Man Refuses to Chauffeur GF After She Loses License 🚗😱 Find Out Why!

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Diply | Diply

Imagine being in a terrible car accident at the age of 14 and spending nearly a month in the hospital recovering. The trauma leaves you with an intense fear of driving, and you've managed to build a life around walking everywhere. Now, your girlfriend of five years loses her license and demands you face your fears and drive her around. What would you do? 🤔💔

The Accident That Changed Everything

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

A Life Built Around Walking

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

GF's Persistence on Driving

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

Years of Arguments

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

A Night Out with Friends

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

GF's Drinking and Driving

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

Losing Her License

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

The Ultimatum

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

Facing His Fears

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

GF's New Expectations

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

Standing His Ground

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

Walking: A Solution

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

GF's Anger

ywisjoe | ywisjoe

Fearful Driver vs. Demanding GF: Who's in the Wrong? 🚶‍♂️🚗

After a life-altering car accident, our protagonist has built a life around walking everywhere. His girlfriend, however, loses her license and demands he face his fears and drive her around. He stands his ground, reminding her that everything is within walking distance, just like he's been doing for years. Now, she's furious and badmouthing him to everyone. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💬

NTA. Commenters advise leaving entitled and blaming girlfriend. Therapy recommended.

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NTA refuses to chauffeur GF who got DUI. Commenters agree.

AholeFan | AholeFan

Commenter gives NTA judgement and drops a mic 🚩

Remarkable-Army7731 | Remarkable-Army7731

NTA's gf is immature and manipulative 🤷‍♂️

Schweinehaufen | Schweinehaufen

NTA. GF pressures traumatized partner to drive, drinks and argues. 😱

Lil_Floofy | Lil_Floofy

NTA - Ditch her, she's manipulative as f**k 💯

[deleted] | [deleted]

Why is OP still with her? 🤔 Replies suggest a bad relationship.

hmo_ | hmo_

NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after her DUI 🙌

J412h | J412h

Commenter advises dumping girlfriend due to her behavior.

tailofthecrackfox | tailofthecrackfox

NTA for not chauffeuring GF who lost license due to DUI 🚩

thedailyguilt | thedailyguilt

NTA and she sounds TERRIBLE. Consider carefully staying with her 😱

mckinnos | mckinnos

NTA. Being afraid of driving can lead to dangerous situations 🚨

Rsiw | Rsiw

Commenter advises OP to seek therapy and conquer fear. 👍

kill4kandy | kill4kandy

Commenter questions why man stays with irresponsible girlfriend 💎

riley125 | riley125

Stand your ground and let her face the consequences 💪

lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86

NTA points out GF's recklessness and suggests reconsidering relationship 🤔

Jelly-Bean00 | Jelly-Bean00

Traumatized commenter receives NTA judgement for refusing to drive girlfriend.

KaliTheBlaze | KaliTheBlaze

Commenter calls out OP and curses in disapproval.

cloudstrifeuk | cloudstrifeuk

Curious about the impact of GF's license loss on relationship 🤔

Winter55555 | Winter55555

Commenter calls out OP for staying with GF for license.

thiagnascsilva | thiagnascsilva

Commenter supports OP's decision and uses caution emoji.

the_sanguine_guy | the_sanguine_guy

Therapy can help conquer fears and find healthy relationships. 👍

PearlClutchingNinny | PearlClutchingNinny

Setting boundaries and facing fears. Valid concerns about relationship.

DrVerryBerry | DrVerryBerry

Dump her! 🚫 NTA refuses to chauffeur unpleasant GF.

Moggetti | Moggetti

"Bye" 👋 GF gives ultimatum, BF calls her bluff 😉

swordrat720 | swordrat720

Break up with ultimatum-giving GF to avoid manipulation 👍

LonelyDodo__ | LonelyDodo__

NTA. She's a leech who emotionally abuses you. Time to let go. 👋

lyanx123 | lyanx123

🚫👩‍🦱🚗 NTA: Immature, irresponsible, and manipulative. Red flags everywhere.

RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari

NTA. Having a license is handy, she needs to grow up 😊

tnscatterbrain | tnscatterbrain

User questions if girlfriend had been driving them around before, potential ESH.

nearlyanadult | nearlyanadult

🚩 Beware of the red flags, NTA has a point.

bowtothehypnotoad | bowtothehypnotoad

NTA. Commenter points out controlling, dangerous, and manipulative behavior.

