🤧 Student Refuses to Visit Parents' Filthy Home 🏚️: A Life of Allergies Unraveled

Diply Social Team
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Imagine living your entire life believing you have severe allergies, only to discover the real culprit was your own home! 😱 That's exactly what happened to one student, who struggled with constant runny noses, headaches, and low self-confidence due to their so-called 'allergies.' After moving away for college, they experienced a life-changing transformation and realized the truth. Now, they're taking a stand and refusing to visit their parents' filthy home for the holidays. 🏚️🚫

A Life of 'Allergies'

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Allergy Meds and Missed School

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Struggles with Grades and Confidence

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College Dreams and a New Beginning

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A Surprising Discovery

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The Realization

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Doctor's Confirmation

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The Dirty Truth

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Parents' Reaction

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The Stand

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Family's Anger

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A Life Transformed: No More 'Allergies' 🌟

For 19 long years, this student believed they suffered from severe allergies, but their life took a dramatic turn when they moved away for college. 🏫 Suddenly, their symptoms vanished, and they realized the true cause: their parents' filthy home! 😱 Now, they're refusing to visit their family's dirty house for the holidays, opting for public meetings or inviting them to their new, clean living space. While their family is furious, the student stands firm, unwilling to go back to a life of constant runny noses and headaches. 💪🚫

NTA for refusing to visit parents' filthy home due to allergies 🤧

Puppyjito | Puppyjito

NTA. Your health is important. Set boundaries and advocate for yourself 💪

AnastasiaRomani | AnastasiaRomani

Generational differences in living standards. 🏠

THrowRA-notRlyReligi | THrowRA-notRlyReligi

Avoiding parents' unhealthy home: NTA, don't let them project anger.

BeepBlipBlapBloop | BeepBlipBlapBloop

Allergies and family drama 🤧 NTA gets support 👏

yawnymac | yawnymac

👏 NTA! Parents' refusal to clean their house is unacceptable. 👏

wind-river7 | wind-river7

Refusing to visit parents' filthy home due to allergies. #NTA 😊

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Allergies are no joke! This commenter is NTA for setting boundaries.

Larcztar | Larcztar

👍 Putting your health first is important. NTA.

Alarmed-Hamster-4047 | Alarmed-Hamster-4047

Negligence and filth ruined their life. NTA for refusing visit.

666POD | 666POD

Taking control of your health and well-being. 💪

Dramatic_Shoulder_80 | Dramatic_Shoulder_80

Living with allergies in a moldy house: NTA's experience.

immadriftersbody | immadriftersbody

Parents in health profession should know better. NTA 👍

can_i_change_this_ | can_i_change_this_

Protect your health! NTA for refusing to visit moldy home 👍

Smitty80015 | Smitty80015

Choose safety first 🙌, NTA stands for Not The A-hole

FpsMom | FpsMom

Compromise with your parents for holidays without compromising your health. 🙌

OhhHoneyNo | OhhHoneyNo

👍 Not the a**hole for refusing to visit parents' filthy home

human_doing_things | human_doing_things

Don't compromise your health and safety for anyone. 🙌

dragonstkdgirl | dragonstkdgirl

Avoiding toxic homes: NTA stands up to neglectful parents 💪

HomelyHobbit | HomelyHobbit

👏 Standing up for your health and boundaries!

AnyConstellation | AnyConstellation

Protecting your health comes first 👍

grianmharduit | grianmharduit

👏 NTA for refusing to visit parents' filthy home. Medical safety first.

AManlyNurse | AManlyNurse

Hygiene standards of medical professionals questioned. 😑

Cars2IsAMasterpiece | Cars2IsAMasterpiece

NTA, commenter shares similar experience with allergies and offers advice.

NeonPlaid42 | NeonPlaid42

Moving to a drier state helped with allergies. 🏜️

KKTide | KKTide

Cleanliness is next to godliness. NTA 👍

Characterde | Characterde

Allergic student refuses to visit parents' house with cats 🐱🐱

Proplyd-0628 | Proplyd-0628

Allergies can be debilitating. NTA for refusing to visit.

Katy_moxie | Katy_moxie

Agreeing with NTA comment about hiring a cleaner 👍

tjo1975 | tjo1975

Hosting parents instead of visiting their filthy home - NTA

ThisIsMyFatLogicAlt | ThisIsMyFatLogicAlt

Growing up in an unhealthy home can have lifelong effects. 👍

minlatedollarshort | minlatedollarshort

Parents' neglect of child's severe allergies. NTA to refuse visit.

Alphawolf5916 | Alphawolf5916

Report to CPS if other children are in danger. NTA 🚨

cmlobue | cmlobue

Don't sacrifice your health for their sanity 👍

Zillah-The-Broken | Zillah-The-Broken

Living in a clean environment is not a luxury, it's a necessity 👍

mmm_unprocessed_fish | mmm_unprocessed_fish

Budgeting for professional cleaning is worth it for a clean home. 💰🧹

PorcelainLily | PorcelainLily

👍 Not your mess, not your stress. NTA for avoiding filth.

