Sister Snubbed by Brother's Wedding: Is She the A**hole for Not Going? 😲

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Diply | Diply

Family bonds can be complex, and sometimes, they can be strained to the point of breaking. One sister found herself in a heart-wrenching situation when her once-close brother started dating a woman named Sarah. Their relationship took a turn for the worse, and now, she's questioning whether she should attend his wedding. With a history of being excluded and mistreated, is she the a**hole for not going? Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster. 😢💔

Once Close Siblings 💕

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

The Sarah Effect 😒

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Condescending Conversations 🙄

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Brother's Betrayal 😠

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Engagement Announcement 🎉

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Left Out at Work 😞

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Social Media Snub 📱

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Mental Breakdown 💔

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Brother's Invasion 😡

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Blackmail and Betrayal 😱

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Wedding Roles for Everyone but Her 🤷

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

No Invitation, No Problem? 💌

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Birthday Blues 🎂

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

To Go or Not to Go? 🤔

itsawitchthing1 | itsawitchthing1

Is She the A**hole for Skipping the Wedding? 🤷‍♀️

This sister's story is a whirlwind of family drama, betrayal, and heartache. From being excluded from her brother's engagement announcement to not receiving a wedding invitation, she's been left feeling hurt and abandoned. With her birthday forever overshadowed by her brother's wedding anniversary, she wonders if she's the a**hole for not attending the wedding. Let's see what the internet has to say about this emotional dilemma. 💔🎂

Sister advised to prioritize mental health and cut off toxic family.

Upper_Potato_4894 | Upper_Potato_4894

NTA for not going to brother's wedding after being asked to buy expensive shoes as a gift, despite not being invited. Commenters suggest alternative gifts and self-care.

ItsAWitchThing1 | ItsAWitchThing1

Blackmail and a sudden change in behavior, something doesn't add up 🤔

EleanorOfAquitaine- | EleanorOfAquitaine-

Skipping the wedding and gift? Not the a**hole move. 😊

milee30 | milee30

NTA but the story seems vague and confusing 🤔

CLiberte | CLiberte

The comment section is divided on the truth of the story 🤔

librarytower | librarytower

What's the missing piece? 🤔

Seraph_Malakai | Seraph_Malakai

Brother cuts sister out of his life, NTA for not going 👍

LonelyTrack6 | LonelyTrack6

Commenter suggests therapy to address underlying issues and missing context.

Idejbfp | Idejbfp

Family expects her to go to wedding she's not invited to 💔

curiousbelgian | curiousbelgian

Commenter questions why anyone would want to attend brother's wedding

BetoideaeUrsidaeBSG | BetoideaeUrsidaeBSG

Curious commenter seeks more details on brother's wedding snub.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter doubts the truthfulness of the sister's story 🤔

jamespwpwls | jamespwpwls

Supportive comment advocates for leaving toxic family members. 👏

GothSpite | GothSpite

Commenter criticized for lack of empathy, missing information. 🤔

Krraaazzy | Krraaazzy

Not invited to brother's wedding, NTA but still hurt 😢

bubblesthehorse | bubblesthehorse

Commenter sympathizes with OP and welcomes them into their own family

MidgeMoee | MidgeMoee

Cutting toxic family ties 💯

mextrawork | mextrawork

Skipping brother's wedding: NTA, why bother if not invited? 😎

Sfb208 | Sfb208

Sister stands up for herself and her privacy. 😎

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Family drama, NTA refuses invite to brother's wedding. 🙌

Cautious_Actuator432 | Cautious_Actuator432

Brother's wedding snub: NTA for not attending 😊

foxtailavenger | foxtailavenger

Why is she even questioning if she's TA? 🙄

Happy_furMa | Happy_furMa

Supportive comment validates OP's feelings and suggests self-care on birthday.

vandersam | vandersam

Celebrate your birthday with friends and cut out toxic family 👏

InternationalDivide0 | InternationalDivide0

Sibling drama and mental health struggles. 🤔

NeverRarelySometimes | NeverRarelySometimes

OP feels unsupported by family in brother's wedding drama 😞

florida_born | florida_born

OP is NTA for not attending brother's wedding due to bullying.

pokegirl395 | pokegirl395

Commenter is NTA according to limited information 🤔

glaive1976 | glaive1976

Sarah empathizes with the sister and advises her to prioritize self-care.

unitofhappiness | unitofhappiness

Family love and acceptance wins! Come celebrate Thanksgiving with us! 🎉😊

Tecknosilk | Tecknosilk

Did she really snub him if she wasn't invited? 🤔

drapehsnormak | drapehsnormak

Blackmail, betrayal, and cat theft: a wild ride in the comments. 🤯

[deleted] | [deleted]

Encouraging seeking help for emotional well-being 💪

crisaron | crisaron

Uninvited, but expected to attend? That's a**hole move 😑

BoredoutofmymindinCA | BoredoutofmymindinCA

Updates on the wedding drama and family dynamics 🤔

yingyangggggg | yingyangggggg

Heartfelt support for sibling excluded from brother's wedding 😢

MrLeopard25 | MrLeopard25

Walk away with dignity and go no contact. 💯

SprSnkySnickerdoodle | SprSnkySnickerdoodle

Choosing the high road after being snubbed at a wedding. 🙌

WitchofKarma | WitchofKarma

Sister chooses to send a letter as a gift instead. NTA.

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

Lost invite or not, brother and Sarah still expect attendance. 🤔

Lameador | Lameador

Toxic family drama? NTA for skipping brother's wedding 😍

Livvylove | Livvylove

Don't go or give a fiery speech? NTA burned bridges.

anonanondoot | anonanondoot

Commenter suspects OP is withholding information about sibling conflict 🤔

CartlinK | CartlinK

No invite, no attendance. NTA for sister's wedding absence 😊

[deleted] | [deleted]

Communication is key 📡 Try talking to him one-on-one.

LucyLovesApples | LucyLovesApples

Invitation not a summons. Taking a break may help mental health 🙏

Xgirly789 | Xgirly789

Sister not invited to brother's wedding? NTA has the perfect excuse 🎂

Dana07620 | Dana07620

Family should be ashamed for allowing brother's mistreatment. NTA 👍

cocoagiant | cocoagiant

Birthday plans > Brother's wedding. NTA 😎

Lilitu9Tails | Lilitu9Tails

Treat yourself and don't go. NTA 😊

butterinthegarden | butterinthegarden

Rejected sister speaks out against abusive brother and his wife. 🤯

IsThisRealLife201520 | IsThisRealLife201520

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