SnakesCantWearPants | SnakesCantWearPants

Questioning the validity of the girlfriend's license 🤔

seabearcr | seabearcr

Curious commenter asks about license acquisition 🤔

pgp555 | pgp555

🤔 Ouch! Harsh comment, but is there truth to it?

elithira | elithira

NTA stands firm against GF's DUI consequences 🙌

SkittishWombat | SkittishWombat

Offering to drive is a good gesture 😊

Tiger1833 | Tiger1833

Overcoming trauma before driving is important 🙌

bornatsea | bornatsea

Dump the blame gamer. She's not worth the effort 💯

Little-bit_ | Little-bit_

NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF who lost license 🚗😱

Avebury1 | Avebury1

NTA comment: Taking out the trash, but it's still stinking 🤬

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after she lost license 🚫🚗

monatsiya | monatsiya

NTA for not chauffeuring, but why stay with an abuser? 😩

tenesmicdemon | tenesmicdemon

Dump her and get therapy. NTA 👍🏻

catzrob89 | catzrob89

🚩 Consider leaving: commenter advises after partner's license loss

themeatincident | themeatincident

NTA stands strong against psycho GF, therapy recommended for OP

Middlemeow | Middlemeow

NTA for not driving if you don't feel safe 👏

ProudBoomer | ProudBoomer

Boyfriend or Uber driver? 🤔

jolovesmustard | jolovesmustard

Traumatized man not at fault for refusing reckless girlfriend 😍

YMaedchen | YMaedchen

Commenter sympathizes with OP but advises therapy for PTSD. 💆‍♂️

Current_Watercress68 | Current_Watercress68

NTA. Let her go 👋🏻, don't chauffeur her 🚗

SilverPhoenix2513 | SilverPhoenix2513

Support for refusing to chauffeur drunk driver girlfriend 👍

ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134

NTA, therapy may help overcome fear of driving. GF may not be supportive 👍

Hiragirin | Hiragirin

Overcoming driving anxiety after an accident. NTA for leaving.

cammarinne | cammarinne

NTA, prioritize your well-being and seek therapy for PTSD 🙌

Yacatecuhtli | Yacatecuhtli

NTA who suffered trauma, pressured to get license, dumps selfish GF 💯

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dump her or accept mistreatment? Tough love in the comments 👏


Commenter supports OP and suggests therapy for driving anxiety. 👍

ImReallyNotKarl | ImReallyNotKarl

Choosing not to be a chauffeur is a personal choice 👍

allUserUsed1912 | allUserUsed1912

NTA, quick exit strategy recommended 🙋🏻🙋🏻

talithar1 | talithar1

Short and to the point. 😂

jimedrz | jimedrz

NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after she lost license 🙌. Driving is scary and her behavior is unacceptable 😑

Thin-Variation-4157 | Thin-Variation-4157

Savage! A clear message from this NTA comment.

gringaellie | gringaellie

Overcoming driving anxiety takes time and therapy, not nagging 💪

rgbrepost | rgbrepost

Dump the toxic girlfriend and move on. NTA 👍

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

Overcoming trauma and standing up for yourself in toxic relationships 💪🏻

tocaaml | tocaaml

NTA refuses to chauffeur GF after DUI, sparks debate 🤔

PasDeTout | PasDeTout

Commenter defends man's decision, calls girlfriend a 'nightmare' 😱

UnicornCackle | UnicornCackle

Commenter advises leaving toxic relationship with strong language 💔🚫

whateverisnttaken22 | whateverisnttaken22

Questioning the relationship status 😔

princesspaisa | princesspaisa

🤔 Think twice before committing to someone who lacks empathy.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dump her! 🚫 You're NTA for prioritizing your needs.

[deleted] | [deleted]

🚩 NTA sees red flags in this license loss situation.

sophia_but_better | sophia_but_better

Refusing to chauffeur partner after license loss is justified. 👍

bobbelcherskid | bobbelcherskid

Dump her 👋, she's manipulative and doesn't care. NTA

flyingfluffles | flyingfluffles

Find someone who actually likes and respects you 👫💛

idrow1 | idrow1

NTA stands up to controlling GF, internet applauds 👏

sorrygirl818 | sorrygirl818

Overcoming trauma is hard, GF should respect OP's decision. 🙏

Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil

NTA dude, confront her about her spoiled nature and manipulative tactics 👍

ohmoimarie | ohmoimarie

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