VirtuallyBecca | VirtuallyBecca

NTA. Overcoming allergies, but parents won't clean. Stay safe 👍

icd10 | icd10

Don't suffer for their laziness 👍 NTA

Unable_Supermarket64 | Unable_Supermarket64

This student is not the a**hole for refusing to visit.

Sawyers_gunstash | Sawyers_gunstash

Prioritize your health first 👍. Don't feel guilty for refusing.

AttemptedAdult | AttemptedAdult

Allergy sufferer refuses to visit parents' filthy home. NTA x3 👏

Jaded-Chip343 | Jaded-Chip343

Parents neglect child's allergies, commenter empathizes and condemns behavior. 👏

kokobrii | kokobrii

Parents' filthy home made child sick, NTA for refusing visit 😱

BendingCollegeGrad | BendingCollegeGrad

Living with allergies is tough. Parents ignoring it is worse. 😢

izzycolorado | izzycolorado

Student refuses to visit parents' filthy home. Not the a**hole.

Select-Sentence-1832 | Select-Sentence-1832

Self-care first! 🙌 NTA for avoiding allergens at home.

bs1114 | bs1114

Commenter agrees with the poster's judgement and is shocked.

Rod4112 | Rod4112

Breaking the cycle of hoarding and dysfunction for a better life 👏

Spilltheteagirl | Spilltheteagirl

Empathetic reply to a relatable situation. 👍

toptiertopqueer | toptiertopqueer

👏 Not the a**hole for prioritizing health over laziness.

No-Knowledge8325 | No-Knowledge8325

Cleanliness is next to godliness, but not for OP's parents 👍

mrik85 | mrik85

Allergic student refuses to visit parents' filthy home - NTA 😊

stanbangpinktwice | stanbangpinktwice

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out parents' neglect. 💪

WoofingtonSpiff | WoofingtonSpiff

Health professionals with a filthy home? NTA for refusing.

Shamare14 | Shamare14

Don't compromise your health for their dirty home. NTA 👍

NotYourMommyDear | NotYourMommyDear

👍 Not the a**hole for refusing to visit parents' dirty home

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Family's denial of home's filth causes health issues 😢

Reptar1988 | Reptar1988

👍 Not the a**hole. Parents' neglect is unacceptable and abusive.

yaboi-cthulhu | yaboi-cthulhu

Setting boundaries is important for mental and physical health. NTA 💪

radish_intothewild | radish_intothewild

Struggling with allergies, NTA refuses to visit parents' home 🤧

Dani_CB | Dani_CB

Demanding a clean home before visiting. 👍

mindbird | mindbird

👏 Standing up for your health! NTA wins the day.

kggtrash | kggtrash

👏🏼 NTA for refusing to visit parents' filthy home. Negligence is unacceptable.

Blue_wine_sloth | Blue_wine_sloth

Avoiding parents' filthy home saved student from serious illness. #NTA 🙌

meliocoilean | meliocoilean

👍 Taking care of your health is always a good choice.

dracoda | dracoda

Self-care first! 🧘‍♀️ NTA for avoiding allergens at home.

LingonberryPrior6896 | LingonberryPrior6896

Stand up for your health and well-being. 💪

CleanAssociation9394 | CleanAssociation9394

Neglected health due to parental neglect, NTA. 👍

mkat23 | mkat23

🚨 Neglectful parents? One commenter thinks so. 🚨

Dependent-Welcome285 | Dependent-Welcome285

Setting boundaries with parents, NTA. 👍

TwoCentsPsychologist | TwoCentsPsychologist

Allergy sufferers unite! NTA comment receives support 🤝

Regular-Landscape-83 | Regular-Landscape-83

Growing up in a messy house: relatable or not? 🤔

Drive-by-poster | Drive-by-poster

👏 Standing up for your health and boundaries!

JuicyDukie | JuicyDukie

Growing up with allergies in a dirty home - NTA

B-Girl-Ca | B-Girl-Ca

Student refuses to visit parents' filthy home, not the a**hole

manda12305 | manda12305

Don't compromise your health for anyone. NTA 👍

l1ghtra1n19 | l1ghtra1n19

👍 Stand your ground! Allergies are no joke. #NTA

Kitty_Katty_Kit | Kitty_Katty_Kit

Medical professionals neglecting their allergic child? NTA for refusing visit.

Kiwipecosa | Kiwipecosa

👏 NTA for refusing to visit parents' filthy home.

SuspiciousMallow | SuspiciousMallow

👏 Standing up for yourself and your health is important. #NTA

Special-Cat7540 | Special-Cat7540

👍 Not the a**hole. Neglectful home environment is unacceptable.

dumpsterfire2002 | dumpsterfire2002

NTA refuses to visit dirty home, concern for minor children 👍

geekgirlwww | geekgirlwww

👍 Student refuses to visit parents' filthy home. Prioritizing education.

MsTyffani | MsTyffani

Pharmacist and dentist parents clueless about hygiene and allergies? 🤔

Messerschmit262 | Messerschmit262

Empowering kids to take action and call CPS when necessary 💪

capt-rix | capt-rix

Supportive commenter shares similar experience and offers virtual hug ❤️

SolidUpstairs | SolidUpstairs

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