Imagine raising a child as your own, only to have your pregnant fiancée demand they move out. That’s the situation one man found himself in when his fiancée, Sara, told his cousin, Mira, that she’s a burden and needs to move out. The man, who has raised Mira since she was four, is torn between his love for his cousin and his fiancée’s wishes. As the drama unfolds, friends and family are taking sides, leaving the man questioning what’s best for Mira.
Raising Mira: More Than Just a Cousin

Sara’s Feelings on Mira’s Situation

Mira’s Heartbreaking Apology

Sara’s Harsh Words to Mira

Reassuring Mira and Confronting Sara

Sara’s Argument: Mira is Just a Cousin

The ‘Just a Cousin’ Comment Hits Hard

Sara’s Side Gains Support

Best Friend’s Doubts

Doubts Creep In: What’s Best for Mira? ♂️
As the man faces opposition from friends, family, and even his best friend, he’s left questioning what’s best for Mira. While he believes Mira should stay, he wonders if it’s actually unhealthy for her. He acknowledges that Sara went about it the wrong way, but perhaps there’s some truth to her concerns. As the debate continues, it’s clear that there’s no easy answer to this family dilemma. Let’s see what people have to say about this emotional situation… ️
Engaging debate over subsidizing young adult’s education and family dynamics.

Pregnant fiancée demands cousin moves out. Commenters suggest therapy or breakup.

NTA. Commenters agree that Mira could have been a helpful addition and Sara’s lying is a breach of trust.

Is OP blinded by love for Mia? Something is off here

Red flags in the relationship with cousin, communication issues with fiancée. YTA.

Fiancée’s side missing, suspicions of bias, and divided opinions

OP’s friends think his pregnant girlfriend is right to ask his cousin to move out. They suspect an unhealthy attachment between OP and his cousin. YTA for dismissing his girlfriend’s concerns.

Is Sara really irrational or is there more to this?

Missing details and biased parties, what’s really going on?

Unplanned pregnancy leads to housing dilemma. Communication breakdown?

User questions if there’s more to the story, advises counseling. NTA.

OP’s pregnant fiance demands cousin move out before separation

Commenter suggests cousin may be manipulative and hiding something

NTA. Pregnant fiancée wants cousin out, but commenters defend OP’s family.

Fiancée demands cousin moves out, but commenters side with OP.

Commenter suggests OP needs to address family issues

OP’s dismissive behavior towards Sara’s concerns may harm their family

Unresolved issues and lack of boundaries. ESH

Engaging in couples therapy is crucial for this complicated family.
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Seeking validation online won’t fix boundary issues with cousin. YTA

Pregnant fiancée needs your undivided attention and compromise.
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Sara’s cousin wants to move out, but is it the best decision?
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What did Mira do to make Sarah demand she moves out?

Man struggles to find compromise with pregnant fiancée’s demands.

ESH. Pregnant fiancée demands cousin moves out. Compromise needed for all.

NTA defends Mira and predicts Sara’s future parenting struggles.

Commenter expresses concern over OP’s relationship with cousin. YTA.

ESH. Lack of communication and compromise. Suspicious missing information.

Engaged couple’s rushed living situation causes tension with roommate

Adopting your cousin as your daughter? Creative solution!

Commenter thinks Mira is the a**hole in the situation.

Commenter advises better communication and financial responsibility for new baby. YTA.

Resentful roommate causing tension with pregnant fiancée

Commenter calls out OP for siding with cousin over pregnant fiancée.

Commenter is skeptical and thinks there’s more to the story.

Unhealthy living situation and family issues need to be addressed

Is Mira infatuated with OP? Friends side with pregnant fiancée.

User advises seeking advice from real-life people, not just Reddit.

Commenter questions if everyone siding with Sara is right. YTA.

Supporting family vs. prioritizing pregnant fiance: NTA or ESH?

Man’s parental role for cousin causes tension with pregnant fiancée

Engaging advice on how to communicate with fiancée about priorities

Reconsider your relationship with your cousin after bestie’s input

Honorary father defends cousin against fiancée’s demands to move out

Navigating family dynamics during pregnancy

Fiancée wants cousin out, commenter advises against marrying her.

Commenter calls out OP for prioritizing cousin over fiancé

Raising a cousin and having a child, NTA for wanting support

Father-daughter bond is unbreakable. NTA for not kicking out.

Defending the cousin’s right to independence and questioning Sara’s motives

Setting boundaries with family and friends: missing information
