Losing a loved one is never easy, especially when it's sudden and unexpected. A father of three, twice divorced, passed away two months ago, leaving his family to sort through his belongings and memories. His girlfriend of three years, who he had proposed to but never married, now wants two specific items from his estate to remember him by: a wristwatch and a silver bowl. The catch? These are the most valuable items in his entire apartment, worth around $10,000 each. With the family in need of money, they're faced with a difficult decision. Should they give her the items or keep them to sell and support themselves? 💔🤔
💔 Deceased Dad's Girlfriend Wants His Prized Possessions: Will They Say No? 😲
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The Unmarried Girlfriend
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The Cluttered Apartment
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The Unmentioned Will
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The Requested Items
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The Girlfriend's Finances
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The Family's Needs
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The Dilemma
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The Ugly Silver Bowl
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The Apartment's Rent
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The Estate's Worth
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The Watch's Value
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The Bowl's Potential Price
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The Ex-Wives
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The Need for Money
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The Girlfriend's Involvement
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A Family's Heartbreaking Choice: Keep or Give? 💔🕰️
As this family grieves their father's sudden passing, they're faced with a tough decision. The girlfriend, who was never legally married to their father, wants his two most valuable items to remember him by. With the family in need of money and the girlfriend already well off, they're torn between honoring her request or selling the items to help themselves. As they navigate this emotional minefield, they must consider the value of their father's memory and the needs of their own family. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💬
Secure the home and change the locks. Executors can offer girlfriend first option to purchase items from estate. 🏠
magnus_the_fish | magnus_the_fish
Deceased dad's girlfriend wants prized possessions: OP says no 🚫
KrisKosh | KrisKosh
Deceased dad's girlfriend wants prized possessions: suspicious or sentimental?
Crzy_Grl | Crzy_Grl
Consider the father's relationship with his girlfriend before selling the items 👍
Legitimate-Tower-523 | Legitimate-Tower-523
Deceased dad's girlfriend wants his prized possessions: NTA says no.
FeeFiFooFunyon | FeeFiFooFunyon
NTA. Don't give away prized possessions unless legally required. 💎
MiddleAgedCool | MiddleAgedCool
Deceased dad's girlfriend only asking for sentimental items, OP is selfish. YTA 😡
Akuma-The-Monarch | Akuma-The-Monarch
Deceased father's girlfriend wants prized possessions: fair or greedy? 🤔
beingsydneycarton | beingsydneycarton
Politely decline and suggest she buy them or choose something else 😊
Mamertine | Mamertine
Compromise with sentimental items to avoid conflict 👍
teresajs | teresajs
Suggesting to sell deceased dad's prized possessions to his girlfriend 💍
Dszquphsbnt | Dszquphsbnt
Dad's death sparks family feud over prized possessions. ESH.
Swirlyflurry | Swirlyflurry
Deceased dad's girlfriend not getting any inheritance, but wants prized possessions
Pepperthecory | Pepperthecory
Compassionate reply acknowledges loss, but supports legal ownership. 🙏
miriboheme | miriboheme
Offering to sell the items to the girlfriend: fair or not? 💰
Ms-Ann-Thrope2020 | Ms-Ann-Thrope2020
Offer first refusal to buy deceased dad's possessions. NTA.
spikeymist | spikeymist
NTA. Giving sentimental items is right, but a silver bowl? 🤔
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Unanswered questions about dad's girlfriend's involvement. 🤔
Encartrus | Encartrus
Executor advises on selling deceased dad's possessions, offers compromise. 👍
Wiser_Owl99 | Wiser_Owl99
OP receives backlash for denying deceased dad's girlfriend prized possessions 💔
RLB4066 | RLB4066
Uncovering the motive behind her request for expensive items. 🤔
a-mathemagician | a-mathemagician
Suggest selling prized possessions to dad's girlfriend at a discount 💰
No-Personality5421 | No-Personality5421
Commenters accuse OP of being the a**hole in inheritance dispute 😬
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Woman wants deceased man's possessions, but already received $100K gifts. NTA.
Rindill | Rindill
Deceased dad's girlfriend asks for two keepsakes, but OP wants to sell them. Commenter calls YTA.
task_scheme_not | task_scheme_not
Don't be too quick to judge, but it's okay to say no 😊
exotics | exotics
Deceased dad's girlfriend wants prized possessions. Tricky situation. NTA.
