Imagine being in a terrible car accident at the age of 14 and spending nearly a month in the hospital recovering. The trauma leaves you with an intense fear of driving, and you've managed to build a life around walking everywhere. Now, your girlfriend of five years loses her license and demands you face your fears and drive her around. What would you do? 🤔💔
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After a life-altering car accident, our protagonist has built a life around walking everywhere. His girlfriend, however, loses her license and demands he face his fears and drive her around. He stands his ground, reminding her that everything is within walking distance, just like he's been doing for years. Now, she's furious and badmouthing him to everyone. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💬
NTA. Commenters advise leaving entitled and blaming girlfriend. Therapy recommended.
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NTA refuses to chauffeur GF who got DUI. Commenters agree.
AholeFan | AholeFan
Commenter gives NTA judgement and drops a mic 🚩
Remarkable-Army7731 | Remarkable-Army7731
NTA's gf is immature and manipulative 🤷♂️
Schweinehaufen | Schweinehaufen
NTA. GF pressures traumatized partner to drive, drinks and argues. 😱
Lil_Floofy | Lil_Floofy
NTA - Ditch her, she's manipulative as f**k 💯
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Why is OP still with her? 🤔 Replies suggest a bad relationship.
hmo_ | hmo_
NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after her DUI 🙌
J412h | J412h
Commenter advises dumping girlfriend due to her behavior.
tailofthecrackfox | tailofthecrackfox
NTA for not chauffeuring GF who lost license due to DUI 🚩
thedailyguilt | thedailyguilt
NTA and she sounds TERRIBLE. Consider carefully staying with her 😱
mckinnos | mckinnos
NTA. Being afraid of driving can lead to dangerous situations 🚨
Rsiw | Rsiw
Commenter advises OP to seek therapy and conquer fear. 👍
kill4kandy | kill4kandy
Commenter questions why man stays with irresponsible girlfriend 💎
riley125 | riley125
Stand your ground and let her face the consequences 💪
lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86
NTA points out GF's recklessness and suggests reconsidering relationship 🤔
Jelly-Bean00 | Jelly-Bean00
Traumatized commenter receives NTA judgement for refusing to drive girlfriend.
KaliTheBlaze | KaliTheBlaze
Commenter calls out OP and curses in disapproval.
cloudstrifeuk | cloudstrifeuk
Curious about the impact of GF's license loss on relationship 🤔
Winter55555 | Winter55555
Commenter calls out OP for staying with GF for license.
thiagnascsilva | thiagnascsilva
Commenter supports OP's decision and uses caution emoji.
the_sanguine_guy | the_sanguine_guy
Therapy can help conquer fears and find healthy relationships. 👍
PearlClutchingNinny | PearlClutchingNinny
Setting boundaries and facing fears. Valid concerns about relationship.
DrVerryBerry | DrVerryBerry
Dump her! 🚫 NTA refuses to chauffeur unpleasant GF.
Moggetti | Moggetti
"Bye" 👋 GF gives ultimatum, BF calls her bluff 😉
swordrat720 | swordrat720
Break up with ultimatum-giving GF to avoid manipulation 👍
LonelyDodo__ | LonelyDodo__
NTA. She's a leech who emotionally abuses you. Time to let go. 👋
lyanx123 | lyanx123
🚫👩🦱🚗 NTA: Immature, irresponsible, and manipulative. Red flags everywhere.
RollingKatamari | RollingKatamari
NTA. Having a license is handy, she needs to grow up 😊
tnscatterbrain | tnscatterbrain
User questions if girlfriend had been driving them around before, potential ESH.
nearlyanadult | nearlyanadult
🚩 Beware of the red flags, NTA has a point.
bowtothehypnotoad | bowtothehypnotoad
NTA. Commenter points out controlling, dangerous, and manipulative behavior.
