Imagine living your entire life believing you have severe allergies, only to discover the real culprit was your own home! That’s exactly what happened to one student, who struggled with constant runny noses, headaches, and low self-confidence due to their so-called ‘allergies.’ After moving away for college, they experienced a life-changing transformation and realized the truth. Now, they’re taking a stand and refusing to visit their parents’ filthy home for the holidays. ️
A Life of ‘Allergies’

Allergy Meds and Missed School

Struggles with Grades and Confidence

College Dreams and a New Beginning

A Surprising Discovery

The Realization

Doctor’s Confirmation

The Dirty Truth

Parents’ Reaction

The Stand

Family’s Anger

A Life Transformed: No More ‘Allergies’
For 19 long years, this student believed they suffered from severe allergies, but their life took a dramatic turn when they moved away for college. Suddenly, their symptoms vanished, and they realized the true cause: their parents’ filthy home! Now, they’re refusing to visit their family’s dirty house for the holidays, opting for public meetings or inviting them to their new, clean living space. While their family is furious, the student stands firm, unwilling to go back to a life of constant runny noses and headaches.
NTA for refusing to visit parents’ filthy home due to allergies

NTA. Your health is important. Set boundaries and advocate for yourself

Generational differences in living standards.

Avoiding parents’ unhealthy home: NTA, don’t let them project anger.

Allergies and family drama NTA gets support

NTA! Parents’ refusal to clean their house is unacceptable.

Refusing to visit parents’ filthy home due to allergies. #NTA

Allergies are no joke! This commenter is NTA for setting boundaries.

Putting your health first is important. NTA.

Negligence and filth ruined their life. NTA for refusing visit.

Taking control of your health and well-being.

Living with allergies in a moldy house: NTA’s experience.

Parents in health profession should know better. NTA

Protect your health! NTA for refusing to visit moldy home

Choose safety first , NTA stands for Not The A-hole

Compromise with your parents for holidays without compromising your health.

Not the a**hole for refusing to visit parents’ filthy home

Don’t compromise your health and safety for anyone.

Avoiding toxic homes: NTA stands up to neglectful parents

Standing up for your health and boundaries!

Protecting your health comes first

NTA for refusing to visit parents’ filthy home. Medical safety first.

Hygiene standards of medical professionals questioned.

NTA, commenter shares similar experience with allergies and offers advice.

Moving to a drier state helped with allergies. ️

Cleanliness is next to godliness. NTA

Allergic student refuses to visit parents’ house with cats

Allergies can be debilitating. NTA for refusing to visit.

Agreeing with NTA comment about hiring a cleaner

Hosting parents instead of visiting their filthy home – NTA

Growing up in an unhealthy home can have lifelong effects.

Parents’ neglect of child’s severe allergies. NTA to refuse visit.

Report to CPS if other children are in danger. NTA

Don’t sacrifice your health for their sanity

Living in a clean environment is not a luxury, it’s a necessity

Budgeting for professional cleaning is worth it for a clean home.

Not your mess, not your stress. NTA for avoiding filth.

NTA. Overcoming allergies, but parents won’t clean. Stay safe

Don’t suffer for their laziness NTA

This student is not the a**hole for refusing to visit.

Prioritize your health first . Don’t feel guilty for refusing.

Allergy sufferer refuses to visit parents’ filthy home. NTA x3

Parents neglect child’s allergies, commenter empathizes and condemns behavior.

Parents’ filthy home made child sick, NTA for refusing visit

Living with allergies is tough. Parents ignoring it is worse.

Student refuses to visit parents’ filthy home. Not the a**hole.

Self-care first! NTA for avoiding allergens at home.

Commenter agrees with the poster’s judgement and is shocked.

Breaking the cycle of hoarding and dysfunction for a better life

Empathetic reply to a relatable situation.

Not the a**hole for prioritizing health over laziness.

Cleanliness is next to godliness, but not for OP’s parents

Allergic student refuses to visit parents’ filthy home – NTA

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out parents’ neglect.

Health professionals with a filthy home? NTA for refusing.

Don’t compromise your health for their dirty home. NTA

Not the a**hole for refusing to visit parents’ dirty home
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Family’s denial of home’s filth causes health issues

Not the a**hole. Parents’ neglect is unacceptable and abusive.

Setting boundaries is important for mental and physical health. NTA

Struggling with allergies, NTA refuses to visit parents’ home

Demanding a clean home before visiting.

Standing up for your health! NTA wins the day.

NTA for refusing to visit parents’ filthy home. Negligence is unacceptable.

Avoiding parents’ filthy home saved student from serious illness. #NTA

Taking care of your health is always a good choice.

Self-care first! ♀️ NTA for avoiding allergens at home.

Stand up for your health and well-being.

Neglected health due to parental neglect, NTA.

Neglectful parents? One commenter thinks so.

Setting boundaries with parents, NTA.

Allergy sufferers unite! NTA comment receives support

Growing up in a messy house: relatable or not?

Standing up for your health and boundaries!

Growing up with allergies in a dirty home – NTA

Student refuses to visit parents’ filthy home, not the a**hole

Don’t compromise your health for anyone. NTA

Stand your ground! Allergies are no joke. #NTA

Medical professionals neglecting their allergic child? NTA for refusing visit.

NTA for refusing to visit parents’ filthy home.

Standing up for yourself and your health is important. #NTA

Not the a**hole. Neglectful home environment is unacceptable.

NTA refuses to visit dirty home, concern for minor children

Student refuses to visit parents’ filthy home. Prioritizing education.

Pharmacist and dentist parents clueless about hygiene and allergies?

Empowering kids to take action and call CPS when necessary

Supportive commenter shares similar experience and offers virtual hug ❤️
