We all have our limits, and for one 19-year-old girl, her sister-in-law's constant comparisons to her late sister pushed her over the edge. The older sister-in-law (27) lost her little sister three years ago, but the grieving process seems to have taken a turn for the worse. The young woman has been compared to the late sister in every aspect of her life, from her high school subjects to the way she eats. Despite asking for the comparisons to stop, nothing changed. But when her sister-in-law's behavior escalated, the girl finally snapped. 😤🔥
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Constant Comparisons 😒
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Asking for Help 🙏
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"Keeping an Eye" on Them 👀
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Locking the Door and the Explosive Reaction 🔒💣
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Enough is Enough! 😤
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Mixed Answers and Moving Out Plans 🤔🏠
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Girl Reaches Her Breaking Point 😱
After being constantly compared to her sister-in-law's late sister and feeling ignored by her family, this girl finally reached her breaking point. With her sister-in-law's behavior escalating around her boyfriend, she couldn't take it anymore and snapped, telling her she's not the late sister and needs therapy. Now, her family wants her to apologize, but she refuses. With mixed opinions on whether she's in the wrong, the girl is left wondering if she should apologize or stand her ground. Let's see what the internet thinks of this explosive situation... 💥🍿
Agreeing with commenter that SIL needs therapy and support.
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Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests seeking support from trusted individuals.
manholetxt | manholetxt
Setting boundaries with family can be tough 😢. NTA for standing up for yourself.
whoistimkono | whoistimkono
Setting boundaries is important. Encourage therapy for healing. 🙌
andreabarbato | andreabarbato
Stand up for yourself and tell your family the truth. 💪
OldKindheartedness73 | OldKindheartedness73
Setting boundaries can be tough, but you're NTA in this situation 👍
Majestic_Grocery7015 | Majestic_Grocery7015
Encouraging support for seeking therapy despite family resistance 👏
DormantDormaus | DormantDormaus
Commenter advises OP to defend their boundaries and stand firmer.
HapaMari | HapaMari
Sibling boundaries crossed: NTA for snapping back 😏
crayolainmybrain | crayolainmybrain
NTA - Stand up for yourself and try changing your appearance 👍
amusedbuch | amusedbuch
Commenter defends snapping at sister-in-law for trying to replace her late sister, suggests therapy. 💁♀️
Careful_Swan3830 | Careful_Swan3830
Honesty hurts, but therapy could help. Good on you OP.
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NTA- Being an adult, you're allowed to be alone with whomever you want 👨👩👧. Sister-in-law seems jealous/obsessed 🤪
Rambling_Rogue | Rambling_Rogue
Sister-in-law projecting and going overboard, NTA for standing up.
byebyelovie | byebyelovie
Commenter suggests seeking therapy for concerning behavior, family in denial.
No-Policy-4095 | No-Policy-4095
A thoughtful suggestion to calmly communicate concerns about grieving.
partyinmysocks | partyinmysocks
Stand up to her and fight crazy with crazy! 🤯
Southern_Hamster_338 | Southern_Hamster_338
Boundaries crossed. NTA for standing up. Time to move out? 🤔
Fickle-Willow4836 | Fickle-Willow4836
Lock your door and cut her off completely. NTA.
dodo_273 | dodo_273
Grieving doesn't give anyone the right to replace a mother 😔
SiameseCats3 | SiameseCats3
Setting boundaries with family can be tough 😢
ichacalaca | ichacalaca
Compassionate comment suggests help for lost sister-in-law. 🙏
diskebbin | diskebbin
bizianka | bizianka
Setting boundaries with family can be tough 😢. It's important to be clear and firm, but not an AH. NTA
sysadrift | sysadrift
Commenter supports OP's actions and suggests therapy for sister-in-law.
notrapunzel | notrapunzel
Setting boundaries with a grieving sister-in-law. NTA 👍
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Recording her behavior can help prove your point 👍
gabaii2 | gabaii2
Empathetic comment supports OP's decision to stand up for herself.