SnakesCantWearPants | SnakesCantWearPants
Questioning the validity of the girlfriend's license 🤔
seabearcr | seabearcr
Curious commenter asks about license acquisition 🤔
pgp555 | pgp555
🤔 Ouch! Harsh comment, but is there truth to it?
elithira | elithira
NTA stands firm against GF's DUI consequences 🙌
SkittishWombat | SkittishWombat
Offering to drive is a good gesture 😊
Tiger1833 | Tiger1833
Overcoming trauma before driving is important 🙌
bornatsea | bornatsea
Dump the blame gamer. She's not worth the effort 💯
Little-bit_ | Little-bit_
NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF who lost license 🚗😱
Avebury1 | Avebury1
NTA comment: Taking out the trash, but it's still stinking 🤬
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NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after she lost license 🚫🚗
monatsiya | monatsiya
NTA for not chauffeuring, but why stay with an abuser? 😩
tenesmicdemon | tenesmicdemon
Dump her and get therapy. NTA 👍🏻
catzrob89 | catzrob89
🚩 Consider leaving: commenter advises after partner's license loss
themeatincident | themeatincident
NTA stands strong against psycho GF, therapy recommended for OP
Middlemeow | Middlemeow
NTA for not driving if you don't feel safe 👏
ProudBoomer | ProudBoomer
Boyfriend or Uber driver? 🤔
jolovesmustard | jolovesmustard
Traumatized man not at fault for refusing reckless girlfriend 😍
YMaedchen | YMaedchen
Commenter sympathizes with OP but advises therapy for PTSD. 💆♂️
Current_Watercress68 | Current_Watercress68
NTA. Let her go 👋🏻, don't chauffeur her 🚗
SilverPhoenix2513 | SilverPhoenix2513
Support for refusing to chauffeur drunk driver girlfriend 👍
ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134
NTA, therapy may help overcome fear of driving. GF may not be supportive 👍
Hiragirin | Hiragirin
Overcoming driving anxiety after an accident. NTA for leaving.
cammarinne | cammarinne
NTA, prioritize your well-being and seek therapy for PTSD 🙌
Yacatecuhtli | Yacatecuhtli
NTA who suffered trauma, pressured to get license, dumps selfish GF 💯
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Dump her or accept mistreatment? Tough love in the comments 👏
LZRDZ | LZRDZ
Commenter supports OP and suggests therapy for driving anxiety. 👍
ImReallyNotKarl | ImReallyNotKarl
Choosing not to be a chauffeur is a personal choice 👍
allUserUsed1912 | allUserUsed1912
NTA, quick exit strategy recommended 🙋🏻🙋🏻
talithar1 | talithar1
Short and to the point. 😂
jimedrz | jimedrz
NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after she lost license 🙌. Driving is scary and her behavior is unacceptable 😑
Thin-Variation-4157 | Thin-Variation-4157
Savage! A clear message from this NTA comment.
gringaellie | gringaellie
Overcoming driving anxiety takes time and therapy, not nagging 💪
rgbrepost | rgbrepost
Dump the toxic girlfriend and move on. NTA 👍
the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope
Overcoming trauma and standing up for yourself in toxic relationships 💪🏻
tocaaml | tocaaml
NTA refuses to chauffeur GF after DUI, sparks debate 🤔
PasDeTout | PasDeTout
Commenter defends man's decision, calls girlfriend a 'nightmare' 😱
UnicornCackle | UnicornCackle
Commenter advises leaving toxic relationship with strong language 💔🚫
whateverisnttaken22 | whateverisnttaken22
Questioning the relationship status 😔
princesspaisa | princesspaisa
🤔 Think twice before committing to someone who lacks empathy.
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Dump her! 🚫 You're NTA for prioritizing your needs.
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🚩 NTA sees red flags in this license loss situation.
sophia_but_better | sophia_but_better
Refusing to chauffeur partner after license loss is justified. 👍
bobbelcherskid | bobbelcherskid
Dump her 👋, she's manipulative and doesn't care. NTA
flyingfluffles | flyingfluffles
Find someone who actually likes and respects you 👫💛
idrow1 | idrow1
NTA stands up to controlling GF, internet applauds 👏
sorrygirl818 | sorrygirl818
Overcoming trauma is hard, GF should respect OP's decision. 🙏
Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil
NTA dude, confront her about her spoiled nature and manipulative tactics 👍
ohmoimarie | ohmoimarie
