Woman Refuses to House Stepsister and Niece: Fair or Heartless? 😱💔

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We've all been there – family drama that never seems to end. But when you're faced with the choice of helping someone who's hurt you in the past, what do you do? A woman is torn between her conscience and her history with her stepsister, who now needs a place to live with her daughter. The woman and her husband have the means to help, but is it the right thing to do? Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story. 😰🎢

A Rocky Start to Family Life 🏠

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Family Events Turned Sour 😞

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Erica's Cruel Actions 😡

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Forced to Share, But Not Fair 🎁

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Erica's Teen Pregnancy 🤰

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College Dreams Crushed 💔

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A Strained Relationship with Dad 😔

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Marriage and Financial Success 💍💰

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Parents' Financial Trouble 🏚️

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A Firm Refusal ❌

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Family's Argument 🗣️

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Accusations Fly 🤬

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Stepmother's Family Joins In 📲

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The Dilemma: To Help or Not to Help? 🤷

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Husband's Support 💑

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The Struggle Between Past and Present 🥺

This woman's dilemma is one for the ages. With a history of hurt and exclusion, she's now faced with the choice of helping her stepsister and niece, who need a place to live. Her husband is supportive either way, but the decision ultimately lies with her. Is she being petty for holding onto past grudges, or is it fair to protect herself and her family from someone who caused her pain? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💭

NTA. OP's sassy responses are on point. Don't let entitled family guilt you.

cyfermax | cyfermax

NTA. Commenters suggest stepsister needs to grow up and take responsibility 👏

Wolfenbro | Wolfenbro

Savage yet hilarious response to offering housing. 😂

SpottyMcDotty | SpottyMcDotty

Family can't just decide to be family when they need something. NTA 👍

MissTrish1984 | MissTrish1984

NTA refuses to house abusive family, deserves better treatment 👏

TheGingerCynic | TheGingerCynic

Stepfamily treats husband better, but OP still NTA 👍

Dark_Phoenix25 | Dark_Phoenix25

NTA for refusing to help entitled stepsister and niece. 👏

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Commenter defends their NTA judgment and questions the relationship dynamics 🤔

mouse_attack | mouse_attack

Commenter advises cutting contact with unsupportive family members 👋

aria155 | aria155

No apologies, no support. NTA for standing your ground. 👏

TopaztheBigBoss | TopaztheBigBoss

NTA for not housing stepsister and niece. Curious about college funds 🤔

MissingMyBaby | MissingMyBaby

Woman refuses to house abusive stepsister and niece: NTA 💯

TooTall2Function | TooTall2Function

Commenter supports OP's decision and calls out dad's behavior.

Downtown_Blueberry | Downtown_Blueberry

No relationship, no obligation. NTA 👍

Pinky_Pinneapple | Pinky_Pinneapple

Entitled relatives? NTA commenter shares their thoughts on housing dilemma 🤔

limark | limark

Actions have consequences. NTA for setting boundaries with family. 👍

mimiuniverse | mimiuniverse

Husband's harsh words justified, sister burned bridges. NTA 👍

jpcats | jpcats

NTA refuses to house stepsister and niece, but Becky can't help 😕

fragilemagnoliax | fragilemagnoliax

NTA. Commenter suggests stepsister find job to support family. 👍

Major-Jellyfish-1282 | Major-Jellyfish-1282

OP fears stepsister may sabotage her relationships. NTA. 👍

throwawaybyebestie | throwawaybyebestie

Sister wants free housing? NTA stands up for herself. 👏

HowardProject | HowardProject

Wedding expenses bought family attendance. Is that fair?

cheesykartoffel | cheesykartoffel

User defends OP's decision to not house stepsister and niece

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Stand your ground! 💪🏻

tcsweetgurl | tcsweetgurl

NTA. Toxic family and enabling behavior. Congrats on overcoming challenges 💪

whyamisoawesome9 | whyamisoawesome9

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for saying no. 👍

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Sibling love and care? Not in this situation. NTA.

OregonMrBear | OregonMrBear

Generous offer for housing rejected stepsister, but kindness remains.

OldPolishProverb | OldPolishProverb

NTA stands firm on not housing stepsister and niece 👏

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Stepsister unemployed and niece involved, family tensions rise. 🤔

J_G_B | J_G_B

NTA. Don't let abusive family members guilt you into anything. 👍

Smiley-Canadian | Smiley-Canadian

Don't give in to entitled family. Listen to your gut! 👍

idrow1 | idrow1

NTA for refusing to house stepsister and niece. Emotional trauma justified. 👏

MPH_makeup_and_music | MPH_makeup_and_music

Stepmom's house full? Niece's mom can find another solution. NTA.

FrydomFrees | FrydomFrees

Commenter questions fairness of situation and suggests alternative options. 🤔

melbel50 | melbel50

NTA for not housing stepsister and niece, but family drama ahead 😱

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Protect your property and sanity, NTA 👏

jkashmoney99 | jkashmoney99

Don't owe anything to horrible people. NTA 👍

jabbathehut001 | jabbathehut001

No obligation to house stepsister and niece. Enjoy your life 😊

odirilemoses | odirilemoses

Choosing not to house stepsister and niece: justified or cruel? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Murdy2020 | Murdy2020

Cutting toxic family ties for peace and joy. 👌

dadomi3 | dadomi3

Agree with NTA comment, cut toxic people out 👍

ohyerasofa | ohyerasofa

Live your life and don't let their gossip affect you 😊


Cutting toxic family members out of your life is necessary 👍

TealHousewife | TealHousewife

Commenter suggests family should help instead of blaming OP. 👍

Little-bit_ | Little-bit_

Cutting toxic people out of your life is necessary 👍

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

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