Picture this: your fiancé's job requires you to attend numerous social events, and each one comes with a dress code. You're not one for dressing up, but you go along with it, spending all your disposable income on new outfits, accessories, and salon appointments. One day, you muster up the courage to ask your fiancé to help cover the costs. Is that too much to ask? One woman found herself in this exact situation, and the internet is buzzing with opinions. 🐝💬
Woman Demands Fiancé Pay for Her Outfits for His Work Events: Fair or Foul? 🤔💸
Diply | Diply
The Monthly Dress Code Dilemma 👗
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The Embarrassing Moment 😳
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Fiancé's Reaction 🤨
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Financial Struggles 💸
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The Cost of Keeping Up Appearances 💰
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The Salon Appointments 💅
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Fiancé's Request 🙏
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The High Price of Attendance 🏷️
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The Confrontation 🗣️
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Her Proposal 💡
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His Response 🤔
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Her Ultimatum ⚖️
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Update: New Agreement 📝
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Clothing Rental Considerations 🔄
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A Final Plea 🙏
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A New Agreement Reached, but the Debate Continues 📜🗣️
After confronting her fiancé about the financial burden of attending his work events, the couple reached a new agreement: he will cover the costs of her outfits and salon appointments for his work events. Despite this resolution, the internet is still abuzz with opinions on whether her initial request was fair or not. Some suggest exploring clothing rental services, while others urge her to reconsider the relationship altogether. But she's standing her ground, asking everyone to kindly chill. 😌✋
Commenters discuss the absurdity of spending on work events.
kittybarofskee | kittybarofskee
Fiancé should pay for work events outfits, NTA. Passes offered.
Psykopatate | Psykopatate
Engaging idea: Rent the Runway for work event outfits! 👍
1_Justbreakup | 1_Justbreakup
Gender double standards in fashion? NTA comment sparks discussion.
Phy44 | Phy44
Rent the Runway and Girl Meets Dress offer dress rental options 👍
WorkingMomAndWife | WorkingMomAndWife
Fiancé requiring new outfits? NTA for demanding him to pay 💰
DarkMaidenOz | DarkMaidenOz
Fiancé should pay for outfits, but is it a red flag? 🤔
mr112233 | mr112233
Suggestion to stop going to events and use Rent The Runway.
Queenofthedumb | Queenofthedumb
Fiancé's work events causing fashion nightmare. NTA suggests work expense.
EBlackR | EBlackR
Commenter calls out everyone in the story and beyond. 🤷♂️
OrbFromOnline | OrbFromOnline
Commenter calls out dysfunctional wardrobe agreement and bizarre situation 🤔
apathyontheeast | apathyontheeast
Renting dresses or buying second-hand is a fair alternative. NTA
OccasionalGeyser | OccasionalGeyser
Spendthrift fiancée gets budget advice from commenter 💰💄
ItsTheBroski | ItsTheBroski
Demanding fiancé to pay for work event outfits: fair or foul? 💰
metalheadsrock01 | metalheadsrock01
Fiancé wants her to dress up for work events. Is it fair?
mm172 | mm172
Re-wearing outfits is fine, demanding payment is weird. NTA. 😐
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Wearing the same shoes to work events? A blessing in disguise! 😊
ductoid | ductoid
Commenter questions fiancé's job, receives sassy reply. 🤣
Velvet_Unicorn2154 | Velvet_Unicorn2154
Save money and hire a dress or wear the same one? NTA.
maartenmeyering | maartenmeyering
Fiancé demanding expensive outfits for work events - NTA but everyone sucks
solemnlyplod | solemnlyplod
NTA thinks spending money on outfits for work events is wasteful 👍
HellaHighAtHogwarts | HellaHighAtHogwarts
Demanding partner wants her to dress up for work events. NTA.
everynameistaken000 | everynameistaken000
Sustainable fashion advice sparks debate in comment section. 🌐
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Fiancé should pay for outfits as it's for HIS career 💸
Jackniferuby | Jackniferuby
Supporting each other within means is fair. Don't feel indebted.
Darklyte | Darklyte
Commenter questions relationship dynamics and supports NTA verdict.
shakeywasher | shakeywasher
Fiancé should pay for work event outfits. #FairNTA 💰
thicklover | thicklover
Is the fiance putting on airs? Commenter questions bride's demands 🤔
mandawritesthings | mandawritesthings
NTA, but maybe try rotating outfits to avoid waste. 💫
albinoraisin | albinoraisin
Couple has 3 passes per year to skip each other's events 👍
thedandydufresne | thedandydufresne
NTA for asking fiancé to pay for work event outfits 💄💰
jayne_snow | jayne_snow
Engaging with the boss's wife seems to be the real problem 🤔
proteins911 | proteins911
Discussing finances before marriage is crucial for a successful relationship 💰
freecain | freecain
Renting a dress is a great alternative! 👍
Sophi1602 | Sophi1602
Fiancé's work events demand expensive outfits. NTA suggests he pays.
Petrodono | Petrodono
Male perspective on wearing the same dress twice to work events 👍
Elhmok | Elhmok
Commenter dismisses demand for fiancé to pay for outfits 😑
Fiftyletters | Fiftyletters
Tips for dressing for work events on a budget 💫
LimitedCorri | LimitedCorri
Partner wants trophy wife without paying? Not cool. 💯
Hoosier_Mama75 | Hoosier_Mama75
Double standard in fashion expectations for men and women. 👏
dorvann | dorvann
NTA- If it's for his career, he should pay. 👍
Goofball412a | Goofball412a
Renting designer outfits online is a great idea! 💡
rawrsatbeards | rawrsatbeards
Commenter advises against attending expensive events at own expense 👍
LucretiusCarus | LucretiusCarus
Curious about the fiancé's job and legality of mandatory events 🤔
veggiebuilder | veggiebuilder
Engaged but not on the same page financially. 💎💋
ghotier | ghotier
Suggests renting dresses to avoid overflowing closet, but still fair.
Alicex13 | Alicex13
Reddit brings diverse perspectives, superficiality judged by looks criticized. 👏
alexbernierlive | alexbernierlive
Partner views significant other as arm candy, not equal.
Broesoek | Broesoek
Who cares about outfit repetition? NTA has the right idea 💯
SandwichOtter | SandwichOtter
Commenter shocked at F's earnings in fashion industry 🤩
3plantsonthewall | 3plantsonthewall
Commenter questions the feasibility of spending £600/month on work events.
chookitypokpokpok | chookitypokpokpok
Fiancé agrees to fund her outfits for his events going forward 💰
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Save money on outfits for work events with these tips! 💸
dailey_dose | dailey_dose
Partner's income not an excuse for excessive spending. NTA 💯
DoughBooii | DoughBooii
Rent designer dresses and accessories with Rent the Runway Unlimited! 👟💃
nikkiinsf | nikkiinsf
Rent the Runway suggestion to save money on event outfits 👍
Baamaapii | Baamaapii
Commenter defends outfit choice with fiery clapback. 💪
alexbernierlive | alexbernierlive
Royal women rewear dresses, NTA for not buying new outfits.
Maggie_A | Maggie_A
The hypocrisy of fashion judgment in relationships 👍
Binky390 | Binky390
Commenter calls out the absurdity of demanding new outfits. 😂
Dontfeedthebears | Dontfeedthebears
Commenter calls out superficiality and supports OP. 💯
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Comment section full of judgmental hypocrites 😑
LikeThosePenguins | LikeThosePenguins
Social anxiety wins again 😅
SleepyArmpits | SleepyArmpits