000-Hotaru_Tomoe | 000-Hotaru_Tomoe
Is the silver bowl really worth $10k? 🤔
maraxgold | maraxgold
OP accused of being selfish for wanting deceased dad's items.
Striking_Ad_6573 | Striking_Ad_6573
Expensive possessions as memories? NTA suggests small token instead. 💰🎁
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Is the girlfriend entitled to deceased dad's prized possessions?
Shitty-Coriolis | Shitty-Coriolis
Sell the items to the girlfriend if she wants them.
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Stand your ground and protect your family's legacy. 💪
ICXPDQ | ICXPDQ
Offering a sentimental item to remember him by 💕
jen7850 | jen7850
Should the deceased dad's girlfriend get his prized possessions? Family dilemma 😕
bobcrossed | bobcrossed
Offering to sell prized possessions to deceased dad's girlfriend. #NTA
ContentedRecluse | ContentedRecluse
Compromise possible? Family divided over deceased dad's possessions.
pawsplay36 | pawsplay36
Experienced commenter advises ignoring greedy girlfriend's demands for inheritance.
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Get a professional appraiser to avoid unethical buyers. Do research.
3Heathens_Mom | 3Heathens_Mom
Deceased dad's girlfriend not entitled to prized possessions. Hilarious coincidence?
carton_of_cats | carton_of_cats
Suggest a compromise to deceased dad's girlfriend. 😊
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Protect your dad's prized possessions from disappearing. NTA.
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Girlfriend not entitled to prized possessions. NTA for keeping them. 👍
Convincingenough | Convincingenough
Advocating for going through the estate to distribute possessions 💼
feltedarrows | feltedarrows
Inheritance battle: NTA siblings vs. greedy girlfriend 🤯
Neonpinx | Neonpinx
Don't give away deceased dad's prized possessions to his girlfriend. NTA.
DZHMMM | DZHMMM
Respect your father's wishes and follow the law. 👍
vingtsun_guy | vingtsun_guy
Executor's duty: NTA for denying deceased dad's girlfriend's request.
tedhanoverspeaches | tedhanoverspeaches
Life's tough, chips didn't fall in her favor. NTA.
Number-Eleven-11 | Number-Eleven-11
Why does the girlfriend want the silver bowl? 🤔
RealKrolon | RealKrolon
Girlfriend wants dad's possessions, commenter suggests alternative sentimental item. 👍
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Offer to sell prized possessions to deceased dad's girlfriend. NTA.
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Protecting dad's legacy: Saying no to greedy girlfriend 👍
SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123
Give sentimental items, not prized possessions. NTA. 😊
Ok-Macaron-6211 | Ok-Macaron-6211
Suggest a compromise to deceased dad's girlfriend 🙂
Ornery-Ticket834 | Ornery-Ticket834
Don't let her take the prized possessions, they're valuable pieces! 💎
RevolutionaryCow7961 | RevolutionaryCow7961
Clear and concise judgement. 👍
pretty_dead_grrl | pretty_dead_grrl
🤔 Suspicious motives behind girlfriend's choice of expensive possessions
tallerthannobody | tallerthannobody
A sentimental request for a memento, not a safety net.
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Girlfriend has no claim on estate, valuable items should be sold.
AzSpence | AzSpence
Generous inheritance or greedy girlfriend? NTA stands their ground 😎
SammyLoops1 | SammyLoops1
Money grab? NTA commenter doubts girlfriend's motives 🤔
sherrib99 | sherrib99
Deceased dad's girlfriend wants his possessions, but NTA siblings object.
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Prized possessions dispute: No will, no inheritance for girlfriend. 🙅
zephyrseija | zephyrseija
Deceased dad's girlfriend not entitled to prized possessions. NTA.
rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r
Is a silver bowl worth fighting over in a 9 bedroom apartment? 🤔
handsume | handsume
Deceased dad's girlfriend's suspicious requests for possessions questioned 🤔
DavinaCole | DavinaCole
Legally, YWNBTA for denying dad's girlfriend his possessions. Condolences.
hwilliams0901 | hwilliams0901
NTA comment receives no replies. 😕
Ok-Abbreviations4510 | Ok-Abbreviations4510
Keep the possessions and keep quiet 🙉
tnebteg456 | tnebteg456
Stand your ground and offer a family discount 👍
Oxfordcomma42 | Oxfordcomma42