Invisibleamber | Invisibleamber
Sister-in-law overstepping boundaries, causing tension at home 🤷♀️
Actual_Geologist_316 | Actual_Geologist_316
Grieving sister-in-law crosses the line, NTA stands up.
Agreeable-Froyo-603 | Agreeable-Froyo-603
Setting boundaries is tough, but necessary. NTA 👍
rayvon2006 | rayvon2006
NTA comment calls out SIL's unhealthy behavior, recommends therapy 💆
StevenKnowsNothing | StevenKnowsNothing
Supportive comment thread with a touch of humor 😂
pashywastaken | pashywastaken
NTA. Keep firm in your boundaries and seek therapy. 🙌
Words_and_travels | Words_and_travels
Commenter defends OP, calls out family for defending sister-in-law.
giannagalvan91 | giannagalvan91
Setting boundaries with sister-in-law after projecting emotional trauma onto OP. NTA.
TheGingerCynic | TheGingerCynic
Commenter sympathizes with poster, suggests therapy for sister-in-law.
lordy_nordy | lordy_nordy
Commenter suggests taking action against stalker-like behavior 🚨
cooolcats212020 | cooolcats212020
Supportive comment advises victim to seek police intervention for safety.
Drip_Like_Chocolate | Drip_Like_Chocolate
Sibling boundaries crossed: NTA for setting limits with sister-in-law 🙌
SmoggyFineDrum | SmoggyFineDrum
Set boundaries and lock your door for privacy. NTA 👍
WholeAd2742 | WholeAd2742
Commenter defends OP and calls out fake support in PMs.
Mewmerton | Mewmerton
Don't let bitter trolls bring you down. NTA! 🙌
ingodwetryst | ingodwetryst
When private messages go wrong! NTA for setting boundaries.
gravitationalarray | gravitationalarray
Commenter is NTA, but why? Let's find out! 🤔
FapplePus | FapplePus
Commenter deemed 'not the a**hole' and advises help needed.
slimesoldier21 | slimesoldier21
Respectful NTA comment defends girl's emotional boundaries 👏
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Setting boundaries with family for mental health is important. 🙌
angel2hi | angel2hi
Sister-in-law crosses the line, commenter suggests therapy. Supportive replies.
hell_1709 | hell_1709
Setting boundaries is important, NTA for standing up for yourself 💪
Turbulent_Confusion5 | Turbulent_Confusion5
Sibling dynamics get complicated, even more so with in-laws. 😕
Kicking-it-per-se | Kicking-it-per-se
Private messages don't count? Commenter thinks otherwise 🤔
meowtiger | meowtiger
Enabling sister-in-law's behavior? Set boundaries and limit interactions. 👍
history_buff_9971 | history_buff_9971
The fear of going against public opinion in judgmental society.
imad_hassan | imad_hassan
Curious about the motive behind SIL's question 🤔
WolfgangAddams | WolfgangAddams
Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with sister-in-law. 💪
No_Salad_8766 | No_Salad_8766
Commenter shares personal experience and suggests therapy for SIL.
nabongie | nabongie
Dealing with trolls in private messages 😒
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SIL's obsession with projecting her deceased sister onto OP is creepy 😲
LadyAvalon | LadyAvalon
Grieving sister-in-law crosses the line, gets put in her place 😎
Rosieapples | Rosieapples
Confused OP receives mixed messages, but NTA and ignore trolls 😴
friendlily | friendlily
Family's responsibility in uncomfortable situation. Don't apologize. 🙌
jonairl | jonairl
Set boundaries with SIL and prioritize your relationships. NTA obviously 👍
newbeginingshey | newbeginingshey
NTA commenter advises on setting boundaries with controlling SIL 👍
Accomplished-Cheek59 | Accomplished-Cheek59
Setting boundaries with a grieving sister-in-law. NTA 🙌
Historical_Resort_90 | Historical_Resort_90
NTA and clap back at sister-in-law's insensitive comparison 😠
BlueGulfGoddess | BlueGulfGoddess
Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing up for yourself. 💪
originalgenghismom | originalgenghismom
