Family bonds can be complex, and sometimes, they can be strained to the point of breaking. One sister found herself in a heart-wrenching situation when her once-close brother started dating a woman named Sarah. Their relationship took a turn for the worse, and now, she’s questioning whether she should attend his wedding. With a history of being excluded and mistreated, is she the a**hole for not going? Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster.
Once Close Siblings

The Sarah Effect

Condescending Conversations

Brother’s Betrayal

Engagement Announcement

Left Out at Work

Social Media Snub

Mental Breakdown

Brother’s Invasion

Blackmail and Betrayal

Wedding Roles for Everyone but Her

No Invitation, No Problem?

Birthday Blues

To Go or Not to Go?

Is She the A**hole for Skipping the Wedding? ♀️
This sister’s story is a whirlwind of family drama, betrayal, and heartache. From being excluded from her brother’s engagement announcement to not receiving a wedding invitation, she’s been left feeling hurt and abandoned. With her birthday forever overshadowed by her brother’s wedding anniversary, she wonders if she’s the a**hole for not attending the wedding. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotional dilemma.
Sister advised to prioritize mental health and cut off toxic family.

NTA for not going to brother’s wedding after being asked to buy expensive shoes as a gift, despite not being invited. Commenters suggest alternative gifts and self-care.

Blackmail and a sudden change in behavior, something doesn’t add up

Skipping the wedding and gift? Not the a**hole move.

NTA but the story seems vague and confusing

The comment section is divided on the truth of the story

What’s the missing piece?

Brother cuts sister out of his life, NTA for not going

Commenter suggests therapy to address underlying issues and missing context.

Family expects her to go to wedding she’s not invited to

Commenter questions why anyone would want to attend brother’s wedding

Curious commenter seeks more details on brother’s wedding snub.
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Commenter doubts the truthfulness of the sister’s story

Supportive comment advocates for leaving toxic family members.

Commenter criticized for lack of empathy, missing information.

Not invited to brother’s wedding, NTA but still hurt

Commenter sympathizes with OP and welcomes them into their own family

Cutting toxic family ties

Skipping brother’s wedding: NTA, why bother if not invited?

Sister stands up for herself and her privacy.

Family drama, NTA refuses invite to brother’s wedding.

Brother’s wedding snub: NTA for not attending

Why is she even questioning if she’s TA?

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings and suggests self-care on birthday.

Celebrate your birthday with friends and cut out toxic family

Sibling drama and mental health struggles.

OP feels unsupported by family in brother’s wedding drama

OP is NTA for not attending brother’s wedding due to bullying.

Commenter is NTA according to limited information

Sarah empathizes with the sister and advises her to prioritize self-care.

Family love and acceptance wins! Come celebrate Thanksgiving with us!

Did she really snub him if she wasn’t invited?

Blackmail, betrayal, and cat theft: a wild ride in the comments.
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Encouraging seeking help for emotional well-being

Uninvited, but expected to attend? That’s a**hole move

Updates on the wedding drama and family dynamics

Heartfelt support for sibling excluded from brother’s wedding

Walk away with dignity and go no contact.

Choosing the high road after being snubbed at a wedding.

Sister chooses to send a letter as a gift instead. NTA.

Lost invite or not, brother and Sarah still expect attendance.

Toxic family drama? NTA for skipping brother’s wedding

Don’t go or give a fiery speech? NTA burned bridges.

Commenter suspects OP is withholding information about sibling conflict

No invite, no attendance. NTA for sister’s wedding absence
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Communication is key Try talking to him one-on-one.

Invitation not a summons. Taking a break may help mental health

Sister not invited to brother’s wedding? NTA has the perfect excuse

Family should be ashamed for allowing brother’s mistreatment. NTA

Birthday plans > Brother’s wedding. NTA

Treat yourself and don’t go. NTA

Rejected sister speaks out against abusive brother and his wife.
