Meet Sam and Lauren, two roommates living together in New York for five years. Lauren has a boyfriend named Mark, who’s been dating her for about four months. But there’s a problem: Mark can’t seem to stop hitting on Sam, especially when Lauren isn’t around. Sam has told Lauren about Mark’s behavior, but she doesn’t believe her. So, Sam decides to prove it, leading to a dramatic confrontation. But who’s really at fault here? Let’s dive into the story!
The Roommate and the Boyfriend

The Unwanted Attention

The Disbelief

The Plan

The Trap is Set

The Flirting Begins

Caught in the Act

The Argument

The Aftermath

The Dilemma

The Big Question: Who’s in the Wrong? ♀️
So, Sam set a trap to prove to Lauren that her boyfriend Mark was hitting on her, and it worked. But instead of being mad at Mark, Lauren lashed out at Sam, accusing her of seducing him. Now, their friendship is on the rocks, and Sam is left wondering if she’s the one at fault. What do you think? Who’s really to blame in this messy situation? Let’s see what the internet has to say about it…
NTA OP’s hilarious comeback shuts down roommate’s boyfriend’s criticism.
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NTA for warning friend about sleazy boyfriend, but she’s in denial ♀️

NTA for warning roommate about her boyfriend’s behavior , and slut-shaming is not okay
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Roommate’s boyfriend sexually harassed commenter, roommate didn’t believe at first.

NTA for trying to protect your roommate from her disrespectful boyfriend

Roommate’s boyfriend caught breaking rules, but OP blamed for truth?

NTA heroically confronts friend’s cheating boyfriend, faces misdirected anger.

NYC roommates defy social distancing, boyfriend caught red-handed

Avoiding confrontation only delays the inevitable

Supportive commenters agree: NTA and space is key
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Empowering response to provocative dress accusation

Roommate blames messenger for boyfriend’s misdeeds. NTA.

Debate over quarantine etiquette ensues, with some blaming the roommate’s boyfriend.

Commenter calls out misogyny in a boyfriend cheating situation

NTA defends herself against roommate’s unfair blame with humor

Proving a point to a disbeliever and standing up against harassment

Don’t blame the victim! NTA for dressing comfortably

NTA for dressing how you want, but roommate’s boyfriend is a prick

Set boundaries with roommate’s boyfriend to avoid harassment

Laughter and support for NTA’s hilarious comment

NTA for being a good friend, but roommate should take responsibility
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NTA for exposing roommate’s cheating boyfriend

Roommate’s boyfriend hitting on commenter, NTA for feeling uncomfortable

Roommate’s boyfriend breaks social distancing rules in NY. ESH.

Commenter urges social distancing in the city amidst drama

Don’t blame the victim. Lauren is toxic. NTA.

Agreement broken, blame shifted. NTA stands firm.
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Roommate’s boyfriend blames her clothing for his actions. NTA.
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NTA commenter considers sharing post with angry roommate

Empowering response to friend’s boyfriend caught cheating.

Defending against dress shaming and calling out a controlling boyfriend.

Victim-blaming is never okay. NTA stands firm against misogyny.

Empowering response to slut-shaming comment.

Clear conscience? NTA comment stands alone

Directly confronting Lauren’s boyfriend about his behavior is NTA

Roommate agreed to situation, NTA for catching boyfriend red-handed

Caught the boyfriend cheating, but is it her problem now?
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Spilling the tea on the ‘hitting on’ part of the story

Victim-blaming is never okay. NTA, hope she sees it too

Supportive comment tells Lauren to reconsider relationship with Mark.

Empowering response to slut-shaming accusation.

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with your roommate’s boyfriend

Confident response sparks amusement in comment section

Roommate’s boyfriend caught cheating, commenter says NTA and shares personal story.

Empowering response to internalized misogyny and victim blaming.

Proving innocence with a sassy comeback. NTA wins!
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NTA commenter suggests leaving roommate to deal with consequences ♀️

Empowering response to slut-shaming, own your sexuality

Mark’s sleazy actions cause tension between roommates

Sexism and victim-blaming? NTA claps back with sarcasm
