dump the boyfriend! Commenter supports OP’s decision.

Escape the toxicity NTA comment suggests leaving

Don’t let him make you doubt yourself. You’re NTA

Red flag alert! NTA commenter advises to leave toxic partner.

NTA comment reveals concerning behavior from partner.

Toxic boyfriend criticized girlfriend’s weight and style. NTA.

Empathetic reply encourages self-worth and standing up to gaslighting.

NTA comment warns of abusive relationship, urges leaving.

Sarcastic comment sparks age clarification in witty exchange

Red flags in relationship, advice to break up.

Commenter warns of narcissistic behavior and predicts a bad ending
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Supportive comment urges OP to dump gaslighting boyfriend

Ex-boyfriend plays mind games, commenter is NTA.

Supportive comment warns of abusive behavior, urges reconsideration.

Commenter warns of potential abuse and advises leaving boyfriend.

Commenter’s clear and concise advice: dump his a**

Dump the toxic boyfriend and be a sweet baby angel

Dump the gaslighting boyfriend for your mental health

Standing up to emotional abuse. You go, NTA!

Dump the gaslighter! NTA for recognizing the red flags.

Dump him! Emotional abuse is never okay.
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Take control and walk away from abusive relationships.

Encouraging response to abusive relationship, urging to leave.

Encouraging support for someone in an abusive relationship.

Encouraging response to a terrible situation.

Dump the Motherf***er already! Gaslighting and body shaming are red flags for abuse.

Short and sweet: NTA – dump him!

Supportive comment on partner’s appearance with a firm stance.

Commenter warns of potential abuse in controlling relationship

Red flag alert! Commenter warns about future with insensitive partner.

Commenter advises to run away from toxic relationship

Dump the boyfriend, she’s NTA for being insulted.

Run, girl, run! Gaslighting is not okay.

Encouraging reply to a post about a toxic relationship.

Escape the abuse! NTA, trust your gut and leave

Don’t let him gaslight you! Trust your gut, NTA.

Supportive comment encourages leaving toxic partner.

NTA comment calls out emotional abuse and suggests yeeting the boy.

Empowering response to toxic relationship.

Commenter supports OP and calls out gaslighting.

Encouraging support for a victim of emotional abuse.

Strong response to toxic behavior, with a touch of profanity

Serious warning against gaslighting and abuse. Leave the relationship

Heartbreaking abuse story with a hopeful ending.

Red flags are flying! NTA, run from gaslighting and grooming
