We all love our friends, but sometimes they can push the limits of our generosity. A 21-year-old woman working at a children’s care home for special needs found herself in a tricky situation when her best friend tried to take advantage of her skills on her day off. What started as a simple plan for a girls’ day out quickly turned into a dramatic showdown.
The Girls’ Day Out Plan
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The Scheduling Conflict
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The Unexpected Encounter ☕
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The Business Trip
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The Last-Minute Emergency
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The Caretaker Request
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The Nerve
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The Counteroffer
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The Outburst
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The Standoff
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The Ultimate Friendship Test: Money or Loyalty?
Our protagonist found herself in a sticky situation when her best friend tried to use their friendship to get free babysitting for her autistic child on her day off. After discovering her friend’s lies, she stood her ground, demanding payment for her services. This led to a heated argument, with her friend accusing her of being inconsiderate and a bad friend. Was she wrong for asking for payment, or was her friend taking advantage of her kindness? Let’s dive into some of the top reactions to this drama-filled story…
Friend lies to get free babysitting, NTA for saying no

Friend tries to take advantage of babysitting, NTA cuts ties

Friend demands free babysitting, but OP is NTA and should dump her

Confronting lies: the perfect time to prove it wasn’t an emergency

Friend demands free babysitting, but gets called out by OP’s husband. NTA

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries with friends

Friend tries to manipulate free babysitting, but OP stands firm.

Friend manipulates to get free babysitting, commenter calls her out.

Friend’s deceitful plan to get free babysitting. NTA!

Toxic friendship alert! NITA for sure. Time to cut ties.

Friend lied for free babysitting, not much of a friend

Commenters call out entitled friends expecting free childcare

No pay for 48hrs of work on a day off? NTA.

Friend tries to manipulate free babysitting, NTA stands firm.

Rethinking friendship after demanding free babysitting for autistic child

Don’t let your friend take advantage of you

Friend lies and cancels on ladies day, demands free babysitting? NTA

Commenter receives support for standing up to entitled friend.

Friend demands free babysitting, commenter calls out the plan.

Friend demands free babysitting, but NTA saw through the setup

Deserve rest on days off. Friend wants to freeload off you

Friend demands free babysitting for autistic child, but won’t pay.

No-nonsense commenter demands fair pay for babysitting services

Toxic friendship exposed! NTA stands up for themselves

Friend tries to manipulate you into free babysitting. NTA.

Friend demands free babysitting, but gets caught in a lie

Charge double plus ’emergency fee’ for entitled friend

Friend demands free babysitting for autistic child, gets served

Friend lied about babysitting, NTA for distancing yourself

Friend demands free babysitting for autistic child, but gets shut down.

Friend demands free babysitting, but OP not obligated. Drama brewing

Calling out a liar NTA takes a stand

Friend demands free babysitting, but gets caught. NTA wins
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Don’t let rude demands slide, even if they offer payment

Maintaining mental health is crucial in caretaking.

SIL probably started enforcing boundaries and requesting payment too

Don’t let manipulative users take advantage of your kindness

Friend demands free babysitting, but commenter is not the a**hole

Friend demands free babysitting, but gets called out.

Graphic designer sets boundaries on free work for entitled friends

Friend tries to guilt into free babysitting, but OP stands up. NTA

No loyalty here! Commenter calls out user for being manipulative

Friend manipulates girls night out to get free babysitting

Friend plans elaborate scheme for free babysitting, NTA for refusing

Commenter suspects friend’s lie about babysitting reasons
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Fake friend demands free babysitting for autistic child. NTA.

Friend demands free babysitting for autistic child, but commenter says NTA

Cutting ties with a lying ‘friend’
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Don’t let anyone guilt you into free babysitting
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Nanny shares experience of being taken advantage of by friends.

Friend demands free babysitting, but commenter suggests calling her out

Friend demands free babysitting, but commenter stands up for self.

Friend lies for free babysitting, NTA calls out manipulation

Cutting out a manipulative ‘best friend’ is self-care

Teacher explains burnout and need for peace after work

Demanding payment for sudden requests? NTA has it right

Cutting off a manipulative ‘friend’ who feels entitled to your time

When your ‘friend’ is actually a user ♀️

Friend demands free babysitting, but commenter calls out manipulation and lies. #NTA

Friend manipulates NTA into fake emergency babysitting

Uncovering the truth: Confrontation or letting it go?

Toxic friend alert! NTA for not babysitting her autistic child

Friend lies and plans to abandon babysitter. Not the a**hole.

Cutting off toxic friends is hard, but necessary.

Confronting entitled friend after finding out truth

Friend lies about emergency to get free babysitting
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Setting boundaries with entitled friends

Cut ties with entitled friend demanding free babysitting. #NTA


Cut ties with manipulative friend demanding free babysitting for child

Friend demands free babysitting, but gets caught in a lie
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Toxic friendships are never worth it . Time to move on.

Setting boundaries with entitled friend demanding free professional service
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No friendship here

Friend tries to manipulate for free babysitting, gets caught. NTA!

Friend demands free babysitting, but it’s a last-minute trip? Nope. NTA
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Deceptive friend tries to guilt-trip, but commenter sees through it

Avoiding responsibilities like a pro
